I try telling my girlfriend she's beautiful, but she thinks she's ugly and I'm just saying it when I don’t mean it. How can I make her believe me?
I'm a girl, and I can tell you right away to avoid Bill Taylor's answer because it comes from an ignorant, sexist old man and it's a load of bull crap. Also avoid posting photos of her on social media because she likely does not want them there, it could upset her and make her feel worse about her appearance if she is already unhappy with it. (even if the caption is full of compliments, like I'll explain in a moment, it doesn't matter.) It's also illegal to use or post images of a person without their consent. The real answer is because most girls have low self esteem when it comes to appearance, some more than others and some are more vocal about it than others. But in reality, there is pretty much NOTHING you can do to change her mind. This isn't to say she'll have the same opinion of herself forever, but she has to realize she's beautiful for herself. And even a thousand men telling her that she's beautiful every day won't do anything but make it worse. If you really want to make her feel beautiful then stop telling her she is and SHOW her that she is. Listen to her, and do it gladly. Care about her passions. Support her. Be there for her- but don't give her advice unless she asks for it. Basically, just show you care. Because telling her she's physically beautiful likely just reminds her of her insecurities. If you show her you love her for her, her likes her dislikes, her personality, it shows that you care about who she really is. Bringing up a girl's appearance all the time and complimenting her only based on her body seems to me like it's all you care about. Not the person inside of it. If you can't truly do that then maybe she isn't the one for you at all. Even though this won't likely change how she feels about her appearance, it shows her she doesn't have to worry about looking like a model because you care about her personality, and the way she looks is just a bonus.
I hate myself and im sick of having no friends?
No one really likes me at school. I came from a school in 5 dock called rosebank but moved because i had depression. people were making fun of me, they would even stalk me and take pictures of my house. They'd yell at me if i entered the class or yell at me if they see me outside. So anyway i moved to Australian Institute of Music and made 3 friends. but i don't know if they like me. They hang out with the popular people and i have social anxiety so I can't hang out with them. I sit alone on the staircase and cry almost every lunch time and just sit there. I haven't felt happy since i was in year 6 (im in year 11 now). They tell me that they're there for me on facebook but they don't talk to me in real life. One of my friends isnt at school at the moment and she's avoiding me on facebook. well, i think she is. and my other friend who looks at me sitting on the staircase and says hi then she goes to the popular people. I guess im so boring that no one likes me anymore. people only talk to me when im crying having a meltdown or a panic attack. And at least they do, and I appreciate it if they help me, but never talk to me when i feel okay. I never laugh and never smile. Not since i went to rosebank. What do I do? i can't smile at people because it's hard. I just don't feel anything anymore. I have no life and i feel like no one likes me. I've even attempted suicide a couple of times. I know some people kind of care, but they don't hang out with me or anything. I sit and cry every lunch and cut myself all the time. I came close to dying when i jumped infront of the train. (the train stopped before it could hit me) but yeah. I'm considering doing it again but i dont know. I'm scared. How do I make any friends?
Why do people hate honda civics so much?
I have always moddified Honda's and have gotten pretty far doing so. it's true it's a crappy platform to start from but the thing is the fun and excitement for a younger and new to cars person is there and its just something we have to face. I've had multiple Honda's but almost all of mine were over 300fwhp with either a turbo or fully built high compression motors. what people hate is the noise and the ego of those that "mod" their car CHEAPLY! OR have body kits. most thing that their SOHC with an ebay exhaust are faster than Ferrari's which is why Honda has a bad name, and also why i gave up on the older eco friendly civics and got myself and actual sports car from Honda. The Honda S2000. Also people who own muscle cars are not all hillbilly or "white trash". Yes there are some but there are some that own Honda's as well. I've met some cool muscle owners
I legit hate everything about myself...?
Well you're focusing to hard on things you want. Or self-pitying yourself and that's not good. It only makes you see everything darker and that your life sucks and so on. Do other things you haven't thought of doing. Join a club, volunteer somewhere. Go to college if you haven't already, if you can't then oh well. Be happy about yourself. Go to a salon once and ignore your flaws. Call yourself pretty in the mirror whether you believe it or not. Your family is only stressing you out, whether they mean to or not. So just think "Will this be important tomorrow?" or "Why is this important" "Am i giving it too much importance?" etc. In the end everything will resolve, mostly because it'll come to you. It's hard to explain, but when you want something that you were worrying too much about before, but then ignore it, it will come to you. it's hard to explain. If you become happy with yourself and do things that get your mind off of things people will see you happy and it will change everything. Trust me Hope it works :3
I hate oral sex, it makes me violated, kills the mood and I want to curl up and cry anytime it's initiated?
Strictly speaking of receiving (I'm a female). It's not that it's bad, hurts or anything like embarrassment. I just get this overwhelming sensation of being violated and want EVERYTHING sexual to stop. I don't get my malfunction, I have a very caring, gentle and overall loving partner.. I just hate it. It makes me what to vomit. The slurping noises, to the sensation, the look on his face all of it puts me on the defensive and makes me want to run away from the room. Even if I have alcohol in me (to help relax) it just doesn't help. I am dead set against receiving oral sex, I feel like I'm having a psychological break down every time I force myself to endure it, I start to panic and I have to hide the fact I'm crying. I don't get why I'm like this! I want to enjoy it. I love the idea of it, but in practice it goes terrible... What do I do? What could be causing this reaction to happen?
My boyfriend hates that i'm too quiet in bed yet doesn't like the way I moan. What can I do to make this better? Help and advice?
My boyfriend and I have only just started having sex. I was a virgin so I was afraid to make too much noise or sound dumb afterwards he told em to just loosen up. So I stopped worrying about sounding stupid but I still didn't make any noise. Moaning just didn't come naturally to me. My boyfriend was upset with me over being so quiet in bed so I tried to fake moans the next time we did it. That pissed him off more because he says they sound fake. I tried to convinc him that it feels good but I know he was thinking that I didn't like it or whatever. My boyfriend is getting more and more angry with me because I'm either not moaning or my moans are too fake sounding. Guys is it really that bad to have a quiet person in bed? Ladies have any of you dealth with this kind of thing? Is there anything I can do besides moan (he hates to hear me dirty talk because he says it makes me seem like a "cheap whore" so that's out of the question) I'm not nervous during sex anymore so that's not it but could not be a psychological reason why I don't make noise? Sorry if that seems ridiculous I just have no idea what to think anymore. Some advice and opinions would be nice