Do i really need to change my attitude? :(?
I think you just need to learn how to forgive, we will most likely not forget things that weren't pleasant that happens to us but forgiveness is what we all need to work on...Forgiveness is saying, I won't bring it up, I won't hold it against you and we are clean slated. So in your mind, you need to stop thinking about how it made you feel, quit thinking about the bad memories. You agreed to forgive them, they apologized so you must learn to move past that...otherwise your holding a grudge and that only drains your energy as well as make you less desireable to be friends with. Treat others like you want to be treated, so if the roles were reversed and you had to apologize to them, you would want them to forgive you and not hold a secret grudge against you - especially after the apology was accepted meaning that all was forgiven.
HELP! i REALLY need to CHANGE!?
We’d all love to change something about ourselves, but the reality is you are who you are. Be yourself, there is nothing more interesting and appealing than a person who is comfortable with who they are (it oozes confidence). Changing your appearance (haircut etc) is fine as long as you feel comfortable with it, you can’t hide your character, and you shouldn’t want to or feel pressurised into changing. Your not representing who you would like to be, you’re representing who you are. People will accept you if you just be yourself, people see right through you if you try to be something your not. But to answer your questions: Personally, if I want to change my haircut I go (just the once!) to a really good hairstylist and pay that bit extra. Get a consultation first and tell them what you definitely don’t want, then get their advice on what they think is the best for you (it’s their job, and your paying for it!) I’m a fashion disaster so can’t help you with clothes! Makeup is a personal preference; if you can get away with not wearing any then don’t bother. Looking natural is great. Your young, make the most of the fact that you don’t really need much now. Losing weight, do you really need to lose weight, really? It sounds boring, but healthy eating and exercise is the best thing for losing and maintaining your weight. When you start your first day, you’re bound to be nervous, but everyone around you will no doubt feel the same way. The best thing about starting somewhere new is getting to know the people around you. Relax and have fun, get to know everyone you can and not just because they might be candidates for the ‘cool gang’, you can never have too many friends and having a variety of friends with completely different interests will make life even more fun. You don’t have to be exclusively friends with just one group of people. If anyone brands you a geek, they are either jealous or ignorant (because they don’t know you well enough to be able to comment). Be proud that you’re clever, it’s a big bonus. (Deep breathing exercises are really good for nervousness, if that helps!) Good luck! Don’t worry about it, grab the opportunity with open arms and have fun!
I really need to change help!?
Oh honey I'm on the same boat, I'm like 5-5 or somewhere around that and I'm miserable. But lately I've been eating healthier and drinking a lot more and it's been helping. Just don't eat out, and if you HAVE to eat at a resturaunt, split your meal in half. DONT EVER STARVE YOURSELF! Get a bunch of yogurt and if you dont like yogurt then get any fruits that you like. They are great snacks that are tasty and healthy. I personally love to put grapes in the freezer and suck on them, its just like a popsicle without the callories! Drink a lot of fluids and drop cabonated drinks (coke, pepsi, root beer, etc..) and I also advise drinking palmagranic juice. Always have water on you and drink a lot, water cleans out your system and is very healthy. And don't worry about water weight, you pee that out. You might also want to start excersizing. I am about to get a pull up bar and a training kit so i can build up my muscles to where I can eventually do a pull up (My biggest problem) and just be a little more active. If you are bored one day, take your baby for a mile long stroll through a park or somewhere :)
Yes we seriously need changes…Change is the law of nature and is the only constant thing in universe.Change is something that keeps us alive, inculcate thrill in our life , and make everything new for you..Just imagine following same routine for 15 years without any change , that's really exhausting right?Whatever we do in our life it's the change that teach us you only need to know howYou pay attention over small details of change and how you read your omans of the change.Change makes us learn everything…And change is the only truth of our universe so yes we do need change..Change doesn't only means change it also means..NewThrillingLearningKnowledgeBetter lifeStrength both mentally n physically as you move on through different situations.Change is beautiful don't get afraid of it just try explore it's beauty and it will make you value your life even more.
I really want to change...?
Real push ups, Pull ups, Squats and Sprints will be a good workout regimen, provided you push yourself. As for your diet, just get an app that tracks your calories and make sure you're not over the amount you burn. About 1 gram of protein per pound of target bodyweight puts you at 520 calories from pure protein, split the rest between carbs from fruits and vegetables with the occasional bread type food and fats from sources like olives fish or nuts. Don't forget core exercises
You cannot avoid change as you perceive it unless death takes over. Why? Change is the only constant in life. Even your body undergoes change every second whether you are conscious of it or not. Change from school to college, from college to work place, marriage and settling down, having children - all of them regularly happen in life and which one cannot normally do without. When you are overdriven, you need a change of pace in life. When you are self absorbed, you need a jolt of change to come out of it. When you feel frustrated, you need change to relax and view things in proper perspective. Sometimes change turns out to be bad. So, even if change can be for good or bad, we just cannot avoid it till we die.
