About weak, emotional, damaged women.. men please answer!?
Yes. So, so much. But I actually am not attracted to strong independant women. I think, in the end, they just let you down. I prefer a relationship where me and the woman in question need one another. I guess that makes me wierd, huh? I just think that's what love is - needing one another. In my current situation, for example, I am in love with a confident, attractive woman... Only difference is she has some deep mental problems, including bipolarity. I feel like I can relate to a woman who needs me more. I feel like I want to help her, and I want her to be the one that helps me with my deep rooted mental problems and insecurities. Am I making any sense? I hope so. I can totally relate to what you're saying, only I am attracted to weaker women than stronger women. But yeah. I feel it is my duty to save women as well. Not that I am some supermodel of a man, but y'know what I'm trying to say I hope. I am... quite damaged myself, I like to have someone I can relate to in that sense
Is it normal to have no desire to date women anymore?
Obviously never say never, but I have come out of my second failed marriage, and both Wives had personality disorders and both Wives cheated on me. Im not sure if I need a break from relationships or I just had enough emotionally. Has anyone ever got to the point in relationships where you feel nothing works out anymore?
Is it really true, that men would likely date a liberated woman until he finds a conservative one to marry?
This might be true of insecure, semi-masculine men who can't stand to be with a woman who thinks with her own brain and speaks with her own voice. But this is no big deal; such men would be of no interest to liberated women anyway. We prefer real men.
Do women get emotional on their period?
You bet! By the way we get moody pre periods too. I don't know about others but I do. One day I woke up and saw that kitchen looked as dirty as the previous night. The maid hadn't arrived . I can't bear the thought of doing the dishes, prepare breakfast and tiffin for my husband in such limited time. I cut the vegetables. Then I went to the bedroom to complain. He was watching YouTube. I laid down beside him and went to kiss. He didn't want to.“You don't want to kiss? “No reply.I held his chin and asked “Yes or no”.He shook his head.“OK, then! Bye.”I went to another bedroom and sank on the blanket brooding for 15 minutes. I was waiting for him to come and apologise.No sign. Then I went to the kitchen.He came out of the bathroom and was singing. "What! Doesn't 't he know I am angry!?"He came to the kitchen. I was washing a dish.“What if the maid doesn’t come today?”I was frowning with my back towards him. When I didn't reply, he came close and examined my face.“Kya hua?(What happened?)”I didn't want to reply.He again returned to the bedroom.I couldn't find his unwashed tiffin. How will I pack lunch?I stormed to the room.“Apna tiffin wash kar lo(Wash your tiffin)”. I said rather rudely.“Chod do. Office me Kha loonga(Leave it. I'll have lunch in office.)”I banged the door behind him. Seeing the messy living room I became instantly furious. I imagined knocking down the four glasses kept on the table . I even kicked in the air. I couldn't hold anymore. Anger or tears .I returned to the bedroom."I feel like crying. "And I sank on his chest.I said some hurtful words. But later I apologised.So he went to to the office without lunch that day. He understands my condition . So he handles the situation well.
Dating a separated women with a child?
reread your question. by doing so, i think you should realize that dating a "seperated" woman is more trouble than it's worth, simply because she isnt free, regardless of what it looks like. you dont need that kind of drama in your life. if shes worth it, back off until the divorce is over. if you cant do that, unless you want to be constantly heart broken, walk away. plenty of fish my friend....
Why do guys like emotionally unstable chicks?
It depends. The guys mostly fall into two camps, with some exceptions. One are the guys who just want a cheap lay. An emotionally unstable girl is supposedly easier to get into bed. The other are the guys with the hero complex; these are the ones who want to rescue a damsel in distress. They may sound good, but it usually doesn't work out too well in the long run.
Why are women attracted to crazy men? What's so masculine about crazy men? Are crazy men dangerous that they could be abusive?
Is it masculine for men to be crazy? I'm more into crazy guys who are very persistent, clingy, possessive, jealous, and too emotionally attached to me. Guys do get a rep for being crazy because they are allowed to do whatever they want, including being whiny and emotional when they don't feel loved, since they are the superior sex. To me, a crazy guy who is very persistent, clingy, possessive, obsessive, jealous, and too emotionally attached shows that he's madly in love with me like my parents have taught me and they know my husband, whom they set me up with, is so madly in love with me which is why he nor them won't let me have friends of my own, including male ones, which I like hanging around a lot. Is it really the norm for men to be crazy and not the other way around? I've had other guys tell me my husband looks crazy, by the way.
I'm dating a girl, but I don't want a relationship with her. She wants to stay with me anyway and I fear that she's in love, although I don't feel the same. Should I end it now?
Wow, I had a situation very similar to this about 2 years ago. Moving away for a new job in a few months, vaguely dating a woman at the time when I finalized the decision to leave. I was very clear to her -- I was not interested in a committed relationship with her and actually encouraged her to date other people.I liked her but it was far from love. She also got on my nerves if we spent too much time together. In small doses she was great. I didn't have the heart to tell her that.But.... this is where my male weakness came in.... this woman was super hot, like model hot. That, and she was really into having sex with me. I mean, she loved it. If she didn't, she did the best acting job I've ever seen. I took the 2nd route that you're thinking of -- figuring I'll continue seeing her until it's time to leave. My thinking was, she's okay with this and she's super-hot and likes physical intimacy with me... why should I turn down that kind of opportunity? Here's what happened.For the first couple months, things were fine. We seemed to be on the same page and enjoyed each other.The month before the move -- she started to get really offended when I declined to spend time with her. We had a couple fights as a result. The month of the move (it was set at the end of the month), dealing with her became very emotionally and mentally draining. I just felt tired after seeing her during that time. I was thinking about the move, and she was thinking about it in a very different way. She would get upset at every little thing that she didn't approve of or felt slighted by. This was when I (finally) realized how she really felt. What she had wanted to happen was that I would have some kind of change of heart and either not move or ask her to come with me, which she most likely would have done. The last time I saw her - what we agreed would be the last time - ended up being a HUGE fight that I felt extremely drained by. She continued to try to contact me for weeks after the move through texts and emails. I never responded. I got a new phone in my new location and deleted the email address she used for me. I think that finally made the point clear and I never heard from her again. In the end, looking back on it, I'm sorry I did it. It was an exhausting experience for me and I haven't dated in a non-superficial way since. It was also unfair and cruel to her.
Dating a tough girl? Is she hiding emotions or a robot?
I started dating this girl who seems really guarded. At first she wouldn't even crack a smile and barely said a word. She acts almost as if she has NO emotions at all. But after a few dates shes opened up, and seems more comfortable with me. She laughs a lot and is really goofy. The weird part is nothing makes her sad, angry, or depressed. When she talks about sad things in her life she doesnt seem to care. She says emotion is weakness and acts like she has none. However every now and then I see her have little spaz attacks, like she's nervous or she plays with her hair like crazy or laugh uncontrollably, Especially when she's around me. I like her I'm just worried she will realize I have emotions and think im weak or something. Is she hiding more of her emotions from me? Or is she just really tough and eventually she will view my emotions as weak too? (btw im not really an emotional dude, im pretty laid back)