I don't think my dad loves me. Why doesn’t he love me?
not sure he doesn’t.Possible does not have the knowledge (or ability) in how to show it. Possibly frm being in a fam or having a fa who did not/could not show it. I have seen very few where there is “no love”. Think of a father that was never allowed contact w/his chid. In some cases the lack of sight (not all, often these men love the child even more as they have the mental image & accompanying anguish) prevented bonding.Do U love him? Can you think of a time appropreate to approcah him in which the conversation would be it’s most honest. This would be a time (for some men) when you could talk abt this topic. Do so to gather info, not convince him of anything, not change his mind, etc (C my post to other Qs here on Quors “Deepening Family Conversations” if wishing more info). After is a time to speak ur self. U may have something entirely different to say than U thought becuz U may have some new info.
My dad hates me and loves my sister more and thinks i dont study?
Sometimes men are harder on boys than girls. If your grades are good, than get a transcript (list from school of your grades) and take it to him. If he still thinks you are stupid, than take it to your mum. Does she think you are stupid? I bet not! Don't quit on yourself. Please your mum and don't worry that you can't please him. I don't believe he hates you, but he may not be able to show you how he feels. But that is not your problem. Never quit! Who cares if he thinks his daughter is more clever? If you mean tutoring by tuition than Good For YOU! Anyone who wants a perfect score gets all the help from all the area's they can. Do not be ashamed of wanting to take advantage of any way you can be better. Check out the link below. You have a drive to do better...GOOD FOR YOU!
I don’t think my mom loves my dad anymore, what will happen?
There’s no way to say what will happen.Maybe she will fall back in love with him.Maybe he will have an affair, and divorce her.Maybe she will divorce him.Maybe they will stay together because they make the decision to stay together, no matter what.This much I will tell you: as hard as this may be for you, whatever happens is about them, not about you.My mother got married, divorced, married, divorced, and married again.None of it had anything to do with me, even though—obviously—I was impacted by all of that.As a child, I felt terrible about all of it. As an adult, I look back on those relationships and what I know now, is it is stunning that my mother and father ever even got married, let alone stayed together long enough to have two children.Now they are both gone.My life goes on.What will happen is that you must make the best relationship you can with the people you love. If you love your parents, you will maintain a relationship with both of them, no matter what changes they go through.Try not to get into the middle of things with them, it is a terrible idea for parents to use their children as their therapists. If they start to talk with you about these things, make two suggestions, repeat as needed: I think you should talk directly to the person you have a problem with. Or, if you cannot do that, then you should be talking with a therapist.During my mother’s third marriage, when I was in college, one day she called me on the phone to complain about her third husband.I told her I’d been through two of her divorces, and I thought it was a great idea to talk with someone, but I was not that someone. That if she needed a therapist, hire one.She never brought it up again, she never saw a therapist, and she stayed married to him.My life went on, your life will go on. Bad things happen. Scary things loom. And we continue on.Courage.
My father no longer loves my mother, and treats her harshly and unfairly often. I hate him for that, but I also feel grateful that he has provided for me all these years. I feel conflicted. What should I think/do?
First thing you need to understand is that you have very little role to play in your parents relationship. Unless there is verbal / physical abuse going on - its absolutely none of your business. Make sure you have good relation with both, and avoid taking sides. That’s pretty much all you can do.
My mom and dad do not love me anymore. I feel so lonely. What should I do?
What makes you think that they do not love you anymore? I’m a parent and I cannot imagine any of my kids ever doing anything that would ever make me not love them anymore. They could kill someone and I’d still love them. Ninety-nine per cent of parents are like me in that issue. We screw up, we argue with our kids, we aren’t the best people.Amigo, I know for a fact that there are people that you work with or are related to that would love to know more about you, would love to hear from you, would like to have coffee with you, just want to give you a hug and would sooooooo love for you to smile and give them a hug.As humans, we tend to isolate ourselves and think we’re not worth it. We don’t understand why someone else even likes us, much less cares. But they do. And guess what? Someone that you care about is wondering why you do. It’s true. It’s all in our heads. It’s not really that bad. It’s just that we get wrapped up in these blankets of isolation and then we can’t touch someone (physically or emotionally) and we are scared of disturbing others.Reach out. I promise it will be worth it. YOU ARE LOVED.Please follow up and let us know how you’re doing.
What can l do if my father doesn't love me?
First, make sure this is really the case. If he’s approachable at all, tell him you feel like things aren’t right between you and you’d like to resolve any conflicts/issues that might be bothering him. Show him appreciation for all the good things (assuming there are some) that he does for you and your family.If the feedback you get tells you he really doesn’t care about you, accept it, leave home as soon as you can take care of your own needs, and limit future contact. It’s a sad fact of life that family members sometimes choose to become strangers. If you’ve done all you can to make things better, make peace with yourself and know you’re not to blame.All the best!
My dad doesn't love me anymore...?
You have already made at least three attempts to patch things up with your dad after coming out to him as gently as possible. That's more attempts than I would have made if I were in your shoes. The ball's in his court now. Unfortunately, it seems highly unlikely that he'll accept the fact that you're gay and extend the olive branch to you. If he can't do either one of those things, then he's never truly loved you for whom you are, and cutting him out of your life will be no loss to you at all. Sadly, stories like yours are all too common in the gay community, but you still have great potential to live a productive and satisfying life. You have already been fortunate enough to have a boyfriend whose parents are gay-friendly and willing to let you stay with them until you can provide for yourself. If you haven't already, make it clear to your boyfriend's family how much you appreciate all they've done for you. Help them out around the house, and offer to pay them rent after you get your first paying job. Let them give you emotional support to help you get through this difficult time in your life. If you need outside emotional support, don't hesitate to seek it from your school counselor, another neutral professional counselor, or an LGBT support group like PFLAG. You deserve to have a good education, a good job, a home of your own, and friends who love and respect you for whom you truly are. Focus on acquiring those things, instead of looking for love and friendship where there is none.
Why do I love my dad more than my mom?
I know for a fact that I love my dad more than my mom, and I feel terrible about it. Because my mom has technically been there for me more than he has. For example, I can think about my mom dying and not shed a single tear. Then think about my dad dying and start balling my eyes out. It makes me feel horrible. I've always had a deep attachment to my dad ever since I can remember, and I don't know why. Is it normal to feel this way?/: