If you be completely honest with yourself, have you ever been truly happy?
Yes but these are just moments of happiness. You cannot be happy for long amounts of time that is just not the way things work. The human body needs consistency, it will always try to bring you back down to a neutral level. Think of it this way your body needs a consistent temperature not too hot and not too cold so when you get too hot you sweat to cool down. when you get to cold you shiver to create heat. If you have too much of one or the other you will die so your body always tries to bring you back to a constant. It works like this in many ways. Many dieters know that your body always wants to maintain a certain weight. Your emotions work the same way, when you feel happy it is a chemical response from your body sort of a thumbs up from your brain. When you are sad it is a thumbs down. People try to alter the amount of chemicals released but homeostasis (consistency) will set in and bring you down to normal levels. Why would my body want to keep me in the middle you might ask. If you were always happy wouldn't you not be motivate to do things. Isn't the main goal of everything we do to create pleasure and happiness in ourselves or others, or to decrease sadness and pain. If you were always happy why would you do anything. Another thing to remember is life does not need to revolve around sexuality. Despite what the world says beautiful women/men and sexual acts will not make you a happier person. How do you become happy? Basically you shrug off the bads and live up the goods. :)
Girls, do you like guys who are completely honest?
Definitely want them to be entirely honest, but in a polite way. If my *** really does look huge in those pants, don't you dare lie to me! :D However, there is a difference between "YEAH, DON'T WEAR THOSE..." and "They don't compliment your body how they should." And I really like when guys are honest about how they really feel about things that are going on...if they're jealous of a guy I hang out with all the time, I want to know! Honestly is much appreciated (:
When you’re completely honest with yourself, how do you answer the question, “What the hell is wrong with me?”?
I used do a lot of things actually that brought that question to me very frequently. Most of the time either I was not able to comprehend my own actions or wasn't able to explain them to others. Because of that, I often ended up feeling perplexed and weird about myself.One day I realised that the same actions that made me feel weird, some people were totally fine with it. Even if they couldn't explain it, they were fine. Like duh! I am just a human. Let me live.Similarly, somethings that I was totally cool with like putting out views honestly were considered bizarre by many people.That is when I stopped having those questions.It's not about wrong or right. It's about who you are. About your own unique self. About your own interests and personality traits.I am not saying that self analysis and improvement is not important but we don't need to bash ourselves constantly to live up to some unrealistic expectations that we or others have set for us!So, whenever that question pops up in your mind again, just look in the mirror, smile at yourself and say, “I am a perfectly flawed human being!”.P.S.: This is a very simple answer. If this question affects you a lot and you seriously think that there is something wrong with you, you need to talk to people about it. Someone you think can understand your situation and help you overcome your insecurities.Thank You!
Is it good to be completely honest with the interviewer?
Well, it is really STUPID to be “completely” honest with the interviewer, instead, tell them things that they want to listen. Like when u will face an interview, a common question comes:Q. Why do u want to change your current profession/Organization?For most of us, true reasons are:I want a change coz my current job sucks.I want my wallet to become heavier, need more money.Want a more comfortable job profile.I want more freedom to do my job.My boss is making my life a hell.I have made a mess in my current organization.My role in the organization is so petty that it seems that the “Peons” of my top bosses (VP,ED, CEO) are more important than me.My image as a professional is so shitty that it is nearly impossible to get a promotion.My company is like a shithole in the market and if i will be associated with this company, my career would be doomed.Imagine if u will be “completely” honest in the interview, u would be instantaneously out of the room.Instead, try to convince him that u need to change the current organization for things like :For GrowthTo Enhance skillsTo get OpportunitiesFor new ChallengesFor renewed MotivationTo improve salary…u can add this also, but at the least priority..All D Best!!!
Am I cynical to believe no one is completely honest?
No, you aren’t.You are right about people manipulating/tweaking information in their favor. It sometimes happens without any effort, when you are used to it. And the problem is people don’t even realize it because according to them they are not lying, just ignoring some information.But, it will only do you harm if you ponder too much on that - understand that people do that, and accept it.
If you were guaranteed an honest answer from Trump, what would you ask him?
