Should my girlfriend and I move in together at 18?
I will be honest here. It is somehow every men’s dream at the age of 18, maybe not every men, others might be chasing casual sex. And as you wrote you have been together for 2 years, I don’t take it as a rash decision.But you are now sort of marrying, living in the same house, sharing expenses , doing housework are all something new. At the age of 18, are you sure you want to do this?Doing laundry, cleaning the toilet, cooking, and you would be kind of together all the time, I am just thinking, can work or cannot work, but maybe sharing a house with a housemate of the same sex, and having some experience of sharing a house for a year, and postponing living together for one year might make sense.I am 42, married for 10 years, we (my wife and me) are asking each other when we think buying something expensive, and sometimes we criticize each other harshly. We share houseworks, houseworks can be a problem. When you live together, you will be spending hours and days together, and any small thing that you would not notice might be a problem for you then. You have been together for 2 years, and then as you are inexperienced in living together, one month together might end with break-up.You are too young and we grow with our experiences. Hope you get the gist here.
He wants to have sex even though he has a girlfriend?!?
I've really liked this one guy for many months now. He knows and said he finds me attractive also. We talked about having sex and plan on doing it soon. He told me he has a girlfriend, but apparently that doesn't stop him. Is he a bad person? maybe he and his girlfriend have an open relatioship?! I just never met someone who seems so ok with cheating, if that's what it can be called. I have such mixed feelings right now. Do you think he can still be a good person or does this make it impossible?
How to get away from my controlling boyfriend?
My boyfriend of three years is jealous, controlling, and possesive. I am to the point I can't stand it, and have tried to end it.(We live together). He will not take no for an answer....he cries, begs, and pleads, promising that he will change...I have already taken him back once because of this. How can I move out without him bothering me? He just wont accept that it is over,he gets extremely mad...and then he cries. I don't know what to do. i just want to move on. I have two children in the home also.When I try to end it, he calls me 100 times at work trying to plead with me. Help!!!
Do people speak English in Sweden?
They speak almost perfect English with a beautiful sinusoidal accent (yes, goes up and down like a sine wave) that is difficult to imitate if you don't speak Swedish. I hardly ever encountered an adult Swede who couldn't converse in English. (Though, there was once this really cute 3-year-old who was trying to talk to me in Swedish and I hated not being able to understand him). My friends tell me a major role in their practising English is played by TV. The english channels in Sweden are not dubbed into Swedish. They have Swedish subtitles.They are so good at it in fact, that even if you try speaking Swedish with them they'll switch to English the moment they realise you are struggling with their language (to make you more comfortable). The only drawback of this is that you lose the motivation to learn their language. I've been here a year and yet can only speak some choice (read: rude) phrases my friends were kind enough to teach me.I can tell people "Jag pratar inte Svenska". That's enough, I guess.
How to meet my long distance boyfriend?
Why can't he visit you? Since he wants to meet your parents anyways, two birds with one stone right there. Even three since you guys can try to convince your parents. Since it is a long distance relationship, and quite a long one at that, i do not think it is wise for you to lie to your parents to try to go meet him. The distance between where you live and where he lives is ...vast. Should anything happen, your parents will be your best and safest bet. This applies if you are under 18: If they are really that against it, ask them to go with you. o.O Make a deal with them and tell them they can even go on your first date together but then they have to leave a day for just you and him. They prolly wont let you spend a night together but hey, better than nothing. IF parents refuse, find another trusted adult/relative. If you are over 18...take a friend? o: ***Age does play a factor in this. How far apart are you guys in ages? If it's a big gap, perhaps that's what your parents are worried about? How old are you? If you're still in your teens, the concerns and expectations of your parents are prolly valid. Statistics do go against teen love and ldr are not that good either. 6 months might seem long to you now, but they are quite short in the long run. To answer your original question though....a good lie....i rlly cannot think of one that would require you to go from Sweeden all the way to the USA. Unless a friend or relative is coming over to the states, I don't really think you can make up an excuse. (and if there are, you should the friend/relative your true intentions and let htem decide if they'll let you on the ride. They deserve that much because they are in an essence, responsible for providing you with a 'ride/way out' ) srry i wan't of much help :( EDIT: if he can't come to you because of works, what makes you think you going over there would be any different? He'll still be busy regardless with work so time for you will prolly be limited. Wait until he can get time off, and then have him visit you. Or by that time, if you can go, since he's no longer busy, time spent with him will be much better now than if you go now while he's busy.
My boyfriend is embarrassed about having kids and about me being pregnant?
I'm not sure how to really feel about this. Is it normal? My boyfriend doesn't want to tell his friends i'm pregnant again. He doesn't want me to tell anyone or let anyone we hang around know. He wants me to cover up or just not attend parties. He will even take the hardest route of burdening his parents with our daughter who is two when he wants to go out to a friend's house. He says if we take her, people will talk and judge and what not. I agree, we shouldn't take her to just any friend's house. I think taking her sometimes to more casual events is fine. I think some people will talk and judge, but I don't care for the judgement. Am i missing something? Am i wrong? I took my daughter one time to a friend's house for a party. They were cooking up french fries and drinking beers and playing a dice game.. Not a crazy party.. He was really uncomfortable. He thinks I shouldn't have. Is it a really a big deal? Should I have not brought her? I feel really angry that he feels this way. I feel like why should he have gotten me pregnant if he's going to hide me or the kids in ANY way. He doesn't embrace the pregnancy like I do. I want to tell everybody.. I feel happy.. but he tells me i shouldn't because people will talk or judge us. What do you think of him?