Do you have a lot of friends?
No, and I don't think I need a lot of them. I've almost cut out every fake, fair-weathered, nasty [attitude having], etc. person that I once considered a "friend"... You can't trust* people, at least not too many of them, and it took me awhile to understand/see that.
I've never had a true best friend....?
First of all, you need to have confidence in yourself, and stop trying to find a best friend in every person you meet. This is because, you find best friends at the most unexpected times and situations. What you need to be is get out of your comfort zone, and be more social. Call your friends, be a good listener and try to find the funny sides of every-day situations and just be more cheerful and approachable and try to find stuff that you have in common with people. Show them a refreshing, funny personality, and they'd want to not only be-friend you, but be-bestfriend you hehe. Most importantly though, dude, you need to stop trying and trust me, one day you will find a best friend. :) I really hope this helps answer your question :)
How do I tell my best friend that I don't want to be friends with her anymore? I have already tried the fade out method but it's not working.
It is terrible how poorly you are communicating yourself to your friend. Have you tried talking to her about what exactly is it that bothers you in regards to your relationship? Have you even asked yourself which are your reasons for wanting to end such a friendship? It is important that we understand our own reasoning behind trying to “move on” from people, before we rightfully do so. I find it unfair on your side to simply “fade out” of her life, as she must consider you a friend if she keeps up with such things.Why don’t you talk to her instead? Many of the conflicts we feel are unable to be fixed are so easily sorted through the beauty of conversation. Try to work things out with her if possible, and analyse adequately if what you want to do is leave behind your friendship. Unless she’s a truly toxic and rotting friend, I wouldn’t rule out the possibility of amending any enmities.
Ex-Best Friend Jealous of me?
Are you from Mars? Your English is so bad I could barely understand your question. The first thing I would try is..... grow up, and the second thing would be to tell your friend to... grow up.
I've no friends. Does that mean I am a bad person?
Nope, that means I am a bad person.’Cause I too have none.Well, jokes apart, don't put things that way.Rather, put it clear.Okay, let's accept that you and I have something that doesn't get along with friendship. It might be a flaw in our characters. In my case, I can ensure it is my anger, ego and weirdness that keeps them away.So, first, take some time to introspect.Think out your flaws. No one is going to do this for you firstly because no one will be so brutally honest as only you can be with yourself and secondly because no one but you knows you that well.Then, ponder over the flaws. Why do they reside in you? There must be a reason. For me, these features, no matter how harmful when it comes to personal relations, are my armours that help me strive against all odds, that I'll refrain from explaining in detail, assuming that would be irrelevant here.So, mull it over. Do the flaws help you in some way? Are they necessary, regarding the situations you face everyday?If the answer is positive, then,even if you have to stay alone throughout your life, don't give them up.But, if the answer is negative, then maybe it's the time you seriously considered reshuffling who you are. That's the only way to mend your personal relations, if it really bothers you.Now, you talked about having a best friend, not friends in general.A couple of factors affect the best friendship. You can't force it, much like you can't force love. It happens when it is destined to. You need a high level of understanding and trust, which are far more important than love.Not having a bff doesn't mean you are a bad person, but it means you are somewhat rare and hence phenomenal!Stay like that, man!Very few people out there will be there to accept you as who you are. But, when someone does, they never leave. You withstand the storms and torrents together.So, be yourself. Don't cause harm to anybody and stay cheerful.And, they say books are man's best friends. Wanna try?Stay positive!ß®=^=