Mr President, America has already won the trade with China. Chinese products that Americans consume at large quantities, at prices lower than Americans would have to pay if the product was produced by other Countries anyway . The manufacture jobs in the USA was long considered uncompetitive due to high labor cost would be best left with the Chinese. Moreover, USA has made them rich through trade, it's turned China into a nation of consumers who have a strong appetite for American made products. Mr. President, one stone many birds. Don't screw it up by shooting yourself in the foot.
Why do people say “to be completely honest with you”? Does that mean they were being dishonest prior to saying that?
I am sure there are different views on this question, but one view I would like to share is a view that is discussed by James Pennebaker in The Secret Life of Pronouns: What Our Words Say About Us. Pennebaker is a social psychologist who has studied the relationship between language use and personality characteristics. In his book, he specifically discusses the types of phrases you are asking about (to be completely honest, I want you to know, and other politician speak). He refers to them as performatives (not his own term) and explains that they are very often present when someone is being anything but honest. I found the following clip to be very interesting, but if you want to know more, I highly recommend reading the book.
If you were given the liberty to be completely honest in a job interview and were asked "where do you see yourself in five years from now?", what would be your real and honest answer?
I have a problem with the premise here.Interviewees do not have to give any particular type of answers. This may be a reflection of the kind of people you interacted with on this topic.Interviewers do not want to hear well-fabricated and fancy answers. Just put yourself in the shoes of an interviewer. Would you not get bored of listening to the same answers in no time? Also, would you not realize that the interviewee does not actually believe what he is saying, and he is saying those things just to “please” you? Would you still hire such a candidate?Come on, give the interviewers some more credit.I have interviewed various kinds of people in my career thus far. I have always found the candidates who appeared genuine and were able to sell themselves well to be the best suited. Certainly not those who gave “textbook” answers.An example: For a question asking an interviewee for his weakness, I have seen many people try to disguise a strength as a weakness. “I am too much of a perfectionist. I like to get my deliverables perfect in all regards. While doing this I sometimes end up spending longer hours in office to get the work done on time.”Notice how this answer showcases a strength (perfectionist), and also goes on to claim that the only negative impact of this weakness was spending a couple of hours more in the office. He does not even miss deadlines. In other words, he is trying to showcase himself as being the perfect employee.I have heard [some version of] this answer hundreds of times. I cringe every time I hear this answer. So, again I say: Come on, give the interviewers some more credit.To answer your main question: Five years down the line, I see myself as an established expert and a go-to person in my field. While I manage a turnover that is 10x of my current levels.
Muslims, help! I have questions that I need answered!?
Alcohol is haram as u know it..........it leads to all evil acts where as maturbation..... WHILE IN ISLAM............... masturbation is haraam(SIN)! The Holy Prophet called the one who satisfies himself with his hand a mal'oon - accursed! My dear friend ..masturbation leads to zinah ( sex before marriage)..n u knw zinah in one of the best of all evilz .....and also it negetive effects are much more when compared to its positive effects which is abt few secoundz or ...here non-muslims 99% of them will say its k its gd fr health n stuff they do it fr pleasure even i fink their religion permits them to do so. Also because during masturbation you will fantasies a woman who is not your wife....n it will lead u to have sex with a women without marrying her...and further more the sperm ejaculates with force, Ghusl becomes obligatory in that case and if u die whitout doing ghusl u ll be impurified n will die unpurified same as a death of a non-believer..who never does gusl weather its materubation or sex .......You should control on your mastur-bation habbit. Instead of masturbation it is advise to get marriage as early as possible. and physically it effects ur eyes, ur health, brings weakness u feel weak ...and mst f its effects are seen wen u grow older....and dont feel while materubating that no one is watching Allah the almighty is laways watching you and ur acts will be shown on the day of judgement....if nt fr anything bt because of this fear u should stop it.......bst f luck God said in the holy qur'an: Those who guard their sexual organs except with their spouses or those whom their right hands possess, for (with regard to them) they are without blame. But those who crave something beyond that are transgressors.” (Al-Mu'mun: 5-7) and masturbation falls under the category of those who seek fulfillment of their sexual desires outside the framework of marriage. 5 time daily prayers are farz( compulsory for every muslim who is mature ) now a days i think frm 12 r 13 yrz f age u should start praying and when u grw abt 16 -17 onwards its compulsary no excuses.. And abt the tv show its better not to watch it................