I'm 15 and I have no friends?
Hey Bob,I'm really sorry you have to go through something like this....I used to be in the exact same situation back when I was in 4th grade (I'm 15 now),No one liked me or ever wanted to hang out. I was like that weird kid everyone makes fun of. I had absolutely NO friends so I can understand how you feel...I used to walk around alone or just sit there during recess or whatever. People didn't even know me or even try to talk to me cause I was always *weird*. It wasn't until I decided to talk to THEM that I actually started to make friends. I became friends with my now best friend and we have been best friends ever since. I have lots and lots of friends now so my advice to you is to put yourself out there and TALK!! Don't care about the rumors or whatever crap they spread about you...just forget it and talk to other people. It would be really good if there's a new kid,cause it would be easiest to talk to them since they will probably be in the same position as you are....I know it's kind of hard to make friends now since were on Summer break and no school and stuff so its best to get to know someone OUTSIDE of school,i don't know engage in activities and meet new people. Go to a concert,to the movies..It doesn't matter if you are alone,what matters is that your gonna meet people there so....yeah I hope you make friends soon and I can be your friend if you'd like to :D :) email me if you ever feel like it: rennaalan@rocketmail.com
How often do you like to hang out with friends?
I am a junior in high school, and I am a homeschool student. I barely hang with many friends all the time because I have a busy life with school, and some friends live 1–2 hrs away from me, and some are really busy with their life at trafitional high school. Party the reason why I barely go out with friends is because I am an introvert. Sometimes I need weeks or even at the most 1 month alone. I hang with friends occasionally now, but I always have the best time with the friends that i have. I choose to only surround myself with genuine people that value me as much as I value them. It isn’t worth it to call many people your “friends”, but they don’t care for you.
No one wants to hang out with me?
First of all...I am sure you are not fat or ugly. There is no true definition of beauty, therefore no one can be defined as ugly. I'm not even joking. Okay...Here is what you need to do. (First of all disregard the people who recommended drugs as gaining friends...it wont work) If you feel uncomfortable with your self..Change it. If you feel "Fat"...Work out. You have the motivation, everyone does...find it. Try running(Super effective) For the time being, don't force hanging out with people...It may lead to disappointment (which sucks) In your spare time read or do yoga(Excercise(:!) Try to feel comfortable with being alone sometimes...it's good. For making friends...Join a club...Just be plain friendly to everyone. How ever you are presenting yourself may not be working for others(I have no clue) Hygine is important, try some flattering clothes, ect. Whatever makes you feel confident! Confidence is key...others will notice. Okay Lastly and most importantly..Don't care what others think. Seriously!!!!!! You don't need to be "Cool" its seriously not relevant to living a good life. Do whatever you want. If you want to start photography...do it! Which reminds me art is a good way to get your feelings out. (whether you can draw or not) Don't worry about not having friends for right now. they Will come and you will be happy (Only once you accept yourself) Have a good time all the time...Whether you are sitting in the basement listening to music. or just sitting alone. It's super hard...but pleaseeeeee try. I just want everyone to be happy. and it is possible. Once you are happy and confident people will come flocking to you...no matter what you look like. It's the truth. I'm really sorry you feel this way. It will get better.
My life is boring and I have no friends?
First of all, we've all had that feeling like everyone's watching you when you're out of your house and everyone judges you or just stares at you and think that you're a loner. Guess what, they don't because none of them cares about you and none of them knows who you really are and they're definitely just thinking about themselves. In this generation, we live in a world where people are selfish and greedy and all they want is money(ahem..not going to call out names here(MAYWEATHER) haha xD joking).It doesn't matter if you go out alone and it's actually good. Going out alone actually gives you a lot of time to think things through and work things through with yourself. More like, getting to know yourself better. Doing stuff outside and keeping a positive attitude draws people close to you and you can approach anyone(make sure they look friendly) with a smile and make a new friend. Like, you're out and having a walk and you stumble on someone who's walking their dog and you initiate the conversation with a compliment or a joke like the common stuff, "your dog is adorable. How old is she/he?" start a conversation. Fun people are always the ones with friends, why? Because they're always the one starting things like a conversation, a game or a joke. Be simple and always have a positive attitude. Simply, smile at people more and you'll find yourself smiling inside as well. Hope this helped :) God bless!
