My bestfriend treats me like crap!?
Hun, it may seem like shes the prettiest, but I BET your just as pretty or far more. Don't let anyone treat you less then yo deserve to be treated. My mom always told me its better to be alone and happy then with many people but upset. You must not want to stop being friends with her cause OBV shes your bfff :) but if she has the nerve to do that then thats not a very good friend. If you really want to stay friends, CALL HER RIGHT NOW and confront her, ask her the same things your asking us "yahoo'ers" ASK her why she does that tell her that you love her to bits and don't wanna loose her as your best friend but she's hurting your feelings. See what she says, you can do it! BE STRONG! :) and besides if you two make up and she continues to do that then, return the favor, not necessarily the ways she's doing it , but a bit of her own medicine, if she asks to hang or something tell her to hang with whoever was being mean to you. or something like that until she gets the message. BUT HOPEFULLY she will stop after you confront her :) GOOD LUCK sweeetie, and even if you end up not being friends you'll find someone else :] Though I'm crossing my fingers it all works out for ya!
I have happy news for you you can fix it..when your partner start disrespecting you and treat you like crap that’s mean he’s taking your love for granted, he has power over you,and he know that you will obey him like a slave,because in his mind you’re a weak and won’t do shit to stop him and mark my words if you let him continue controlling you like a puppet he’ll cheat on you and can even physically abuse you.That’s why nice girls are boring and nobody respect them because they won’t stand up for themselves,and when they get insulted they start apologizing,clinging,crying instead of fighting or walking away and that’s make them more annoying,nobody want someone like that..Solution :Never ever let someone disrespect you,remember you’re unique and deserve to be loved..Respect and love need to be earned you don’t give it that for free !1-Start ignoring him,respond with shorts answers,don’t give him sex,do it for a week,he will notice and if he really loves you ,he will start asking you questions,when that happen tell him that you’re thinking about breaking up..He will freak out and of course he’ll make sure that it won’t happen,you know like the old saying “You don’t know what you have until it’s gone”if he doesn’t love you then that’s another story.In the future when your partner start showing disrespect,be strong and show them who is boss..either leave,fight,or ignore,and never apologize for something you never did,if they care they will chase,if they don’t then good you just dodged a bullet.Relationships are made to make you happy not otherwise,if your partner is toxic leave..
My girlfriend treats me like crap?
DUDE this happened to me. i will share my experience with u. FIRST STEP:- GO TO HER AND TELL HER I DONT LIKE THE WAY U TREAT ME, TELL HER THAT WHEN I APPRECIATE U, THEN U JUST IGNORE ME AS IF U DONT CARE. THEN LISTEN CAREFULLY WHAT SHE SAYS. SHE MIGHT BE ANGRY WHAT U MAY HAVE DID EARLIER TO HER. STEP 2:- IF SHE CONTINUES TREATING U LIKE CRAP. THEN AGAIN TELL HER THAT U ARE VERY ANGRY AT HER AND JUST DONT TALK TO HER FOR A COMPLETE ONE MONTH, DONT ATTEND HER CALLS,JUST IGNORE HER. I KNOW ITS A LONG TIME BUT IF U WANT A LONG TERM RELATION WITH HER THEN ONE MONTH IS TOO SHORT. SO DURING THIS TIME JUST ENJOY WITH YOUR FRIENDS AND TAKE A BREAK AND EVEN GIVE HER A BREAK. SOME TIME LIFE NEEDS A BREAK. STEP 3:- SMS HER AND ENQUIRE HOW SHE IS. DONT CALL HER LET HER CALL U. AND U WOULD TO AMAZED THAT SHE IS TALKING TO U THE SAME WAY AS SHE WAS BEFORE. DONT SHOW POSSESSIVE NESS ABOUT HER. SHE CAN MAKE DECISION IF SHE DONT WANT U OR NOT. ITS HER LIFE ALSO AS IT IS YOURS. STILL SHE DOES THE SAME THEN YOU ARE A TRUE LOVER ACCEPT THE FACT AND MOVE ON. THIS TRICK HELPED FOR ME AND SAVED MY RELATION. THERE ARE CHANCES IN EVERYBODY LIFE TO SAVE THEIR RELATION SO GIVE IT A TRY DONT BE SHY OR SAD. AND ALWAYS THERE IS BETTER IN LIFE FOR US IN FUTURE. Keep Smiling always it is good for health
You are not going to like my answer.Your friends treat you like crap because you allow them to treat you like crap. If you want to end this negative treatment from them, you must cut them completely off.They have proven to you that they aren’t your friends. True friends don’t ignore you. True friends call/text/email/chat with you, include you in activities and hang out with you. They don’t leave you feeling different types of negative emotions.About 6 months ago, I had to end some fake friendships that weren’t real. It really sucked and bothered me at first. However, over time, I healed from the fake friendships. And guess what? I discovered new people that wanted to be friends with me.I learned that if you let go of toxic relationships, you open up your life to fresh relationships with real people. You just need to take a deep breath and end the fake relationships.It doesn’t matter that you don’t make new friends very well. You can still give your best shot and hope for the best. Friendships are out there waiting for you. You just need to be open to trying to make them.Good luck on your friendship journey!
I like this girl but has a boyfriend that treats her like ****...?
ok, so theres this girl that i've been friends with for like 7 years, we've really started hanging out about 3 months ago, we talk about everything and anything, i've told her that i have strong feelings for her when i was fully aware of the fact that she has a boyfriend. when i told her i had said that i just had to let her know but i didnt want to get between them and she had said that she wasnt sure if she had feelings for me or not. later we were texting me and told me all the sort of things that he did and says to her that makes her feel useless and worthless, i told her that he doesnt treat her with the respect that she deserves, and she didnt say anything to that. we are both always flirting with her and today she made me think that she wanted me to ask her out, and i thought they she had broken up with him, so i asked her out (which is wierd for me to do because i usually dont take that type of risk) and it turned out that shes actually still with her boyfriend so no, and when i asked her why she would stay with him when he makes her feel like ****, she said it was too complitated to explain... i just feel that she deserves better and i really want to tell her that i feel shes making a mistake by staying with him... i dont know what i should do....
