My mom makes me cry everyday and idk why?
She is soo nice to my sister. She literally steals my stuff for my sister. I am suicidal and have started self harm. I have 7 more slow years until I can live by myself and never comeback to a snake like her. She abuses me and hits me for no reason. Pls dont be like there are worse mom's because I know that. I just dont know what to do. I bake and cook for her sometimes and all she says is that its burnt or it tastes bad and she kills my confidence. When I try to tell my dad all he says is that shes my mother and she can do anything she wants to do with me. For 6 years when we did not live without her and my brother used to hit me. Then I used to cry and ask for my mother because I thought that she likes me. I was completly wrong. Once she came i was happy because I haven't seen her for 6 years then a month or two after she became a snake. My dad is always working so she can do whatever she wants. At night she acts like she loves me and then she turns to a witch after I come back for school. She wants to ruin my life. I want to suicide and the only thing that is keeping me is that suicide is not allowed in our religion. I'm trying my best not to cry buckets right now. I have Community Service Club on Mondays and last week she said to my dad "why does she go she doesn't do anything there" now my dad might not let me go anymore. I want to go and drink bleach now. I have already started cutting myself right now and I have 2 big ones and i sated 2 days ago. IDK what to do help.
I made my mom cry and idk what to do?
Neither of you are in the wrong. This is just a type of generation gap thing. She finds it hard to relate to you and vice versa. Sometimes a daughter (or son) have to stop and think for a moment. And the conclusion which works a lot is for the "child" to become the mature adult and parent. Completely shock her with your sudden thoughtfulness and manners. Show how mature you are. Ignore any put downs and continue being nice and helpfull. Put her needs before your own. Through time she'll start to notice a change in the relationship and will treat you as an adult. After all, someone has to take the lead to mend things so why not you? Good luck.
How do I tell my mom that I broke my phone?
Tell her the truth.This question brings a few things to my mind.Some years after i got glasses for my eyesight, the doctor recommended i use contact lenses. Abbu (my father) brought me a pair. It cost quite a lot. I wore them, took them off, put them back in their case. Unbeknown to me, one lens had a part of it caught between the cap and wall of the case. When i twisted the cap open the next day, the lens tore up. I ran to Abbu, crying. He patted me and brought me a new pair.And the end of my orthodontic treatment, the dentist gave me a retainer to wear, which cost Rs. 5000. It was the early nineties, and this was a big sum of money. I wore them all day, then took them off and put them on the tray under the bathroom mirror. I don't remember exactly how a commotion was caused but the next thing i knew, the retainer went flying in the air and landed straight in the toilet seat. Abbu was in the office. I called him. I was crying so hard he had trouble understanding me. Again, when i told him between sobs i could never bring myself to put the rescued retainer in my mouth again, he told me he would get me another one, and he did.In 1999, Abbu got me my first computer. This time, my younger sister broke the switch on the case that turns the computer on. She told him how it happened. He didn't do anything except to call the vendor. The computer vendor told Abbu he would have to replace the entire casing, and charge him Rs. 10000! Abbu stayed mute for a day. Then he mended the switch by himself.In 2003, he got me my first mobile phone. I remember it cost him Rs. 11000. It was a simple nokia phone. I took it with me to my new job, and lost it within the first week. Someone stole it from my desk. Cell phones were very susceptible to theft in those days. He listened to my story, told me how to get my sim blocked by the cellular network, and bought me the same model again.He taught his girls to tell him their mistakes openly. I don't remember him shouting or raging at the end of any of our confessions.In 2006, i got married. This is what Abbu said to my husband in the early days of our marriage:"She tore her first pair of lenses, she threw her first retainer in the toilet, she messed up her first computer, she lost her first cell phone… that being said, my son, you are her first husband!”
Why Is My Mom Acting Weird?
My mom will act alitle weird from time to time..we don't know whats going on with her,We've been told it's cause she's smoking too much and not enough oxygen is going to her brain but idk if thats why this happens.My mom will be acting fine then she'll start getting all weird out of no where,this will last for up to 3-4 days some of the things she does when she acts weird are.. - She slurs (no she is not using drugs) - She wants to sleep more (and sleeps heavier to a point where she won't get up with her alarm and I have to make sure she gets up for work) - She says things she normally wouldn't say - She gets mad about things that she normally doesn't even care about - Her eyes tend to look like she's always tired - She likes to use the pharse "It's always about you" to me and my brother's - She tries to clean up more (Even when it's not needed) - She refuses to take naps during the day but at night she'll sleep more - She forgets things when she goes to the store and often will buy things we don't need Those are just a few of the things she does when she acts weird.When this happens I'm the one who deals with it because I have 2 brothers and 1 is 21 and 1 is 15.The 21 year old doesn't have a job and refuses to go outside,The 15 year old would rather sleep at a friend's then be home.I on the other hand need to be home because my mom needs me and I can't just leave her.Does anyone have any idea on what might be going on with my mom?My mom's been smoking since she was 16 and she's now 48 so I don't think that she has a lack of Oxygen going to her brain cause I think it would've started sooner and the doctor that told us this was kind of a quack.I do know for sure she isn't using any kind of a drug because she had a problem with drugs in the past and stopped doing them back in 2000.If anyone has any idea on what might be wrong,I'd appreciate the help.Thanks!
My mom died of cancer, im only 16?
I'm sorry for your loss. My sister died very suddenly from cancer. I was 19 and my other sister was 17. It's been a tough 2 years and its easy to say but, although you will never "get over" your mum's death, you will find a way to live with it. Your new life is one where feeling sad is the "norm", and although over time this sadness will lessen (especially when you have your own children etc), you will always have a wound that will be easily torn open again, like hearing your mum's favourite song or smelling her perfume. Unfortunately, losing your parents is part of life and you have been unlucky enough to lose your mum at an age when you need her around. Make sure you take care of yourself physically as well as emotionally. Also, talk to your school and submit mitigating circumstances for any exams you are might be about to take etc so that your loss will be taken into account by your teachers. xxx
My father cheated on my mom...?
Poor you there had to be a reason why he did it. My dad didn't cheat he just rejected us said he didn't want us anymore we all hated him till he came back after ten years then died. I've learned even though my dad did that he will always be my dad and nothing can change that. And I forgive him for all he did. I think you should help your mum through this because shes going to be hurting the most seeming as though she was married to him. I hope things get better for you and your family.
I hear my mom and step dad having sex!!!?
So i'm a 14 year old girl and sometimes i hear my mom and step dad doing it. I hear kissing and the bed shaking and I just get so scared. It really annoys me and i don't know what to do. I don't feel comfortable going to the bathroom because it feels awkward and i am not going to talk to my mom about it also because I don't feel comfortable about that either. Please don't tell me that its a part of life or that I should put on headphones. It really grosses me out and I want them to stop. I get really mad at my mom and if I don't talk to her the next day she gets mad at me and asks me why i'm not talking to her and I tell her that I don't feel like it because i'm not going to tell her I heard her having sex. Today i was at a restaurant and i was on my phone and they thought I wasn't paying attention so they were touching each other under the table and i heard the sound of a zipper. Also they were like where are the cameras and when the waiter came, they put there hands back on the table. Also when i was in the car, I was on the phone and my mom asked my step dad something and he was like i don't know ill tell you when i have my desert, I didn't have it yet and he did have it at the restaurant. Just because i'm on my phone doesn't mean i can't hear them. Also, I'm not 5 and i know what their talking about. Their 50 years old and acting like 18 year olds. I am disgusted and I want this to stop. HELP PLEASE!!!