I really Messed up In School?
No I am not talking academically, I am talking socially. I am now a freshman in Highschool. I feel I could have had a much better 7th grade year 1)I dumped a girl because I got made fun of (For multiple reasons) And two years later, I really like her and miss her alot now. We were perfect together (liked the same things, etc.) 2)I dated a girl for a week which now makes it awkward for us to talk (again two years later) and it sucks because I would have really like to have gotten to know her better and maybe even go out with her when i Know what i was doing 3) I was somewhat of a routy asshole, and I wish i was as nice as i am now I dont know... Just reminiscing.. replies would be awesome thanks
I really really messed up.?
I'm so depressed because I KNOW what's going to happen tomorrow. I messed up and I'm so full of regret.. How can I distract myself from this? Me and my boyfriend have done so much, and I don't want to lose it all this fast.. Please give me advice on how to distract myself. I never have felt this way before...
I really messed up , big time...??
I really messed up, bad.. what should I do?? ok..long story short, the girl that I'm talkin to hadnt replied to ne of my emails.even though the day before, she said everything was cool , and i was really sweet, and still on my first chance...but i saw that she had read the messages, but hadnt replied...well i was already having a horrible day, so i emalied her and basically told her to quit stringing me along...but....then i remembered how busy she is, and that she might have something big going on this weekend, but idk for sure, ...so neways..i cooled off, and sent this apology, is my grave already to deep?? i mean, am i screwed, or is this apology good? Hey I know this isn't right, but its not what you think it is. I would sincerely like to appologize, and honestly mean it. One, I sent you that very immature message about you not replying, and it was tottally irrational, and immature. I was having a very bad day, and my brother did something to set me off, and I basically just typed all the thoughts in my head into that dang message. None of it was true at all, not a word, they were just ideas floating in my head, and my brother turned a bad day into a worse one, and thats how that message happend. None of it is true. I know you are very busy,and I know i have not given you enough space, especially in the past day, so I am honestly appologizing. I honestly dont know what happend, cuz I know better than to act like I did. so, I do think now I need to ask for a 2nd chance. and if you dont reply to this, I tottally understand, I probably wouldnt either. but yea, on a lighter note, I still hope you think I'm sweet. You are too :). wb if you want.
I really messed up with the guy I like?
Yikes, sounds like a lesson should have been learned there. Keep your nose out of anybody else's business and you will have many fewer problems. That is the kind of thing that can end really bad for you. Someone is going to be real pissssssd.
My family is really messed up, and I don't know what to do about it??
Hi there. I really feel for you. I also had lots of issues when I was living with my parents. You have a lot to deal with right now and it's understandable that you're depressed. I'm happy to hear that you've stopped cutting yourself. It sounds like you are moving in a good direction, but I know it's a lot to deal with on your own. Most schools have counselors or a school psychologist. I would look into that when you go back to school. It also helps to be involved in something outside of the house. What about school sports or art classes, drama club, choir... Is there something you are interested in that you could get involved in at school? This can help a lot because it is a distraction, it gives you something to focus on, be proud of, helps you express some of those pent up feelings and it's a great way to meet other people who share your interests. These activities are free and get you out of the house. I think the key is to try to focus on yourself and your well-being. If you do this you'll get stronger and start to build a life for yourself that is separate from your family situation. It seems your family has been dictating your life... which is kind of unavoidable in your situation, but don't let that stop you from learning, growing and making friends. You have a good head on your shoulders and you'll get through this. Start believing in yourself and the rest will follow. Good luck!
I have a friend named *Lily.One time Lily and I were staying awake to finish a chemistry project. It was 00:30 in the morning. I was waiting for my bluetooth, and she was waiting to get my files so she could finish our project.Now, 12:30 is tame for most students, but Lily is that person who somehow sleeps at 10:45, Every. Single. Night.She was sleepy as hell.In fact she’d been complaining to me for the past half an hour about how tired she was, but there wasn’t much I could do about it except for wait.“Dude.” I texted her, when my laptop told me that it had finished downloading files. “I’m done. You can go to sleep now.”I got a text back almost immediately. “Okay.”I was about to switch off the phone and go to bed when I got another text.“Hey, how about one more game of Clash Royale and then bed?”Uh, what? Haven’t you been complaining for the past half an hour about how sleepy you are?It’s freaking half an hour past midnight, Lily, what do you think I’m going to say?Well, I couldn’t resist.But it wasn’t just one match.It was THREE. It would have been longer, but we won on the third one anyway.I think she still hasn’t caught up on all the lost sleep time yet.*Not a real name.
I really messed up my life, how can I fix this?
