How could this Aquarius guy's feelings for me change so quickly?
One month he was telling me he loved me. Then said we couldnt talk because he was falling in love with me and didnt want to. The next month he was telling me he cared about me, then the next day he was ignoring me and I ended up saying some mean things to him. The day after that he was so mean to me. Like, EXTREMELY MEAN. I assumed it would pass, so I gave him a week then contacted him, he was still angry and very mean towards me. And told me to never talk to him again, and he kept saying things like "have fun with you magical new boyfriend" (I started dating someone else) "dont talk to me anymore like you said" Since then it's been two months since I last talked to him. This is the longest we've ever not talked. So why did he act like that? What did I do wrong, and can I fix it? (I'm a Libra)
Aquarius males: why are you so afraid of connecting to your deepest feelings?
I can't answer for all Aquarius', but I know that in my case, the reason I'm so unwilling to trust anyone on such a high level is, as you mentioned, "the influence of past events." As much as I mistrust the information on Wikipedia due to the fact that any fool can edit it's contents, this (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Classical_conditioning) might help. I'm not the cold Aquarius described on several Astrology sites, quite the opposite. I give everything to my love. I write poetry in their name, take them on romantic walks around the lake, and "put them on a pedestal." However, experience has taught me not to give in so easily, if at all. My last relationship ended on a very insulting note, "I'm bored of you." Not only was I heartbroken at her leaving me, but she showed me that almost every romantic gesture meant nothing to her. She wanted me to be someone I'm not: social. I'm the strong silent type, which according to her was what attracted her to me in the first place. I still don't understand it. O.O Before that I was cheated on, and the one before that used me as a means to get over her ex. Because of all this, the only way a woman can get me to fall for her would be for her to demonstrate a strong interest in me. She would have to be persistent in trying to get me, and not give up after I've "rejected" her. That would convince me that she's not just looking for someone to wipe her eye on. It doesn't take that many times of being heartbroken to learn to avoid dating and relationships completely.
Aquarius' always hide their true emotions....?
Yes, Aquarians do not make their lives an open book. As far as emotions, they prefer to stay detached; sort of like standing on the sidelines. They do not like to be asked "how they feel", they would expect you to know how they feel. Frustrating? I'm sure......
How can this Aquarius guy get frustrated with me for not telling how I feel about him?
How can this Aquarius guy get frustrated with me for not letting him know how I feel when he's holding back his thoughts and feelings as well? I'm an Aries with virgo rising and sagittarius moon. This Aquarius guy got upset with me for not telling him directly how I felt. I think he likes me but it seems like he wants me to admit that I like him. I do have some feelings for him but I'm holding the feelings back just so that they won't be potentially wasted on the guy. Once he boldly assumed that I liked him and I said, "I think you are cool but I like you on a different level." After telling him that, the guy said his feelings were hurt. I felt bad and then told him," I like you but I'm not the type to just rush into something". I used to kinda flirt with him but I stopped because it seems like he's trying to hold back or something. He kinda insulted me the other day when I was flirting with him and he asked, "Do you want attention?". I paused for a moment wondering if he thought I was an attention whore or something. I just said, "...No." After saying "No". I just backed off of him. He got upset and said, "bye" and left. What he said just kept bugging me because I was wondering if he thought I was an attention whore. So, I text him and let him know that he kinda hurt my feelings.But, at the same time I was wondering why he got upset when I said, "No, I don't need his attention". He said that I took things the wrong way.
Does my Aquarius man really love me ? I am confused.
I think I may be able to answer this. I am an aquarius female, but the males aren’t too different from the females. Both aquarius males and females are very aloof, and detached in love. These people are the scientists of the zodiac, so they always in their heads thinking about and dissecting everything that catches their attention. Emotions are real for them, but they are more mental than emotional. They are also genuine with their emotions, so if he is telling you he loves you, he probably means it. It is very hard for aquarius people to fall in love, that is also one of the reasons they are so detached. There has to be a special connection they share with someone that will make them even think about getting closer to the person. Why not try having deep conversations with him that will get his brain juices flowing, and the cogs and wheels in his head turning.Aquarius males (usually), also depending on their moon signs and other rising signs, love to think and verbal sparring. They can’t stand shallowness in people which is why the guys don’t really date airheads. They also very humanitarian, so let him see you genuinely caring for other people and they are generous people and enjoy giving.One may consider themselves really lucky to be with an aquarian, but betray them or be deceitful— they will become icy cold toward you and completely banish you from their life and never look back. If you want to enrich your relationship with him just be genuine, enjoy your life even when he is not with you, and don’t worry so much about whether he loves you. He would not be with you if he didn’t.
Aquarius man ran away?
<"Thanks for the replies, do you think he will be back? it's really frustrating cos I kept telling him I wanted to go slow, but I loved him and his feelings got the better of him."> I think that's where you are going wrong..... If you are consistently telling him that you want to go slow, you aren't. It's more like badgering. First try not to be so frustrated. Next give him some breathing space. If you really like him then try to tell him ONCE that you believe in "us" and leave it as that. Be more confident of yourself and DO not to be too emotional over this situation. Just believe that he will come back to you but don't mention it to him more than once. I believe your problem is the way you are handling him. Yes he got scared, he probably went back thinking "Omg what have I got myself into." yes he may have lost interest. Do not blame him for being so cold it's just a reflex action. Disappearing for a while is something that is very common at least in my opinion. Edited: Even though he disappeared, please be assured that you are in his mind if what he says is true. Disappearance in my opinion is just the need for some personal freedom and reflection. I often wonder why I do the things I do, I disappear a lot to my friends, but it does not mean that I stopped thinking of them. No no no, DO NOT try to keep in contact a bit more! To you it may seem normal but to him it *can* mean "checking up on him" and "clingy." Don't send those good night messages or casual talk for a while. Ignore him for a while and give him some serious time out and if you are really the one he wants, he will most definitely come back. There's really nothing else you can do to help this problem without making it worse. Normal duration of disappearance in my case = 3 weeks to 2 months. Lastly, personally ask yourself if this sort of relationship is the one you want. Because this kind of situation is going to go on for the rest of your life with him. If you find it hard to swallow, handle your frustration and stress, then I suggest you try to give up on him. It will only lead to more pain and suffering. I apologize if I am too blunt about this. But I still hope that he comes back to you and all goes well.
What's the longest an aquarian male has gone for when getting 'their space'?
I warn you - Aquarian males (and Aquarians in general) often disappear for GOOD. I don't want to put a downer on things or try to hurt you, but in my experience it's been true. Once an Aquarian is in love with a person, the need for 'space' lessens to the point of non-existence. I never want 'space' away from my partner lol, though we do have days where we do our own thing. I've dated an Aquarian before. After our split, we went our separate ways and never really spoke again despite being best friends before. Neither of us were hurt by this because it was a mutual, unspoken understanding - an Aquarius thing I guess ha! I did this to all of my exes as well, I don't like having anything to do with them, especially if I'm in a relationship (I'm extremely loyal, I see associating with my exes as interferences and almost betrayal). It is not right or usual for an Aquarius, or any person for that matter, to disappear without any contact unless it is VERY early on. Even then, you should expect the odd online chat or text. When my partner and I first got together I 'disappeared' for two weeks to get my head sorted and decide whether or not I was ready to commit. I did this because I'd also just split with somebody. So, unless it's early in, I would say that this isn't normal, and it might be a permanent thing. If it IS early in, it could go either way - he will either claim to be missing you after a few weeks and everything will be a smooth ride from there, or he'll leave you. Sorry that I can't offer you a concrete answer - we Aquarians are a bit of a wild-card - hard to tie down and unpredictable!