I sicken myself, I need help?
Seek counseling if you have to, like a therapist. There is nothing wrong with seeking professional help if you have these sorts of problems that constantly nag at you. If anything, you'll be doing the right thing and being very courageous and taking bold steps in over overcoming these things. You could be saving your life and everyone elses as well before it gets worse enough, if you know what I mean. Just take that leap of faith and stick with it, and I'm sure you won't regret it. Believe me, I've had my fair share of disturbances like that too, but talking to others and taking cognitive behavioral approaches I feel has greatly benefitted me and I'm glad I took those steps. You admit you have a problem, and that's the first step to recovery. Now take those other steps and act now! I'm sure you'll get it sorted out. P.S.: I'm sorry to know about the loss of your father.
I need help comparing myself to water!?
a drip from a faucet - small on its own, but over time, it grows. pools - attract friends for fun? rivers - freedom. In what ways do you like to express yourself? flavored water - many different varieties. They add something to water. There's a lot of different varieties, so maybe you could compare each flavor to a different character trait..such as the sweetness of strawberries or the sourness of lemon...compare that to your personality. For rain, you might want to expand on how it is vital for survival to so many things. You could compare that to how your helpful to people in your life. lol I've never had to do anything like this, but it sounds interesting. Hope I helped at least a little! Good luck! :)
I need help to get myself and my newborn out of a verbally, emotionally, sometimes physically abusive relationship. We are not married, but I have no money or family. How do I start to get away from this?
Unless you are ever in immediate danger, you have to plan ahead somewhat. Find a friend or neighbor who you think would take you in briefly in an emergency. If your partner threatens you and your baby, get out immediately.Whatever you do, try not to let on that you're planning your escape. Keep it to yourself. This is for your safety. If you have any sort of money in your hands, secretly stash away what you can. Even a minimal amount is helpful and better than nothing.Some areas have shelters or homes for women who are in your situation. Find out online or wherever you're able to find such a place. Check with local, county or state agencies. There may be people in your area who are willing to house people on your shoes and help them get on their feet.If you have a suitcase or the like, pack several essentials for you and the baby. Hide it well. It will be available to you if you have to leave at a moment's notice.Of course, you have to try to remain calm and act as is everything's “normal.” Don't let on or slip and say something in anger about leaving. You can do this. Others have and so can you. Remember your first and foremost priority is keeping your baby and their mother, YOU, safe and free of abuse.God bless you and give you strengrh and courage.
How can I help others when I need help myself?
Dear Quoran, First you need to help and improve yourself, then only you will be able to help others. Following are some suggestions :-Make yourself busy. Start doing some work. If you're just sitting idle, you will just keep thinking of something or the other, continuously running your mind, which will make you suffer. The same time can be used for doing valuable things.Sports and hobbiesStart taking part in outdoor sports and other activities like swimming, etc. Also if you have some hobbies go ahead and follow them.Become socially active Talk with people. Try to make new friends. Engage in conversation with new people. Start attending social gatherings. This will not only increase your social circle, but also you will gain confidence and start enjoying the company of others.Volunteer/ Help otherWork for some organization that helps the poor and the needy. Try to help others. By doing this you will help yourself as you will gain satisfaction and self contentment by helping others. Also, you may bring a smile to someone's face which is priceless :)Meditation (most important)And also, if you want, You could try doing meditation. It is really nice thing to meditate as it gives joy, bliss and happiness from within.If you want you could try SAHAJA YOGA meditation. It is the easiest one, you won't even need to do much efforts and it's totally FREE. It will help you alot (physically, mentally, emotionally and in all other aspects of your life).Wish you all the best !
I need help!!! telling my brother i cut myself?
I admire the strength you've found to be open and honest here, in front of the entire world. Do the same with your brother. No matter how aggravated the problem is, he will always love you and be there for you, to support you, to counsel you, to hug you, even to kick your butt when you deserve to, but he will always love you and be your best friend. Count on that, despite his shock and possibly angry initial response. Don't expect him to be the miracle solution, though; he will be your strongest support in going through the next steps of getting out of the hole you're in through therapy and work on solving the issues causing the depression. Ask him to help you get started on therapy. There's a whole lot out there just waiting for you to get this darkness out of your mind.
If I'm a rapist, do I need help about how to control myself and respect others?
Ok frst thing stop watching porn or atlst stop watching sister porns I know u do.....nxt thing maybe ur hatred towards her encourage wt u do....u hav to respect her stop hating her.....try to tell ur dad BUT ONLY IF HE IS LIKE UR FRND N IS UNDERSTANDING ...masturbate before sleep not during sleep when she is beside u....this will make sure tht u dnt hv energy during sleep...try to sleep facing away from her in a seperate blanket....or better opposite side (like ur head should be on her leg side but still face away from legs) get urself bzy...u got studies to do...r u an indian? Is ur sister visually attractive? Try to understand what she will be feeling that her own brother who she could look to in difficult times is doing like this....u hv to understand relation btw sister n brther is pure...one mistake n literally ur whole life is destroyed...do u want to live ur life without having a sister( the only female frnd u hv who is always there whn ur parents scold u badly ) ? Think about it....nxt thing about sniffing.....u hv no idea what kind of diseases u r spreading by
I have lost myself somewhere Quorans and I need your help. What should I do?
I used to have that feeling sometime back. Then I came across this:All that is gold does not glitter,Not all those who wander are lost;The old that is strong does not wither,Deep roots are not reached by the frost.From the ashes a fire shall be woken,A light from the shadows shall spring;Renewed shall be blade that was broken,The crownless again shall be king.I have pasted this at my home and my office where I can see it whenever I want. It does help me a lot. I hope it might help you too.I used to feel worthless some time back, was having panic attacks and depression (though I never believed but according to Doctors). Then, I decided to take back hold of my life.This I did by changing my daily routine. I was not doing any exercise. I started doing exercise. I starting finishing the works which were left incomplete. I started reading books again. I started playing games again. I started doing those things again which used to give me pleasure. I started doing MEDITATION.Do not stay lonely out there. Just find a friend, a mentor or someone with whom you can share your stuff.Do not compare your life with others. If you are healthy, have a roof over your head, have food to eat, then, believe me, you are better than a great lot. You just need to take charge of your life. Focus on what you want to achieve and remove distractions. Be the captain of your ship. Don’t give up. Listen to good music, watch good movies and start afresh. Every day is a new start. Take Charge, Live Large!Hope that might help.
Should I really help others when I myself need help but nobody responds me?
What difference does it make if two countries don’t talk to each other?look at KoreaThey are going to be always the same, if not hurting & thinking ill or other, unless one decides to sow seeds of goodwill, to make first move towards resolution.Fight, hatred, disrespect, or whatever you say, never has provided with anything.But if you try to be good person, always helpful, that will make a character of yourself, and when others need help, you are also resolving conflict if that is not the case, maybe just do what you can.You need to do what you can do for others and forget, life is too small to hold onto grudges. You may keep making knots which may become harder to untie later on.Grill man’s gotta grill- Waffle Street