Im 18 and i think i have a crush on my teacher....?
Oh godness, you sound exactly like me my freshman year of high school. Trust me I thought i was IN love with this teacher, and no matter how badly you feel for him you WILL eventually get over it. Just don't make the same mistake i made. This guy was married and had a daughter, I trusted this teacher so much that i went to see him after school alone and told him straight up "I have a crush on you, but I understand we couldn't be together, mostly because it's illegal and also you have a family." He told me he was flattered but it just couldn't happen, but also trust me with this. he does NOT feel the same way, I always wondered if he liked me like i did too, but after I got my sense back I knew it was just impossible. This was the worst thing I ever did, he told me the next day that he had to call the principal just in case I "take it too seriously" just so he would not lose his job, i can tell you THAT was an embarrassing meeting. Basically what i'm saying, is don't be stupid and act out on your feelings. Once you go into next year you will without a doubt get over your teacher. Think with your brain and not with your heart ALSO,,, most likely he is not flirting. Just being nice ;-] i used to flirt with this teacher i am talking about too ;-]
I think I have a crush on my teacher...?
Okay, so my teacher is very handsome. He is 30-35 years old. I started liking him in about the beginning of May. And since then, I cant stop thinking about him. He is so handsome, and he has stubblw which I LOVE ! He has a perfect body, qhere theres not a lot of muscle. Just arm and back muscle. I love when we talk, cause we have so much in common. He likes the same things I like, and hes so creative and smart! VERY smart. He has the perfect eyes. Its like, in that Taylor Swift song where shes like "I saw your eyes and it looked like home" or something. Thats how I feel . I feel comfortable. I know I seem like a whore , but I cant help it. I have an attraction to older men. High school guys arent attractive to me AT ALL. The weird thing is, when Im about to do bad things. I think about him, and I stop. Because I think about him , and think about how dissapointed he'd be in me. I quit smoking and stealing, and lying. I even broke up with my boyfriend because of how much I think about my teacher more than I do about him. Please give me feedback. He's changing me into a better person, and Idk what to do. But I like it. It gives me a reason to stop doing the things I already wanted to quit doing(smoking,drinking,etc.).
My teacher thinks that i have a crush on him?
OK.That is what happened.One month ago we had an exam and i was very afraid.Before the class my naughty friend told me to feel relaxed like im on a date.lol.When we sat in the classroom the teacher called on me and i got up.While i was getting up my friend knew that i was afraid and she said :Be relaxed you're on a date!The teacher heard her and i was embarrassed. Now my teacher thinks that i wanted to date him and acts weird with me. Sometimes he yells at me on purpose and smiles.He stares at me and it makes me feel like im stupid.When i call him to ask him somethig he's pretending that he doesn't hear me and smiles.That is driving me crazy.I DON'T HAVE A CRUSH ON HIM!What should i do?How should i act? Sometimes when i ask for help he makes weird face and acts like "i don't leave him alone"
I think I have a crush on my teacher. What do I do?
The moment that question left your lips,you already knew the answer.It's normal.I had a crush too.So did some of my family and friends.It's innocent,as long as you DON'T cross the line,by openly flirting,leaving love letters,or try to “spoil” that person.You asked,what you should do…GOOD advice;concentrate harder on your schoolwork and less on a impossible dream.Give the same attention to your schoolwork,as you try to give to(most certainly married)teacher.Chances are,you'll have more success,in passing your grade,than dreaming about having a love affair.
I have a crush on my teacher?
I know how you feel. I have a new crush on a teacher like every year. I have gone through so many ups and downs with my teacher crushes. Sometimes I feel over the moon around them but sometimes I get angry when they get upset with me because I value their opinion so much. Truth be told there really isn't a way to get over a crush but there are ways of making it feel less strong. Like 1. Try not to talk to him. 2. Head down focus on your work. Pretend that it's the subject you're in love with not the teacher and you only like the teacher because he teaches the subject you love. Of course it may not be true but if you keep saying it to yourself you will eventually believe it. Know that deep down (and you know this deep down) if he wasn't your teacher you probably wouldn't be interested in him. I personally love having teacher crushes because I tend to excel in the classes of the teacher that I have a crush on. You see it's about taking your crush and using it as a weapon for good. Say to yourself I am going to put all my love, energy, passion, thoughts for this teacher into his subject. I am going to do this and gain his admiration and respect. Even if he doesn't love me I want his admiration respect. And believe me you keep doing that eventually you'll start craving that admiration and respect. You'll start craving your teacher being proud of you and you'll want to learn more. I love to read about science now and it started off with a crush I had on my science teacher and I just told myself I am going to take an interest in the subject. A crush can be a horrible feeling when it isn't shared ... but believe me the admiration and respect that teachers give you when you work hard in their subject outweighs the crush. Of course the crush may still be there but it'll be quite weak and won't have too strong a hold on you. edit: I used to go through one teacher crush and then finally got over it ... only to end up with another teacher crush and then another one and then another one and I kept thinking damnit not again!!!! But now I think "Yes! Another teacher crush woohoo I am so going to use my feelings to get top grades in this class!! Yeeyah!"
What was it like to have a crush on your teacher?
