My best friend hates me all of a sudden?
My friend is acting weird all of a sudden and I don't know why. Here's the story. My friend and I were friends since 7th grade ( we're in 10th grade now) and we always hung out and we always laughed at each others jokes. This year we are in a group of friends and she seemed to be getting along better with one of the girls. I really didn't mind since its kinda hard to be BFFs with someone forever and people change. I was a little sad but not that much. Then a few weeks pass and she starts excluding me from everything and made me feel worthless. I stopped hanging out with them for a week. I needed time to think a little bit. One of my friends asked me what's up and I told her that I didn't really feel accepted. I still didn't want to talk to them because well, I didn't quite feel ready to yet. The next day, the whole group shunned me completely. I just left and my "best fiend" acted like she still wanted to be my friend. That same day after school, I asked her why they were acting weird and she told me that I have way too much pride, I don't care about anyone but myself, I brag a lot ( which i asked some people about and they said they didn't notice) and that I should be humble, I hate being wrong and won't admit it if I am and lastly that I should apologize for leaving them. I explained to her why i left and I never felt the same about her again. I feel that she's only hanging out with me because she feels forced to. Even before that week she didn't really show that she cared about me but only the other people in our group. I started asking people if they thought of me this way too but no one did only my BF. a few days ago I actually asked her if she wanted to still be friends and she said yes but in a weird jokingly way and then I asked if she wanted a friend with all of the negative traits she said about me but she didn't want to answer and shrugged her shoulders. I asked again and she said nothing. Today she ignored me completely, pretending that I didn't exist and joking happily with her new BF. I'm sorry if this is too long but please, I really need help with this problem because I don't want to assume something that is not true.
I envy my best friend.?
i love my best friend, but lately ive been so jealous of her. people always compliment her, the boys all call her beautiful which is fine, my bestie is gorgeous. BUT people say we look alike and some say we look like twins (teachers sometimes confuse us for one another )but im her ugly version i guess? people say it in front of me and never compliment me and boys even go as far as telling ME that shes pretty (as if i need their constant reminder) I have a heart shaped face, big brown eyes, with naturally long lashes a small droop to a medium sized nose (hate it) and thin but plum lips olive toned skin and arched eyebrows. i wouldn't call myself ugly but no one ever seems to find me pretty? ive only ever had ONE guy call me pretty and he moved soon after. i love my best friend but shes always getting all these boys and all these people calling her pretty and i just stand there awkwardly. it hurt mt self esteem and this as been happening for a really long time now.(like 5 years and im only 18) we also have very similar personalities since we've known each other for so long and even similar talents . i know she over shadows me but unfriending her is never an option for me. but when im with her i feel like absolute **** she doesnt make me feel bad about myself at all and i only feel like **** when people are around us. shes beautiful and im not. she has a amazing body and i dont. please dont tell me to 'love or accept myself' because TRUST me ive tried to. help me!!!
Am I obsessed with my ex-best friend?
I have this ex-best friend, and we stopped talking to each other about a month ago. We still don't talk, and I really hate her, but I can't seem to get my mind off of her. I always think about her, and it's not like I WANT to talk to her; I don't, but why is it that I find myself thinking about her all the time?
How can I stop being jealous of my best friend?
How? I also had a question like yours for such a long time and now what i realize is that if i am jealous of my friends, maybe he/she is not my best friend. I had a 4-year friend who i haven’t talked anymore just because we were always jealous of each other. I even thought that she was my best friend cuz we spent most of our time together, going out, walking to school and all that. But we never shared our feelings as well as expressing our jealousy. We both showed like we were happy when the other had happy events. All of these things is the indication for our seperation when we went to high school. I still check her SNS to see what she posts everyday and i know she also does that. But we are not best friends anymore or we never were. But in another case, at this moment i have a friend who i just have met for over 1 year. She is really good, always cares for me and helps me in life. I can see her sincerity through her action. And I never feel envious of her. I don’t know exactly why but when you want to become friends, you should try to care about the other’s feeling. Let help them when they have hardships and always hope the good thing will happen in their life cause we are friends. Sometimes we want to lower our friend’s level just to transfigure ourselves or we don’t want to become inferior to our friend so we are jealous of them when good things happen in their life. This is the reason it is very hard to get rid of our jealousy and become close
Could my friend be jealous or envy me?
I have a friend who is married and has a child. She got married at 21 and had her child at 23. We have known each other since fifth grade. We both graduated the same year in 2007 from the same high school. Once she graduated high school she decided to pursue her career in cosmetology school. I on the other hand went to college and recently graduated with a bachelors in science. She graduated two years ago from cosmetology school. We haven't talked for a while so we decided to hang out on Friday and go to the salon. So she asked me what was new with me and I told her I was going to continue my education and go for a Masters in Business Administration. So she told me "do you ever want to have kids". I told her yeah but like around 27 once I finish my career and have everything stable and have achieved my goals. Then she was like oh that's what I though first that I wanted to wait but it is good that I have my baby know because its hard for a women to get pregnant when she is older. I feel sometimes that she is trying to make me lose my focus or is giving me negative advice so that I don't continue my career instead of being happy for me. I don't want to have kids right now because I know how hard is going to be. She has said it has well that is going to take her a while to get her accounting degree (since she is going back to school for accounting) because she has her baby. So why is she trying to give me this advice when she knows how hard this could be for me
My best friend is jealous of my boyfriend. What should I do?
Give your friend time to settle. Ignore this behaivour for a couple if weeks as discussung it with them will cause them to be on the defensive. How many other friends does he/she have? Jealousy is insecurity and if you are not flaunting this relatiinship to make them feel insecure I suggest you confront your friend after a couple of weeks and tell them how you are feeling. You dont feel supported and it really hurts. If they dont change its time to sever ties.