My dad treats my mom like crap...what should I do? It's been like this my whole life?
He treats my mom horribly basically isolating her from her family and any friends. He accuses her of having a thing with his own brother, the ac repair man, etc basically if she even talks to a guy he accuses her of something. I know my mom is not like that at all and I wish they got divorced a long time ago. I hate seeing her so miserable all the time. My dad is an asshole who thinks he's always right about everything and doesn't help my mom out with anything. She even has to mow the lawn, take out the trash, clean, cook, and basically do everything but my dad isn't grateful at all he complains about everything. He even says something when she dyes her hair to cover up grays and if she listens to music he'll accuse her of thinking about her boyfriend!WTF is wrong with him! I just started college at year ago and I just wanna graduate already and get a job so I can move out and bring my mom along with me. She's all alone with no friends or family so that's why I decided to go to an university close to home so I can commute and be there for her. My mom doesn't have a real job and this is b/c along time ago my dad wouldn't let her work and now she's in her mid 40s, and isn't fluent in english and it's hard to find a job. she's just a nanny 4 a family friend right now. We just basically need my dad for the financial support. She always puts her children first but I just want her to be happy and meet a nice guy who will treasure her and treat her right. What should I do?
Maybe you cut off your balls and handed them over to her? (in terms of the dynamics of your relationship)And I’ll tell you another secret - your wife is not to blame. This is not me defending women or feminism in any way - it is just that I would want some more information on the dynamics of your relationship with her.In most cases, the power balance in LTRs (long term relationships) shifts in favour of the women, BECAUSE MEN FORGET TO DO THE THINGS THAT ATTRACTED THEIR WOMAN TO THEM IN THE FIRST PLACE.They think they can act like chumps around women, and that the woman will stick around no matter how low that man falls. Truth is, women are the selectors when it comes to sexual selection in general, watch this and understand why you might need your balls back -
What to do when someone calls you trash?
If someone calls you trash, they are being mean and stupid and they don't have a clue what they're talking about. Just ignore the jerks that call you that, and show them that you don't care about they're stupid insults because their opinions don't matter!! As long as you have confidence in yourself and know that you are not in any way, shape, or form trash, then you will be fine. My best advice is to just completely ignore the people that call you that. It might be hard, but it will work. The only reason why are calling you that is because they enjoy hurting people, and if you show them that you don't care what they think and ignore them, then they will stop. Also, prove them wrong!!!! Be the best that you an be to prove that you are NOT trash. You already know that you aren't trash, so prove it to them by doing your best in school; acting sweet, nice, fun, and happy; being social and conversational; helping others; and just having confidence in yourself!! Good luck honey! Don't believe a word they say!! You are a wonderful and beautiful person!!!! :) luv, Annie
Am I too forgiving of my girlfriend who treats me good for a while, then treats me like crap?
Been with this girl for 8 months. She is very emotionally damaged and has a lot of bad attitude because of it. She takes a lot of things negatively even if they are not. Sometimes, I even try to do positive things and she takes it as negative and gets mad at me. When I then try to defuse the situation by communicating to her, she gives me all this b@tchy attitude and starts a huge fight. I try to reason with her but she just is incapable of being logical most of the time. Example: She told me to look at this girl who was wearing a slutty skirt. She asked me if I thought that was acceptable. I told her I don't care because she isn't my girlfriend, but I would judge that girl as a slut based on what she is wearing. She seemed to accept the answer, then she accused me of liking to look at it because I was staring for too long. I got mad because she is the one who pointed it out! I didn't even look until she told me to do it! So we got into a huge argument and I tried to calm her down but she wouldn't be reasoned with. Another time she got really upset with me when my ex-girlfriend, who I am still friends with, called me to ask me for advice about something. I told her that its unfair for her to get upset with me, because she has 4 ex-boyfriends who are still her friends and one of them she hangs out with at least 2-3 times a week. But all she could say was that she has no feelings for them anymore. I told her that is exactly how I feel too, but she wouldn't accept that. I asked her how is it fair that you expect me to be cool about you having 4 exes and friends and i can't have 1? The sad thing is, she goes through phases where she treats me really well, and I fall in love with her, then she goes and treats me like crap again! So I finally broke up with her the other day and plan to keep it that way. Am I a dope for falling for her when she treats me nice, even though I know her ugly side will reveal it self eventually?
Seems like whatever you are doing is making her life hell by default. We are men after all despite female rights and equality that have passed only a few decades ago. Men still have the upperhand when it comes to initiation, strategy, tactics, weight, physicality (only slightly but still)If being happy pisses her of the best way to make her life hell is become more successful in your life, if whatever she tries to pull doesn’t work, it backfires on her emotional state as you observed nicely.But maybe that isn’t good enough for you to do it by accident, maybe she needs to be put away. Work Success is the sweetest revenge though but if you are going to make her life more hellish be expected to go through half the hell she has as payment to the Devil.Don’t get your hands dirty as in don’t be the original source of her pain, hire people to do your bidding, and strike her where it hurts the most. Down there.. between two poles where you tell your thugs to strike her right there. Actually more fun when you actually get to do it yourself. That’ll make both of your lives hell for sure due to her vengeance and I cannot predict what would happen next, unpredictable.