I miss my ex-best friend :(?
I and my best friend are mad on each other for about 6 months and we still don't talk.I got mad on her for real reason and she got mad on me because of that..Now she has a new 'best friend',and everywhere she is writing that she loves her very much or something like that..They do stuffs together,go out,go shopping,the same thing I did with her when we were friends..It hurts me because it seems that she forget me and all things we do...Also when we are alone,she try to talk to me,she found something just to be close to me...I don't know what she is thinking,does she miss me like I did or she just don't bother??heelp
I still miss my ex-best friend...?
3 years ago (when I was in grade 9) some other boy my best friend knew started to hang out with us at school... and a few months after that I noticed some different things about my best friend... One bad thing led to another, and he started smoking and drinking, and he stopped hanging out with me. Its been 3 years already, and I barely see him anywhere... I really REALLY miss him alot, even though I never show it. I'm too scared to ask his parents how its going with him, coz they might tell him that I asked... I assume he doesn't want anything to do with me anymore, that's why I don't keep in touch with his family anymore... his family was like my second family, they were always there for me. I sometimes ask some friends of mine who keep in touch with him how he's doing, but that's the closest I can come to knowing how he's doing. we've been friends for more than 5 years, and lately I can't stop worrying about him. Yeah, I'm a guy. And yes, I am gay, but I'm not in love with him. He's still my friend, even though I'm not his. So my actual question is: HOW CAN I STOP WORRYING ABOUT HIM SO MUCH AND ACCEPT THE FACT THAT IM NOT HIS FRIEND ANYMORE (or something like that...)?
How do I get over my ex-best friend?
That's tough. Sometimes a falling-out is resolvable and sometimes it's not. EitherIf you messed up then find a way to apologize. If it's their fault and you believe it's something that can be resolved then I suggest you sit down and really think things through before meeting up with them. If it's too hot of a subject to touch right now because then give it some time to settle and wait until you feel ready to talk about it (or when they're ready).If you want to work it out:Reflect over what went wrong. Analyze the situation from both points of view. Where did it go wrong? Is this a friendship worth saving or is the other person too toxic? Is your life better if you just cut ties? Be honest with yourself. Could you have done something different? Did you take them for granted? Did they take you for granted? Or were you both at fault?Then once you've come to your conclusion you can approach them and be honest with what you feel went wrong. Listen to how they feel and what they think. Together come to a possible resolution.If you want no future contact with this person:You're probably going to go through the grieving process.It's going to hurt even if the other person is at fault because you're going to miss the person you thought they were. You're going to miss the unique bond between you two. With every person you meet you develop a unique relationship, so you're going miss things about that person that are unique quirks of that person. It's best to just allow yourself to feel the pain and allow yourself to the grieve the relationship. Accept why that person is no longer in your life and focus on all the other positive things in your life. All the other great people. Find peace within yourself and make goals for yourself (even if they're little goals). With each new goal reward yourself and you’ll probably meet new great people along the way.Thanksfor the A2A!
I miss my ex-best friend ALOT? :(?
I went thru a really deep depression too when that happened. And im not going to tell you that things get better after awhile. You are still going to miss her and it sucks. What i did was try and distract myself and work on other friendships. But again it wont make the missing her part go away. If you want try and reach out to her one more time. What do you hav to lose? Another rejection, youve been thru that already. I gave up hope but one day i decided to txt my exbff and she responded and agreed to talk. Now we r working on our new friendship again, but its going great :) i think youll b ok! <3
How do you know if you miss your ex or your best friend?
How do you know? This seems OBVIOUS to me, DO you? Are they 2 different people? or the same? I miss my bestfriend but he wasn't mine, I miss the laughter, the things we did or didn't, the conversations, the feeling I was ok with him. I miss someone because of the good they brought to my life. Do you miss them both due to lack of company, or a unfilled space in your heart?
Do you ever miss your ex best friend?
I am a woman and my ex best friend stabbed me in the back during my sophomore year of college. We were friends since elementary school. After several back stabbing things that had happened over the year, she finally did something so mean to me that I completely lost it on her and we both promptly cut all ties and our friends even took sides because they were too scared to be in middle ground (that's how bad the fight was, noone stayed neutral even though we didn't make them chose sides). It's been almost 4 years and for some reason I still think about her all the time and wonder how she is doing. I ran into her 2 years ago in our hometown, but chose to say nothing to her and she did the same. I know I shouldn't care about her especially after she hurt me so much, but for some reason I still miss her. I have made a few friends since the incident but noone I can call a best friend that I have truly connected with. Is it normal to miss your best friend, even if she totally wronged you? Does anyone else feel that way. I want to move on but I keep thinking about her and all my former friends that took her side and now hate me and I get so bummed out about it...but at the same time I don't want to reach out to her because I don't want to get back stabbed like that ever again and I know she is still hostile towards me. How do you move on from missing an ex best friend?
Should i tell my ex Best friend i miss her?
She was the most amazing friend i had. We had so much fun together. We were so close that we just called each other sisters. I miss her so much and i don't know if I should just tell her or how to go about telling her or just leave it alone. She has a new best friend now and me and her new best friend chit-chat sometimes.How we ended being friends was that she stopped calling me and when i would call she would say her phone was broken. A few months later she talked to me just about a story she was writing in class and she wanted to know if it was okay to use my name. But i miss her like crazy.What should I do?
I really miss my ex best friend?
We sound a lot a like! A lot of people have felt what you're feeling right now and I was in the exact situation. In middle school I didn't have friends because I had been social anxiety, acne and a love for a video game that I liked to believe was real (ugh the past is horrible). I was not like the other kids. Why this girl became friends with me...I don't really know. But we had so many good times I didn't have to worry about it. As time went on she became sort of...different. She changed from the popularity and the boyfriends, while I stayed that weirdo who couldn't tell fantasy from reality. She became the person I was afraid of. She would call me retard, fat ***, *****, ugly, loser....so many names. She even told me she would be popular if she wasn't friends with me, which was probably true. I left her, finally, my sophomore year, telling her all she did was ditch me and treated me like crap. When I told her I felt alive, but so quickly I died again. Because suddenly I was alone again. Suddenly going to the movies, eating Chinese at our favorite place, just walking around the mall laughing together, it didn't exist. Your mom is so right on this. You don't miss that toxic, stuck up low life, you miss those memories. They're so bitter sweet and so poisonous like she was. Can I tell you something, you may never relive those memories, but that's okay. Because there will always be memories to make, if you stop dwelling on what was. I wanted to go back to my friend someday, hell I want to message her on Facebook and I almost have a few months ago, but I didn't. Because that's the past. And I ruin the beauty of the future with it. Take some time, look for some new friends and find them, which is what I did. Don't think you'll always find them at school, because sometimes you find what you're looking for in the weirdest of places. :)