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I Need New People To Talk To Alot Of Mine Are Borng

Are taurus boring people?

I find them boring; in fact, I do believe they are the most boring sign in the Zodiac..but that's only my opinion.

A dish of cold mashed potatoes has more personality than a Taurus.

How to talk to women without being boring?

Every girl is different. So you'll have to get yourself out there and talk about a variety of things to find out any similar interests. Once you do, talking about things will be a lot easier. But to start off.. Some safe bets are social things. You don't want to talk about clothing, or hair much because that'll make you seem gay. (sadly ):) But talk about social life. The people around you. (without being rude to anyone, turn off!) Social Media as well, movies, music, if there's any HUGE celebrity stories or media stories in general. ex. Whitney Houston's death.. maybe she has an opinion on that. Also her general life and a bit of your life. School or work, etc. Maybe ask her some of her favourite things, like favourite food as well.
Don't talk about yourself to much. It gets annoying. But talk about yourself a bit. That way you seem interesting.. tell her the most interesting things you have had happen to you. one at a time, and keep it short. don't go spatting off your whole life story the first time you talk to her for an hour.
Anyway you just need to relax. There's a lot of things to talk about. But you should know what type of person she is first. For example, she's a girly girl that doesn't seem all that into sports? Then that may not be a good first topic...

I like the idea of talking to someone, but I get bored after 30 seconds of listening to them. Is this normal?

This is not rare, but it is not common enough to be considered normal, either.  Let's dissect your question by rephrasing the key points:  You like talking to others, but you do not like listening to them. That is what you have said in your question.  You have not contradicted yourself, but I think you have not fully realised the importance of what you have said either. To me, what it implies you're not entering conversations as part of a mutual exchange of information.  What you want, really, is an audience.  What you have to say is more important to you than what they have to say.  I want you to ask yourself: Am I thinking about the people I talk to as having minds like mine, complex inner worlds like mine, or am I thinking of them only in terms of how they relate to me?  Am I considering how they feel about me, or only how I feel about them? I only know what you've written here, but my first guess would be that you don't conceptualise other people in the same way you think about yourself.  But they ARE fundamentally the same.  There's a lot more going on in their minds than in their speech.  They're probably bored because you are talking to them without being interested in them, and are consciously or subconsciously giving you a taste of your own medicine. Try to remember, when you talk to people, that they ARE people.  If you continue to have trouble, you should see a psychologist.

Is it impossible to make outgoing people get into hobbies like drawing and why do they think..all is boring?

I was in art school for 4,5 years... And I can say a lot of my friends are partygoers too. So, no, I don't think it's impossible.

But I suppose you're correct about those kind of people prefer something social and think everything is boring. At least when those friends of mine draw/design/or doing whatever they're supposed to do, they always have a gathering of some sort, maybe in someone's apartment, talking and laughing while working. And they rarely work on same type of work twice, because they're bored and sick of it. But that also promote creative thinking if directed in the right place, especially experimental arts...

Have you ever go to an advertising company? I went to one on my 3-months internship. That place is filled with socially-creative individuals. I do enjoy the the working athmosphere there, but resent the backstabbing anyway.

So, I think if you create the right atmosphere, they can be a really creative people! Art is about interaction anyway.. But they do REALLY care about peer pressure and all that, so you better get a whole group or you won't get any of them with you.

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