What should I do if I think the girl I love hates me due to some of my own idiotic behavior?
I am assuming you are a guy who loves a girl and you aren’t married to her. Here is my advice to you:Leave her alone. If you love her, love her from afar and in your memories but don’t try to convince her to love you. In today’s political climate, you might be charged with stalking or even worse, you might end up paying alimony down the line.Hate is a very strong emotion that many people find hard to let go. It is sad she feels this way because of your “idiotic behavior” but you are wise to your mistakes and that is a good thing.Let’s say, you manage to convince her that your “idiotic behavior” was a fluke or part of a phase you were going through and now you are nice. She might buy that for a little while and you might even end up marrying the girl. But people are not perfect and it is likely you will do things to irritate her over time. Marriage tests one’s resolve. There will be moments when she is angry with you again and this might give the “hate” a chance to reappear. This could lead to a painful and costly divorce.You might want to change your behavior so the next girl you meet doesn’t end up hating you. But do it right. Don’t become a “yes” man or a wimp. “Nice” means you care about the other person and act accordingly. It doesn’t mean you are a lap dog.There is a cynical joke that goes, “instead of getting married, find a woman who hates you and buy her a house”. Divorce courts often give the home to the woman with the man making payments for sometime after (not always but it seems a common theme over the past 30 years in America). So be thankful you are nowhere near this possibility.This whole thing could of made you lose the money and effort put into a home!Even worse, what if you had kids? It would be an extra heartbreak to see the family split up.So move on brother, move on!
I think ppl hate me because im RICH?
You have to realize that there are going to be people out there in the world who would hate you for one reason or another even if you were poor. People are just quick to judge you, but you can't control that. The only thing you can control is the way that you act towards everyone else in the world. If people seem to treat you like they hate you, then make an effort to meet them on a one-on-one basis and start talking to them like they're a human being. All you need is one person to think that you're nice. They'll tell someone else, and they'll tell someone else, and before you know it, your identity as being a spoiled rich kid might be yesterday's news. I don't think people who get whatever they want are necessarily spoiled--I think that they might have to learn life's lessons a little bit rougher than the rest of us, but to me spoiled is when they use whatever resources they've got to get whatever the heck they want, and they think they deserve it. I think you're right--if I had the world at my fingertips, I'd probably take it too! :-)
Does he hate me?
There s a guy I know sometimes he talks to me directly other times he has someone else ask me whatever for him. Today he was right next to me taking Starbucks orders and he asked a coworker, "ask *me* what I want from Starbucks." So she asked me. Why TF didn t he just ask? So fusterating. We are aquantant.
Why do my birds hate me?
first you have two. it is hard to get a pair to befriend you. you might try separating them and working with one at a time. it's not a hate thing like you understand it, it's a protection thing. you are not like them and they know it. that's why you should have started with only one.
My parents say they hate me?
I am so sorry you are being hurt verbally by your parents. You seem to be a girl that most parents would want (A student, well liked by teachers). Your parents have the problem and not you. Have you ever told your parents how it hurts when they say they "hate" you? If you haven't, please tell them and what they are doing is verbally abusing you which can later affect you emotionally and mentally. If it doesn't work, seek help from a school counselor or another adult that you trust.
I'm Muslim, why do you hate me?
Stop pitying yourself and show the world why you are different from what they think you are.
My parents don't support me and I think they hate me?
Okay, so I'm a rhythmic gymnast but I had a bad foot injury so I've been out of training for about 5 months. In that time, I started doing some modeling. Nothing big at all, just some gigs modeling for a photography class and small stuff like that. But, in about a month I should be able to go back to training. However, I've completely lost my passion for the sport. My mom has been forcing me to do it in the last few years. She gives me a total guilt trip any time I mention quitting by talking about how much money they've spent on the sport. But I don't enjoy it anymore. Besides, I'm not even that good at it. And to make matters worse, my mom completely RIDICULES modeling. She thinks that it's trashy and stupid and that if you model, you're a bimbo whore. I tell her that it's not true, but she yells at me for hours telling me that if I do modelling professionally, I would basically be a disgrace to the family. I didn't tell my mom that i was scouted when I was in the mall with my friends by a casting director of a pretty big modelling agency, I'm too scared. I took the guy's card, but haven't told her. At family gatherings, she always makes me really uncomfortable by making fun of the fact that I do a little modelling on the side and she always gossips about how I want to quit rhythmic gymnastics. I'm getting really sick of it. Sometimes she gets so mad that she grabs me and shakes me or she tells me that if I don't shut up she'll slap me. I'm getting really sick of it and have been considering running away, even though I know it would never work out, and she would beat my *** when I came back. I cry myself to sleep almost every night. It's getting ridiculous. My dad is less extreme but he is so restrictive and doesn't let me talk to my friends, reads my texts and facebook messages, and gets really mad if I do anything "wrong" to him. I'm exasperated. Help??
Why some girls act like that they hate me.?
For example, when I am waiting for bus In a bus station sometime girls show me fingers. Sometime they look at me in a bad why they I think they hate me. Something they laugh at me in front of me. I am a guy. I wear and act normally. I think I am a good looking guy. I am 21 years old. ( I do not look at them or anything wrong)