Should I tell my guy friend I like him? And How?
When it comes to telling the other about their feelings, guys and girls have the same fear. I think guys don't have as difficult of a time as girls do when it comes to not feelings the same way. In my experience, most girls get uncomfortable and tend to push the guy away. Guys can generally blow it off as long as you never really push the issue again. Try being more affectionate with him, don't be clingy or anything, just be a little more touchy feely. See how he reacts, If he tries to avoid your affection or becomes aggravated with you, Its not a good sign. If he is accepting of your need to cuddle, it means he is really comfortable with you and could have feelings or at least be receptive to taking things a step further. He might get the hint, but he might not. Just let him know how you feel. Tell him you cherish him as a friend and you wanted to be honest with him. If he doesn't feel the same way, he might later on down the road. We're pretty big dummies sometimes, and after given a chance to think about it, we'll come around. Just don't push it, let him figure it out for himself. What do you have to lose? Its his last year of school, don't let him slip away. Better to fail that to regret what could have been. You never know, he may be thinking the same way you are.
Feelings for my best guy friend?
The same thing happened to me, and I was sooo torn. I never ended up telling him, and I'm so glad. He ended up being a jerk, so we stopped bein friends altogether. BUT I'm sure your friend is a good guy by the way you talk about him. Because of what you said at the end on the two extremes of guy best friends, I would say wait it out. Give it time. If you tell him and he doesn't feel the same way things will get really weird between you guys, and if he ends up with the girl he likes after you tell him then it would be weird. The best you can do right now is maybe be slightly flirty. Do NOT over do it, but make him more interested in you. Act the same way you do now, because that's why he likes you as a friend right now, because you're you and you're compatible. You may just have the feeling of liking him just because he's so perfect as your best friend. I'm assuming you are somewhere around my age (I'm 16) and any age a little older or a little younger - we are not mature enough to fully & responsible handle serious relationships. Best guy friends are very delicate & it's tough to lose that. If you stay patient & wait it out, your feelings will continue to develop. They may get stronger and you may find yourself liking him more, or they may fade away & things will go back to normal. See how things go with him as well. Over time everything will fall into place. If your feelings continue for the next few months (I know that's a long time, but it will be worth it and he will be in your life that long anyway), then you should tell him about it. Until then, just keep things how they are. Maybe you could flirt some, but like I said - dont overdo it. If you do decide to tell him, make sure you are prepared for the possible outcomes. If he feels the same way, are you ready to take on the responsibility of a relationship? Say it doesn't work out and you break up? You will lose your best friend and your boyfriend. If he doesn't feel the same way, you have to pretend things are the same and maybe it will or maybe it won't. Things may get awkward and you may lose him forever. Or if he does feel the same way and it works forever and you get married.. See that's a long time & that's a big commitment. He means a lot to you as a friend, I wouldn't risk it. It's up to you! Good luck, I hope this helped!
I'm a guy, and falling in love with my bestfriend. bdw, he's a guy and straight, what should I do?
we've been friends for a year, and I'm slowly falling in love with him. It hurts me sometimes, when he talks about girls coz i cant be that one, I really do like him. I was thinking to let go of this feelings, maybe its just crush but... everytime i'm alone, All I think about is him. I was thinking of moving away from him and to stop our communication, in that way i could move on further. But I really cant... everyday we're always together, we do things together and I really love to be with him. If I can't see him in a day it seems my day is not complete. I dont want either to tell him how i feel because if he knows what I feel for him, he may be the one to keep the distance between us and it maybe difficult for me to accept that. Right now, he's courting a girl and talks to/consults me about her a lot. It really really hurts me, but I still give good advice on how for them to become lovers. I'm really torn.... can someone give me good advise?
Is my friend gay, he is always feeling me up?
My best friend and me at my school always sit next to each other at lunch times, and he is always rubbing my thighs and my dick when he sits next to me, as well as always touching me and sometimes sits on my lap a bit, he sort of acts like he's joking, but he really enjoys it and basically sits with his hand rubbing my legs the whole time, he dosn't know i'm gay but i dont really stop him lol. he's a really cute asian boy (my favourite). do u think he is?
Told a friend that I liked her and she said she didn't feel the same way. Afterwards, she said I wouldn't have trouble getting over her because she's "nothing special". Why would she say this?
She cared about your feelings and was trying to comfort you. She didn’t want you to feel bad. That’s nice of her. She was probably not meaning to put herself down. It could be that she actually feels insecure, but it’s hard to say unless you ask her. You could do that. Just ask, “Hey, I have a question. You said you’re ‘nothing special.’ I don’t agree, and I’m curious about why you would say that. Were you just trying to comfort me or do you really believe that?”
My best friend and I love the same guy and we're open with each other about it. Today, we found out he might be polyamorous. What do we do next?
I going to go out on a limb and assume you’re pretty young because loving someone you’re not already in a relationship with isn’t love, it’s a crush or an obsession or some other temporary fleeting feeling that one feels before reality hits them. My recommendation is to leave the situation alone if you and your “best” friend want to remain friends.Most non-committed guys are not polyamorous, they’re simply willing to have sexual relationships with multiple people at the same time, and he probably doesn’t care in the slightest about your relationship with your friend. That sort of situation is not in any way what would be described as a consensual polyamorous relationship, which is honest and open between all parties as well as everyone’s intentions and almost never starts how you’re describing. What you’re describing is some dude who’s high fiving his friends because he thinks he’s going to have endless threesomes or guaranteed sex with multiple women without any strings attached.
I am secretly in love with my best guy friend. He never shows any sign that he feels the same. But sometimes, when we’re together (even in public), he takes my hand and holds it. What does that mean?
Find out the things that made you fall in love with him. If you are completely sure that he doesn’t feel the same for you then avoid doing anything that would make you fall for him even more. If you can not help yourself in avoiding those things then your best bet is to confront him about what you feel for him and the reasons that made you feel so. Ask him to stop doing certain things if he doesn’t feel the same. What if he feels the same for you? and if not then you will be relieved that you made yourself clear and you may not fall for him to an extent where it will not be easy to come back.P.S.- Holding hands is just a simple gesture, it could also mean that he cares about you or he likes holding hands.