Why can't I stop thinking about my crush?
Don’t you think if you could easily forget them then it wouldn’t have turned out to be a crush?Crushes are easy to be dealt with , all you got to assure yourself that they are going to be a temporary infatuation. And both life and love are much more bigger than these trivial attractions .They say if a crush lasts more than 21 days than it’s a serious crush, what you can do next is to make a move if you want to, or let it pass by. It will take time, but you will get over it.There will be days when you will think all the time about them, but assure yourself and get involved more in your work or studies. Whenever their thought comes across let it, the more you resist the more it will hamper your process of moving on.Start thinking negatively about them, how they are impacting your daily activities and how content you are with the things and people you have in your life.Crushes are to be admired, who doesn’t love that rush of a feeling when the person whom you are attracted to passes by you or interacts with you. All you need is to enjoy this feeling and moment, and let the serious thoughts pass by.After all it’s just a crush!
Do you ever hate your crush after getting over them?
I did, yeah. I liked my crush at work SO MUCH that I worked out over a single week and lost like 15 pounds. She ended up going for an intern that was taller, younger and richer than me who showed up... 6 months later. He "hit it and quit it." She was a bit of a mess, but I was so distraught about how she went about it, KNOWING that I liked her but hooking up with a guy she had just met... ...that I TOTALLY lost all interest. I'm a pretty lonely guy, but after all this she couldn't turn me on whatsoever. I felt like pulling my collar over my nose everytime I saw her after that. Ah... Facebook reveals a lot of things (Sometimes too much).
Please help, im thinking too much about my crush?
Do other stuff so you don't think about it! Take up new hobbies such as playing an instrument or sport, this will make you seem more attractive to him as you will have an active life he will want to be part of. Spend time with your friends and also with your guy friends - make sure you don't lose them by obsessing over a guy. Do things which will get his attention but don't involve you looking obsessed with him such as working hard and getting good grades. Try to find the traits in yourself that you find attractive in him: a good sense of humour, a friendly and happy person. Also remember that although it seems like you are in love now, in a couple months if your crush doesn't develop you won't even be able to remember feeling so strongly about him! Good luck :)
How can i stop crying over my crush!!?
Hey ima 15 year old girl in high school and theres this guy i really like. He was my first everything, my first kiss he first guy to ever give me that kinda attention, the first guy to ever hit on me. He was the first guy to ever tell me i was pretty. And last year he kissed me but didnt when I asked if he wanted to b with me he said no. Everytime i think back to the 9th grade i think of him and all the memories i had and i cant believe hes gonna graduate this year. What really kills me every single day is when ever i think that i like him sooo much and knowing he prolly doesnt llike me back :( How can i cry over him less? Any advice? I just need some comforting words to help me feel better thanks guys!
Help me! i've been rejected from my crush but i can't get over him! can anyone help?
first of all you are only 14 you have the rest of your life ahead of you. trust me im 25 i have had thousands of crushes along the way it is not worth killing yourself over if u kill him and yourself he might go to heaven and you go to hell because killing yourself is a mortal sin. as far as you folling him STOP IT STOP IT NOW. because if the boy does not know u are there than your making yourself hurt even more u buy gifts does he know they come from you? if the boy does not say hi to you that he does not know that u exsits stop swetting the boy leave him alone i know it hurts but u never know what guy is liking you because you are so worried about him the next guy that comes along might be your true love it is not worth it he is not worth your time and energy over 1 boy do something else get involved in some type of activity becasue you have to much time to think about him you are worried about this boy who is not worried about you he is not doing all of these things that you are doing to get his attention leave him alone by the time you get my age you would have had lots of boyfrinds some that break your heart and some you have left heart broken trust me get involved in a club and not 1 that he is in something else get a job at the mall of at the local y or ask your parents to send you to teen camp trust me you will find another guy and stop tring so hard if the boy does not like you so what i tell my kids the same thing you should say well im beautiful and forget there are more boys out there trust me you will find some 1 please take my advice ive been there so get on with your teen age life trust me you are going to miss it when its gone i wish i could get mine back
How to get over my celebrity crush?
Ha ha so glad I'm not the only one. I actually cried myself to sleep knowing that I will never meet him and that we will never get to know each other. I keep imagining situations where we would meet ie. i trip in Starbucks and he catches me and we talk and drink together after that. I can't get over him but I'm trying because I am getting really depressed.I think about him all the time and I too have watched just about every video of him and seen all the pictures. What I have been doing is looking at unflattering photos of him and telling myself that he likes woman that are way older than him which is strange. Unless you are almost twice his age, don't take this the wrong way but he will never love you. Other than that I have been looking for how to get over him on the web, like you did. Try looking at the link in my source. It didn't work for me but it might for you. I would try looking at other famous people or cool people in your neighborhood and try to get to know them. School and distractions also help and don't look at photos of him being cute. I almost died when I found out he might be going out with another girl. And anybody who reads this comment please don't hate on my answer I'm only trying to connect with the people I try to help and this comment is also like therapy over a celeb crush. I'm talking myself out of it.
Having hard time getting over a celebrity crush?
I am a 21 yr old guy, i recently just watched Star Wars, and I am really crushing on Daisy Ridley. As silly as it might seem, I just got a really big crush on her and can't stop thinking about her lol. It is silly i know, i have been just thinking about her all the time and it is making me go crazy. Ill appreciate any of your answers. Thanks
How can I lose feelings for my crush?
I have a answer that you might not like.I fell in love with a girl once, for years on end, heartbreak after heartbreak, and my feelings for her never dissipated because she was always in my life.She'll call me, she'll ask me to hangout, she would enthusiastically ask me to go watch a movie — I know that in her bones, she only ever cared for me, and didn't want to hurt me, but it did.After getting rejected by her, I thought that there was no way I could move past her, if she always kept creeping back into my life, no matter where I went.So, I took a decision — I was going to cut her from my life entirely.And that's exactly what I did.We've had a big fight one night, when she asked me to hangout, but I didn't want to see her face again after the rejection, so I said no, and we fought. At the end, she peaced out, and we went our separate ways for a whole year.I have seen her this summer, I don't hate her, we no longer have bad blood, but things were different. She didn't call me as she used to. She doesn't text me anymore from where she lives.We have our own lives now, and we are very much living it our own way, without hurting each other.So, my advice to you, would be to cut them off.It may be good advice, or a horrendous one, but trust me, you can be on good terms, and friendly all you want, the sting that comes with seeing them with someone else, might not be worth it.In the end, that's how I dealt with things, and I don't look back on it, was it a good decision, or did I throw away a perfectly fine friendship? Guess I'll never find out. But I don't regret it one bit.Any decision you are about to take, no matter how big, or small it is, just don't look back on it with regret, and you'll be fine.
My crush just graduated and I can't seem to get over him.?
I think that you need to try and get something else on your mind. because you mus be thinking about him in order for you to be having these dreams. and just because you're having these dreams doesn't necessarily mean that you truly like him.believe i've had dreams about a guy like 12 times and when it really came down to it. i wanted nothing to do with him. and hey just like you said you wanna stay a virgin. don't let this guy come into your life and change that. He's clearly stated that he wants to have sex with you so you already know his intentions. why jeopardize that and get into a relationship with him and get your heart broken. believe me it hurts to get your heart broken.. stay far away from this guy and just pray that God will send you a good guy that will Love and and care for you like you've always wished :)