Since I don't have any friends to hang out with, how should I utilize my time?
As much as you like to spend time alone, you have to open up yourself to the world.I'm telling you this from my own experience. I went through bitter and extremely traumatised divorce that scarred me until today. 3 years to be exact.After my divorce, I came back to my hometown and lived with my parent. I sheltered myself through my parent, from my relatives and my friends to the extent that most of them don't even know that I am a divorcee. In fact, I did not disclose my status to my colleagues because I feel ashamed.I managed to do that because I stopped all my communication with my family and friends, I avoided any kind of social gatherings thrown by them, deactivate all of my social media and would rather spend all my weekend in my room.Of course, my mum is extremely concerned about me. She is concerned when I told her I rather do cross-stitching or watching internet all day than going out with a friend. In my mind, I was so scared that if I did go out my friends, they would ask so many personal question about my life and they will judge me. In a way, I was scared of confronting myself with the truth.Lately, I started to realize that I have wasted too long time grieving and self-pitying, when my ex could as well be enjoying his life as a single man now. I know it can be too comforting to be able to spend me-time, to determine our own activity, or time or place for an activity, rather than having to regard other people's schedule and need to do an activity together. I know it's hard to do something that is beyond our comfort zone. It's ok to utilise your time alone, but not all the time. Force yourself to attend party or social gathering hosted by your friend, even though you know you'll be awkward and uncomfortable during the event. Start calling or messaging every friends you have on your phone contact list, ask the about their well-being, or the weather, their work, anything! Sometimes, when you start conversing with other people, like your acquaintance, you might discover that that person has common interest as you than you think. Eventually and hopefully, you will find yourself a new friend to hang out with.
Why am I alone in life and dont have friends to hang out with?
Dear Kevin, I guess that your friends from PG and your jobs were pretty much the same as your friends from college : not really friends, but simply batchmates. There is a difference between friends and batchmates. Friends are people that appreciate you for your qualities, people that you would feel drawn to no matter where you meet them. Batchmates are simply people who you are stuck with and happen to get along with. You didn't really choose to be friends with them.Real friends are not that easy to come by, especially if you are not the kind of person who is willing to put up with anything from anybody, simply just not to be alone. The fact that you pulled away from the people who tried to set you up is proof that you won't tolerate friends that don't really respect you.To have real friends, you may find that you need to take some action. Choose the persons that you would like to be friends with, and be a friend to them. Don't wait for friendship to happen by itself. Take some initiative. Maybe you will find the following suggestions useful. How Can I Make Good Friends?
No friends or plans for Halloween... Loser?
Am I a loser? I have a few friends but non of them r close. people i hang out with a lunch accetp me and talk to me and are kind of friends i guess but i dont feel as if they are. usually this does not bother me but around this time of year it does. i love halloween. my 2nd favourite holiday. back when i was not in high school i went trick or treating with friends but ever since i came to high school i have had no close friends or many friends at all. i've been tryin to get a few people to spend halloween with but they don't seem serious about it. what should i do? less than a week before halloween.
I don't have any friends to hang out with on weekends??? READ ALL TO UNDERSTAND?
Im such a loser. I spend the weekends shopping with my mom and little brother while every other teenager hangs out with thier friends. All my friends live far away (I live VERY far away from my school btw) so I can't see them. I used to hang out with this girl who I was friends with but we stopped being friends cos she ditched me and ignores me now. I go to a drama group outside of school cos I love acting and want to be a actress but the kids there are mean. Im really shy (but not on stage but I haven't even had a chance to show I can act). This happens in EVERY group I join. When I was young I joined a scout group. NO ONE spoke to me and ignored me then I joined a ballet group (back when I wanted to be ballet dancer) but the same thing happened and I was miserable and couldn't wait to go home and it killed my dream. Im not leting my acting dream get killed though cos Im passionate about it. I want a friends so badly who I can hang with and go shopping with them and to the movies like any other teenager. But Im so stupidly shy (I think I have avoidant personality disorder cos I have some of the syptoms) and everyone ignores me and doesn't bother to even try to talk to me. I can't wait to move house (we are on the waiting list) and get to start a new life and meet new people. But thats gonna take forever (we have been waiting to move since 2002). What should I do for now???