I'm old school and do it every 3000 miles regardless of the manufacturer recommendations which vary between 3000 and 15000 miles. I check my oil every time I fill up with gas. 95% of the time I don't need to do anything but it's a good habit to get into doing to spot any issues before they become serious. (I.e. leaks, low fluids, etc). I also use a premium filter like a Napa Gold or Purolator pur-one. Cheap brands like Fram are completely avoided in my household as they are substandard junk. (Lookup oil filter tear down videos on YouTube for proof). I use the viscosity and type as specified for the manufacturer and temperature sill be operating the vehicle. Oil is cheap, engines are not. Every one of the vehicles I have owned in the past 20+ years has exceeded 200,000 miles before being sold or scrapped and was still running strong at that point. Usually corrosion was their demise as I live in the rust belt. Most people fail to read their owners manuals which have have both standard duty and 'severe' duty making schedules which roughly are analagous to highway and city driving respectively. Severe duty maint schedule usually has the oil and filter changed twice as often, as stop and go driving is tougher on the engine and the oil than highway driving is.I've taken apart engines that have run on manufacturer recommended oil change intervals (typically 5000 or 7500 miles) and the amount of baked on varnish-like buildup (from oil breakdown due to age, use and temperature) was more than I would have liked in my engines, so I'll stick with my 3000 mile interval thank you very much.Extra credit: if you want your engine to last, avoid oil additives ('snake oil') and definitely avoid 'high mileage' oil which has additives to allegedly reduce leaks (these cause seals and gaskets to swell initially) which can temporarily reduce leakage. However those same additives cause gaskets and seals to get stiff and brittle which will cause them to fail FASTER which makes the leaks get much worse and can lead to engine failure due to oil loss. Avoid ever using 'high mileage' formulas for these reasons.
I really need a hair style change?
I've pretty much had the same hair style all fifteen years of my life and i pretty much feel like i need a change, last year i got layers and side swept bangs but since i had no money i did it myself so it looked fine but not like salon quality like some people i kind of want to get layers that are more spread out so like not a lot of layers and i want to color it a darker brown and change my bangs a little but i don't know how to figure out what i want exactly before i go and have it actually done so if anyone has any tips on websites to go to or salons to go to pleas help
Yes and no.We are always subconsciously changing in our own ways as we go through life. And hopefully we are always deliberately changing ourselves to create the lives that we want. This self-development would ideally start from an inner desire to better and improve ourselves, whether it’s attitude/mentality, physicality, spirituality, or soft skills like listening, public speaking, leadership, etc.That said, the beautiful thing about being with someone you love is that your partner will always push you out of your comfort zone and motivate you to grow more. That growth can be painful and difficult, but if it comes from a place of love and partnership, and you’re on the same page, it will be good for both of you. It should be because you want it, rather than something traumatically forced upon, i.e. in the form of ultimatums.Understanding what you and your partner’s dreams/big goals and principles/values are is critical - if it wasn’t clear before entering the relationship, then certainly the sooner the better. There are always a certain set of small things that annoy us about our partner, but that you are willing to set aside and work through if the big things are checked off. But if there are big things that are paramount to you that your partner isn’t willing to change, you will have the same fights over and over again, and the relationship will eventually die.Love itself, after all, is never enough.
I need to change.. help!!!!?
If you're afraid people won't accept your style without judging you, don't be. If they're the type of people that judge others, do you really want them as a friend? Also, if you want people to know who you are and not judge you by your appearance alone, be forward and talk to them yourself and they'll get to know who you are and can judge you by your personality. If you don't talk to them, they'll never know who you are and won't be able to judge you for who you are. If you think your clothes aren't correctly portraying who you are, wear things that you really like and not just what's in style. It would be a good idea to just be yourself and people that will click with you will be drawn to you. If you act fake or put on a show, people that like you for that are usually fake also, or if they're real and find out you were faking it...they'll be hurt. You also can't keep up a fake persona all the time and you'll be found out, which means you'll lose friends and be in a worse spot later on down the road. Also, if you do what you think is right and truly believe in your convictions, people will respect that about you and be truly good friends, rather than people that are around for the minute but will be out of your life tomorrow. I know this probably isn't what you wanted to hear, but it's what I've learned from being in your exact position, but doing the wrong thing and learning the hard way. If you don't know who you are and what you believe, do some searching and figure it out...but be sure to never keep people in your life that don't give back to you what you put into them. If you're a good friend to them and they're never there for you, stop wasting your time. That goes for boyfriends as well! Good Luck Sweetheart! Don't stress out about friends, people that are worthwhile will stick with you no matter what you wear or where they live. Take Care!