Ive never had a mom but want one?
Im asking this more for comfort. My mom left me when I was a baby. Ive only seen her 3 times and all have been bad. The first was she showed up at ny 6th birthday party and she smashed my face into my cake. She hit me so hard i broke my nose. My grandma took me to wash up and my mom followed and tried to takeover. My grandma protested and they begam to fight. My mom pushed me into a bathtub and scratched at my grandma and hit her over the head. I had both of their blood on me that Night. The other 2 times she showed up our of the Blue, said hi and left to hangout with her boyfriend and score drugs most likely. I am 13 now. Ive always seen that caring mother figure on TV and I want that. Whenever I see people with their mothers I feel cheated and i sometimes have to hold back tears because bad thoughts hit me Like a bullet and never go away. I now am battling depression. Sometimes Like tonight I get sad over this and begin to sqeeze a pillow and pretend Like im getting a hug. I also sometimrd think to myself in a mothers voice that everything will be okay. I constantly have to comfort myself when I get sad, and I have trouble being ignored. I try to be the class clown to get attention and it only works around half the time. I feel lonely when im being ignored. I feel Like I could use help but I dont know how to get it. Theres a counciler at my school but I have a hard time opening up to people.I would trade my possesions for a motger If I could. What can i do to get over this? And please dont judge me. Ive been through more than what i mentioned.
What do I do when my dad threatened to smash my phone? My mom took my phone just to make me mad and when I got mad at her getting the phone for absolutely no reason my dad threatened me.
I think there are a few missing parts here. As a Mom of 3, I never took away electronics just to piss my kids off. Usually, I had a very good reason to take the phone away. And, I was well within my right to do so since I paid the phone bill.So, you claim you mom too the phone to piss you off.And, you got pissed off. You accused Mom of taking the phone for no reason.Now, your dad is in the mix and he wants to smash your phone.First off, your version doesn’t make any sense. No mother wants to purposely incite an argument with their teen. What is your responsibility that your phone was taken?Second, who pays the bill? Mom and Dad or you?Third, I believe you omitted a big part in your story. When you got mad at Mom, did you really go overboard? I’ll bet you did and I’m betting that’s how Dad got into the middle of this nightmare standoff.I think you are a spoiled little shit who thinks he/she is entitled to blow up on the Mom, show immense disrespect towards Mom, even though it was YOU who committed an infraction and YOU that blows your top. What you deserve is a good old trip to the woodshed with Dad. I actually hope your Dad is smart enough to take the fucking phone back to the store to get a refund, then drops your ass from cell service completely. Obviously, you lack the respect and moral integrity to own a phone.But, you are always welcome to get a job and get a pay as you go phone yourself.
My mom smashed my phone on purpose?
Take a chance.Usually in these cases mothers want their kids to do what they never got to do in life (look at Toddlers and Tiaras -_-) but seriously, you have to confront him and say something.She won't stop unless you say something.
I'm 21, and my dad said he was going to smash my face in?
I'm perfectly aware that it is wrong to curse at my mom, and it was the first time in my life I did it. He made a fist and winded it up at me like he was getting ready to punch me if he didn't like my answer. They asked me to move in, and I pay all of my own bills, and pay for me and my sons food, clothing, and childcare. I own my car and do chores around the house without being asked. This is all because I told my mom that I was molested when I was 7. It was the first time I spoke of it in 14 years, and I asked her not to tell my dad because I wasn't ready for that yet. Well, she told him. And they both made it like it was my fault, I got upset and retorted at my mom. I don't get why she was attacking me. I'm not a saint, I'm not 100% right in this situation, but I don't feel like this is right.
I don't want anything to do with my dad.?
I can't stand my father. I don't like him. Never have, never will. He hasn't been in my life for 16 years and now that my mom has passed away, I'm forced to live with him and my stepmom. My dad doesn't even care about me or my older brother. He pretends to but at the end of the day, is just a huge liar. When he found out my mom was pregnant in 1993 with my brother, he pretended to care but just ended up leaving both my mother and brother and went and got married so some other women. (My stepmom) That was in 1994. I was born in 1996, so he cheated on my stepmom with MY mom and had me. But, of course, left right after I was born to go back to his wife. All in all, he broke my mothers heart and played her like a piano. Kept feeding her and my stepmom lies to get what he wanted. So now that my mother has suddenly passed away, I'm forced to live with my dad. This man is INSANE. He, all of a sudden, thinks he has the right to hit me, yell at me for no reason, he took my ipod, iphone, ipad, tablet, and my laptop and smashed them with a brick. FOR NO REASON. He says I'm not aloud to have a boyfriend, or friends, & I'm not aloud to go outside unless it's for school. (Not even to get fresh air.) He's blocked my facebook, twitter and tumblr. Only mine. With my stepmom, he has 4 other kids who he gives the WORLD to. They can do whatever they want and have whatever they want. It's just me who he doesn't let have or do anything. I don't get it. I'm a good child. Even though I despise this man, I'm respectful to him and I do everything he says. But he refuses to see the good in me. Why does he treat me like this but he treats his other kids so much better? I want to runaway SO bad. I seriously don't want anything to do with my dad. I'm turning 17 in February so I know that I only have one more year before I can leave but I don't even think I can handle that. He even told me during the summer that I'm going to be in our house everyday and that I'm not aloud to do anything the entire summer. All I'm aloud to do is go to school, come home, do homework, eat and sleep. He's blocked every channel on the TV except Nick and Disney channel. I just feel like the red-headed step-child. What should I do?
My Dad broke my phone in anger?
Hi, So my dad was bad at me the entire weekend, because I wasn't doing his work such as picking up HIS clothes and making HIS bed. My dad liteally expects the women of the household to do all housework. Well because I refused to do his work over the weekend and my mom didn't help him with his work from his office he was really mad Then on monday morning at breakfast he asked me a question and I did respond in a rude manner (i'll admit) because while he was mad at the over the weekend he literally calls me the worst names you can imagine. He makes fun of my skin color (its super dark), the way i talk and walk etc. He then took my phone and smashed it against the ground completley killing it. He did this because he thought I was in touch with my uncle and cousins who he doesn't like even though my uncle is his brother. He thought my uncle was teaching me how to rebel against my father. I am not sure what to do at this point. I would like to get a new phone but I am not sure how to even ask him Please help me Thanks
My dad tried to kill me and he broke the door?
i'm 14 and a girl i got made and went into my parents room and i slammed the door i couldn't open it(it wasn't locked) but it got stuck then i started screaming help! and my dad came and he smashed open the door he broke the door its torn my mom will be so ticked off when she gets back and my dad will blame it on me:( i didn't brake it! my mom will get so ticked off that their bedroom door is broken then i was trying to get out of their room after my dad broke the door then my dad pushed me down and put his big fat hand around my neck chocking me and he put his other big fat hand on my nose so i couldn't breath he told me this "just die do everyone a favor and kill yourself" what do i do? i'm crying in my room wishing i could live somewhere else PLEASE NO MEAN OR RUDE ANSWERS