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I Really Hate School Anxiety

Hate school because of anxiety problems!?

I have problems reading aloud, giving presentations and speeches. Whenever I go to school, I always get scared that teachers will ask me to read aloud! It started happening from last year but ever since this year has started, it's just getting worse and worse! I had to have the whole week off of school because I felt soo sick about the whole situation and all of a sudden, the reading aloud stuff is just getting way to often! I've tried everything, talked to teachers to get help, tried going to a speech class, nothing has helped me!!! I'm worried that a college won't even take me in and neither will any university because we have to do presentations quite often or do you think they'll let me off? (I wanted to go in to either medicine or something related to science) I stutter, get sweaty, can't even hardly breath or talk properly, I know it sounds like such a silly thing to be worried about, but if you have the problem, you will know how it feels. I want to ask, do you think I should let all my teachers or get the school counsillor to tell all my teachers never to pick me out or make me do presentations/speeches. Also, do you think they'll even let me in to university and college without having to do any presentations/speeches or reading aloud? I'm very confident with friends and not shy with new people at all, it's just when I get picked out specially in class, I really cannot do it! Sorry for such a long question, thanks in advance though.

I really hate school? Anxiety?

Hi Krissy
i want to make it clear that when you will start going to college in your future you just automatically forgot about school it is a fact as you were much more busy in college
now the important point when you will go to job or bussiness in future nobody will know what happened with you in your past they just demand you to be more courageous mature confident and brave and you also require these qualities to move forward and become successful the most beautiful manner just have unwavering faith in god and remember if you take one step towards god [in the form of prayer & love ] then god takes 1000 steps towards you it is a fact and you will be able to know it sooner or later & find out that you are a part of god and he always encourage you to fight these tough times so in future when you will find how you succeed inspite of tough times you will find yourself to be much more confident than ever before
you have to try your best to be happy by changing your focus to those activites which makes you feel happy like comedy movies ,listining to your faviourite music or going to garden play your favourite games and smiling ,the fact is that what we are thinking most of the time we are attracting that thing again and again so we have to change our thinking patterns at first it may seem to be very very odd but it is a fact you can be helped about it tremoundously by the books on you tube as movie /audio book "the secret " followed by "the power" by rhonda bryne which is about law of attraction and is about the above fact which if you applyyou can do miracles
keep smiling
all the best : )

I have major social anxiety. I really want to be home schooled, but I don't want to leave everyone at my school. What should I do?

I had trouble in school, I was pulled out to homeschool at a young age, and went back for freshman year. Maybe if you're older already it won't make as much of a difference. But when I went back to school after not being around peers alot may be the cause of my anxiety, or has worsened it. You don't want to let yourself get used to being alone. It'll be that much harder to go do things you need to down the road. If I could go back and tell myself something I would have told me to suck it up and stay in school. It would have payed off in the long run.

I hate school?

I hate school so much with a burning passion. There is so many reasons so i'll just list them out. I know education is important but I hate school.
1. They put useless stuff in your brain
2. I feel hopeless and lost at school
3. I'm very angry, anxious, depressed, moody, self conscious, and overall not happy there (i'm happy anywhere but school)
4. The lunch makes you want to puke
5. Too much Stress and it caused me issues
6. No one understands you
7. Only a small amount of friends care
8. Too much work
9. Too many rules
10. The dress code makes you feel like sh*t
11. It's a mess
12. Way too many people
13. very loud
14. and more other crap

I know that school is a good source of education but it's not working for me. My parents won't home school me and they tell me just to deal with it. I had a mental breakdown today at school and I just can't do it anymore.

I hate school?

So I'm 14 years old and I have anxiety and depression issues.So I go to a public high school and I'm a freshman and I absolutely hate it.I can never focus in school the kids are awful and the teachers are mean/annoying.I really have trouble in school and I'm on an iep for extra help but it's just not working out for me.I really wish I could go to school at home or an online school or something so I could actually pass and not be so frustrated in school.Im afraid to ask my mom to do this though because she might think I'm saying it because I'm lazy and I don't wanna do school work.But that is not the case at all school is very stressful for me and I have a learning disability doing school work at home instead of at a school with other kids would help so much.My dad thinks I make up my depression and anxiety and he says I'm doing it for attention and that I'm just not trying hard at all in school.But the truth is I've been working really hard but school is just absolutely hard is there anyway I could do school at home if anyone can help it will be appreciated.

Anxiety over school assemblies?

It sounds like you may be suffering from something called Agoraphobia. Here is some information that may be helpful.

1) Try not to avoid feared situations. It's hard to go to places or be in situations that make you uncomfortable or that bring on symptoms of anxiety. But practicing going to more and more places does make them less frightening and anxiety-provoking. Family, friends and your therapist can help you work on this.
2) Learn calming skills. People with agoraphobia are overwhelmed with worry about losing control or having a panic attack. Working with your health care professional, you can learn how to calm and soothe yourself. You can practice these skills on your own, especially at the first hint of anxiety.
3) Practice relaxation techniques. Meditation, yoga and imagery are among the simple relaxation techniques that may help — and you can do them in the comfort of your own home. Practice these techniques when you aren't anxious or worried, and then put them into action during stressful situations.

Best wishes - you made a good first step in researching your condition.

I hate school so much I want to cry?

I get really bad anxiety going there and thinking about it makes me feel so mad and crappy. I also cannot really relate to most of the kids at my school. I'm friendly with people and I have five pretty good friends. I just really don't like teenagers even though I am one. I don't really understand math that well and can't really get into my teachers teaching style so when I tried to make arrangements with my counselor to see if I could get switched out of his class into a different one they said no even though I was trying to do something to make it better. I do skip school sometimes but that's because I get so much anxiety from it and it just pisses me off that I'm like this way. My counselor has talked to me about my attendance more than once because I'm close to getting a fine for skipping so much and she tries to get me to open up about why I skip so much but I just don't feel comfortable talking about my anxiety with people and how it's kind of a lame excuse to miss school. Other kids can handle school so why can't I?! My grades aren't even bad except math is a D+ and my other grades are either B's or A's. I just hate high school!! It sucks and my mom is getting mad with me for it and says that my anxiety isn't even that bad. Being in high school is the wooooorst, I want to cry every effing day!

Even thinking about school gives me bad anxiety?

I'm a junior in high school and I have always hated school. It makes me feel so worthless and stupid and just thinking about school makes me sick to my stomach. I really don't get stressed out easily but I have missed a lot of school and a lot of work. But it's not even thinking about the workload that gets me feeling like this. It's the thought of going back to a place where I feel as though everyone hates me and a place where I just feel trapped and miserable. My parents know I hate school but they think it's just the average "every teenager hates high school" sort of thing. But it's so much more than that. The feelings have gotten worse since last year when I transferred to my new school. There's a lot more people but I don't even think the problem is there.
All I know is that even when I think about going to school it makes me physically ill. I really don't think that's normal.
I really need to know if what I'm feeling happens with anyone else and what I should do about it. Is this one of those things that I just suck up? Or is this something that seriously needs to be looked into?
Before you ask I am not medicated for anxiety because of personal reasons.
I just really need help. Why have I always felt like this? Should I talk to a guidance counselor about this? Or a doctor even? Is there something wrong with me mentally?
I just want to know.
Thank you.

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