I am a woman and nearly 30 years old. I first met Mr. C when I was in eighth grade. He was 24, and had just gotten married. And, I thought he was gorgeous! His wife worked as a nurse about 80 miles away. So, the newlyweds barely had time together because of their busy schedules. Just to clarify, he never gave me any reason to believe that he wanted anything more than a teacher/student relationship. He talked about his wife constantly. It was clear to everyone- even me- that he was very much in love with his bride. As a teenager, however, that made me even more attracted to him. The following school year, Mr. C was transferred to the high school. So, he was my ninth grade teacher. Still, he never noticed me. But, honey, I noticed him! After high school, I dated a former classmate but I still thought about Mr. C. My boyfriend and I broke up, and I eventually ran into Mr. C. We talked for a while, and he told me he and his wife had been separated for a while. His wife had been unfaithful. I asked if he needed a housekeeper. I needed a job and would have done anything to be able to be around him. I really thought he was something! But he said he didn’t need anyone to clean. Then he mentioned it would be nice to have a friend to talk to. I had just turned 19. We exchanged numbers and became friends. After a couple months, we started dating. This went on for a year. Then, one day he told me he couldn’t see me anymore. He said that his soon to be ex wife was deemed unfit to raise their daughter and yet she was threatening to take the child from his custody illegally unless he would take her back as his wife. So, he said he didn’t know what to do in order to protect his then three year old daughter. So, we split and they reunited. I am now happily married to my husband of five years and we have two children. I have run into Mr. C many times in our small town. He is still married to her, and they have had more children. Last time I saw him was about two years ago. It was the first time we really talked since our breakup. He told me that he has been miserable. I told him I am sorry, but we cannot revisit the past. I told him about my husband and children and wished him peace and happiness.
My teacher /thinks/ I have a crush on him?
This is quite frustrating. I think my teacher believes I have a crush on him. He is one of my favorite teachers, and my friends tease me about liking him to make a joke, and when he walks in the room they will ever-so-obviously wink at me and make some remark. I made him a Christmas card, with a hand written note with a couple references to past jokes. But the real trouble is my behavior. I flush easily. Oh, so easily. He picks my paper up by suprise and I go red. Smiles at me and I go red. NOT because I like him, but frankly adults make me nervous and any interaction with anyone significantly older than me will make me blush. I stare at him. Why? Because the bald patch on his head is fascinating for some unknown reason. Why do I care? I feel like it makes him feel awkward, and he does avoid me somewhat, even though I don't act up. How does someone even begin to approach this? "Hey, do you think I like you? Because I don't." Input (other than "why do u care omg its just a teacher dont care what he thinks of u or how he treats u ugh")?
I have a crush on my teacher and I think he knows, what should I do?
NOTHING!!!!! YOu should do NOTHING!!!!!! If you tried to pursue this, you would only embarrass him, and yourself, and potentially put him in danger of losing his job. Think of this as rehearsal for a REAL relationship, and try and figure out how to get one, one appropriate to your age.FACTS: If you do anything, anything at all endangering your teacher with your crush, you could ruin his career and end his chance to earn a livelihood in doing what he loves.BACK OFF!!!!!!!!!!
What to do? I HAVE A CRUSH ON MY TEACHER?
I'm not sure if this is a funny troll or if this is serious LOL. But if it is, you are really obsessed with him. A lot of girls around that age have crushes on their teachers which is normal but there are limits. Even if you have sexual thoughts about your teacher, try to keep it to yourself or you'll get in serious trouble! You may think that it's the end of the world after you graduate h.s but it won't be! It's hard to explain this to you but you will get over it. You are very young and you will find the guy you'll truly like or even love. By then, you'll look back at this and thought you were just being silly :p (not being offensive). For your age, you have a very sexual active mind! I wouldn't even let a guy hug me at that age! Oh and don't ever let him figure out you have a crush/sexual thoughts on him, it'll make him feel very awkward if he doesn't feel the same and things will not be the same anymore.I wish you the best of luck and don't do anything that will get yourself in trouble!! Not only you'll be in big trouble....but your teacher will be in HUGE trouble. if things go on between you guys, he will lose his job and known as rapist, sex offender, and pedophile. If you really care about him, don't try to seduce him or any of that.
HELP! I THINK MY TEACHER KNOWS I HAVE A CRUSH ON HIM!!?
ok so i have a major crush on my high school teacher, im not going into details but the situation is, i think he knows about my crush on him and he's been really awkward with me latley. i have two stories that happened where he might of found out about this crush. ok first off... one day i was in my english class and we went out into the hallways becasue our teacher made up this game for us to play to help us on our test, so i was up to go and i saw him walking across the hallway and i was staring at him. haha. my teacher said " come on guys pay attention" and i was still staring, and some kid in my class yelled " WE WOULD BE IF CAROLINE WOULD STOP FANTASIZING OVER ______!" omg i was freaking out cuz im pretty sure he might of heard D: secondly, i noticed that he got a hair cut and i asked him " hey did you get a haircut?" and he said yes i did, and by mistake i said "it looks good" NOT IN A FLIRTY KIND OF WAY, just the way i would if i were talking to any adult. after i said that, he turned his head and said a quiet awkward thank you. i was blushing like crazy cuz it was soo weird!! DX ugh! ok so i need advice on how to get back a friendly less awkward STUDENT-TEACHER relationship with him, thats all i want, is for him to think im a good student, i understnad he trying not lose his job and that he cant say anything. im not an idiot whos gonan flirt and **** haha. i dont want him to think of me as a freaking creeper, and i also need advice on if you think he knows about the crush i have on him. thanks every one for the help. it means alot! :)