Look, I'm only 14 so I probably can't help that much but I'm going to give it a go. I really don't know where to start, but don't worry I wont lecture you...Whatever you think is right which sounds like abortion for you that go with it, it's your life and no-one can stop you doing what you want or what you think the best is. Your boyfriend, well it's up to him what he wants to do, because everything happens for a reason, if he wants you pregnant again then he obviously wants kids and if you don't you need to tell him that you don't or just not right now. You trust yourself with this, you have to be strong and you can do it on your own. Your friends, well this is not them so personally i don't think you should have to lie about abortion its your life not theirs and telling them lies will come back to hurt you one day so be straight with them and let them know where to stand. If you think lying to them is for the best then do it, but I don't think its the best so I'm not going to tell you how to lie. Hates a very strong word, you parents defiantly wont hate you even though it may seem like they do, they will just be in shock with you and a little upset, give them time and they will come round. I can't tell you where to go or what to do. You haven't messed up, it's just a little test from life. Don't be scared, have more ambition and faith in yourself and love what you do have. Through it all just remember to take it all one step at a time and don't be pushed into anything that you are unsure about because - life's not about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning how to dance in the rain. Cheer up, p.s. Don't think about suicide, there are so many people dying of cancer and from earthquakes that would give to have a life, enjoy the one you have now. Best of luck xxx
Is this REALLY messed up or am I too sensitive?
If they were mutual friends with the both of you then there isnt really any reason for them to choose sides in this. As long as they are still being friends with you too, then I dont see anything wrong with it. If it was your best friend then I could see a problem, but you said mutual with the two of you. I wouldnt make them get in the middle of this. You could lose good friends possibly. If they however arent being friendly with you then, who cares about them? It would seem that they chose your ex! hope this helped?
I work at a go-kart track. I’ve been working here long enough that they made me a supervisor. We’ve got about 20–24 go-karts, worth about $5,000 each.Well, one night, I had the grand idea of letting the riders go backwards around the track. It was the last race. They asked me, “How can we have as much fun as possible?” The track goes downhill more if you go backwards on the track, so I figured it was harmless if I let them race in reverse.WRONG.There’s a little uneven section on the track that drops about an inch. When going the normal direction, it just drops down, maybe scraping the bumper. But when going in reverse, the bumper (the black guard rail around the go-kart) can catch the little lip. The go-karts look like this:And imagine the uneven section looks like this:When the bumper caught on that, the frame bent downwards, breaking the weld at three places, lifting the front tires off the track. It basically crumpled. And it was all my fault.When that happened, I stopped the race immediately and made sure the guy riding was alright. He was just fine thankfully, just a headache. The go-kart was trashed though.The next day, the owner of the park sat down with me to let me know that what I did was not alright. I was given my first and final write up, put on probation, made to write letters of apology to the maintenance guys and the park, and was even told I might have to help pay for repairs. After I wrote the letters though, he changed his mind about making me pay for anything.The go-kart had to be stripped down, and it’s still sitting down at the shop, waiting to be taken to a welding shop.And earlier this week, it happened again. Strangely enough, like the first time, it was Sunday, the 6th day of the month, and the last race of the night. Only this time, it wasn’t my fault. The guy spun out, got turned backwards, and started going in reverse, against traffic, to try to flip a u-turn. Well, he just happened to do this at that exact same spot on the track, and the same exact thing happened to the go-kart.Thankfully, the managers recognized it wasn’t my fault. Regardless, I think everyone at work now knows that I am “The Destroyer of Go-karts.”It’s a fun day at Sam’s Fun City!!!!!
You were so deep in your own zone, you don’t even realise it. I mean deep, like rabbit hole deep, like Alice and Wonderland deep.You made your first mistake long before all this happened.You didn’t show your intent and approached her.You let her talk about her problems, breakupsYou cannot handle your own logistics. Opening your mouth like some passive-aggressive guy tell others about how you like her.You need to grow up.Don’t talk to guys about who you like. Just approach and get it done. Second, don’t be some white knight, listening to girls vomiting their problems at you.That doesn’t create attraction.Nothing you can do. It’s a mess. Drama.Learn from the lesson. Take responsibility on looking at how you do things and change the way you do so with other girls you will meet and like.Nothing you can do with her.Forget all this “I don’t want her.”You never had her in first place. She never would have dated you because of your passive-aggressive behaviour. You’re too nice.The nice guy.Not let it go and move on because you’re still thinking like some nice guy. When there is negativity like that, you nice guys need to dissappear.Leave it alone. Nothing to solve. Move on and stop being white knights. This is what it gets you. Drama.