She always asks me, "why have you chosen me, what's so special about me?". What should be an appropriate answer for this, so that she will be totally satisfied?
Your answer will depend on your feelings for her. This is what I told my husband when we were discussing the fact that we never really dated anyone else:I chose you, because when I compared you to other guys in my life, they were all lacking in some way. Not as funny, not as smart, not as interesting, not as cute, not as kind. You were my standard, you had everything I never knew I needed, and then one day I realized I just couldn't live without you anymore. You know I'm a decisive person and I always know exactly what I want. Well, you were what I wanted, but I also discovered, that you were what I needed. I'm sure now that I'll never find anyone just like you, so I'm staying here with you for the rest of my life.When I ask my husband this question, it takes him a while. He goes through life not really looking inside himself to see why he does things. Sit for a little while and think about what makes this girl so special to you. Tell her the reasons why no one else is quite good enough.
When and why did you choose to stay single for the rest of your life?
I turned 25 when I chose to be single for the remainder of my earthly years. There is no possibility here or now or never that I will have anyone, and it irritates me when others think it is alright to simply say, 'you just haven't found the one.'Or when they say, "who will you share your special moments with, you need someone to share life with." I value serenity. I value financial independence. I love traveling on my own, what does it matter if there is no one by my side, it is whether I am happy that counts. To others this may sound selfish, just like the choice of being child-free which I am, but how many people have I seen who are in relationships, and are just plain miserable. I've seen people in loveless relationships, in toxic ones, infidelity, abuse, drug - abuse, emotional scarring, and yet they remain with each other, slowly killing themselves for whatever reasons they can weakly explain. Now that, to me, is a waste of life, but it has also given me insight into the darkest parts of the human soul, and I did not like what I saw. That is when my streak for singleness became stronger than ever. It burned like fire. I would rather have dear good friends, than a boyfriend or husband. I choose tranquility of mind and the pursuit of knowledge than being stuck at home with two kids and a slobbering dog. In a way, I am wandering soul. I have Gypsy blood.Instead ask yourself this, "Isn't it selfish to dump one's emotional and physical issues onto another person?" "Isn't it selfish to get into a relationship simply because you feel loneliness and not love?" If you find a partner you want to marry, Kudos to you ^_^As for me, I already found the person I want to give love and happiness to...me!
Why did he chose her over me?
so i was really into this guy and he seemed to be really into me and i thought we could be something really great together and i loved the way he treated me, well my bday is about a month away and he was talking about taking me away..and everything seemed to be going fine..then he comes to me today and said hes confused about life and not sure what he wants and that he thinks he wants his ex, and sure enough he goes back to her.. ok so this chick is apparently a raging psycho path and stalker with 5 kids that treated him like complete **** and thats why he dumped her..they dated for 2 yrs and he got fed up and left and they were broken up almost a yr..wtf made him go back to her i mean u cant change someone, and he couldnt make it work for 2 yrs and he wants to be with her the rest of his life? he said he things he only focused on the bad things, and dosnt wanna give up. can anyone help me understand the logic behind this ? it seems he has a need to try and fix people i guess ?
Why did my mother chose her boyfriend over me?
I'm 24 now. I haven't spoke to my mother in six years. She chose her boyfriend over me. She don't even know her grandkids. My parents are not together anymore and my father keeps telling me its her lost. Just before I left she keep showing hate towards me because she thought I'd take her boyfriend. He's in prison now. I could go on and on about the problem. My brothers and sisters think I should give her another chance. After all these years and all that she done to me I just can't. I don't know what to do.
Out of all the girls why did he choose me?
he had girls talking to him all the time so then why did he choose me. I'm sure i wasn't as pretty as some of them, and i don't wear as much makeup. we aren't together anymore but im just wondering to myself why did he choose me out of all those girls who wanted him?
Why did you choose mechanical engineering?
I don’t want to lie by telling that it was my childhood dream, I love machines & vehicles, to be looked upon by girls (generally there was a stereotype that other dept girls will like Mech. dept boys :P :P).It happened to me, I did not get any other seats in a good college (during 2010 IT was at its peak and core fields was not preferred by students & of course parents). So I chose mechanical engineeringDuring first year, it was all same for all departments, so I did not feel any difference.From my second year I felt the difference, because I started to feel the liveliness in the field, rather than sitting in the computer and simply type the codes.Third year was awesome and we had live encounters with the engines, we smell like shit after our practicals, as you need to sweat a lot, even if you need to crank an engine. The grease & oils in our hands, face made me to feel that we were different from other departments.We had mini project in the third year and our projects used to be bulk and will require separate transportation to carry to the college, whereas other department project can be contained in a CD.And finally fourth year, we had many practical subjects and it was utmost fun.More than engineering this department had me the following things which helped me and is helping me to taste new heights.If you need to succeed, you need to sweat out.Don’t worry what others think about you, you only knows what you are doing and where you are heading to.It is fine not to get along with girls, you will have one more burden of searching a girl for you upon your parents. :P :PThere are other departments too which are lively like Civil and EEE, but I only shared my experiences as a mechanical engineer.
Why did he choose me over all the pretty girls?
Beauty is internal and external girl! My girlfriend is kinda big. She's so hot though. I think when you really love someone, everything about them is a plus. I love cuddling my girlfriend, she's amazing to be beside. She has glasses - she looks much better without them. Makes me appreciate her without them more, you know? I'm not exactly perfect! She tells me how attracted she is to me, constantly. I think it takes love to look across at someone and see them as the most beautiful person in the world. I think it takes a special kind of love to see someone for what they are, and love them for that anyway. It's mature to go for someone based on personality over looks, for sure. He sounds like a really good guy. And you needn't feel insecure - if he wanted the hottest girl around he'd have gone for her. He wants the one he feels he can love most... and that's you. Just a small extra, I've had girls come onto me that are possibly hotter than my girlfriend but I really couldn't give a crap when they do. I'm delighted to be with someone who understands and loves me like she does. Her being dark, curvy and having a beautiful face are just added bonuses.