Can a you feel your baby moving at 4 months Pregnant?
Hey ppl!! I will be 4 months preg. on THURSDAY.....WOO-WOO!! ANYWAY....is it possible to be feeling baby movements this early? i feel this fluttering in my stomach out the blue thru out the day, Like butterflies. its NOT gas, believen me i can detremine that feeling...lol. please let me know
I feel so lonely and need a girlfriend, what is wrong with me?
Well when you're going out with a girl and you find out more about her and realize she doesn't like what you like, that doesn't mean you wont get along. Show her your interest and participate in the things she likes to do. Believe me, finding a girl that you share everything in common with doesn't mean everything will workout with her. Accept a girl for who she is and what she likes and find the things you like about her and just build on those.
Why did she say that she had feelings for me but then, after a month, she ignores me and does not want to keep in contact with me?
You asked a very common question however as most do forget to add “Detail”. Not to say you need to provide a play by play but certainly a “start” ie; what was going on while she admitted she had feelings for you. Furthermore and probably more telling is the setting that you got your first blow off and actual verbiage as to “not wanting to keep in contact.”Most of the time it’s just plain lack of interest as she feels like she has gotten the most out of you and was unsatisfied with you. ****Please do not take this as something is wrong with you; because that wouldn’t be fair to you and it’s plain self defeating. She had some reason however that reason is hers to carry and after a measly month certainly didn’t give it enough time to see things grow.Because I have to speculate given the info you provided I’m going to say you had one of the “I love the feeling of being loved just can’t stand being in love! Does that make sense? If not please read it again. Most would generalize it as a fear of commitment, however there is much more going on than meets the eye. It could have been a range of items from her maybe just getting out of a relationship and not ready to start a new one to the night runner; those who love the feeling/rush of the chase but once that ends and you provide more than enough attention to her she’s got ya and she’s gonna move on to regain that excitement.I wish I could help you more however based on the info you provided it’s my best assumption. Remember unless you absolutely did a total crap move or got caught lying, cheering etc. this is NOT YOUR FAULT! If anything count your blessings that she went so quick. Imagine how bad that feeling could be after a few months or even years! The one thing I will say as the minute you stop chasing is the time she will come back to try and hurt you again. Try to keep this in mind before you give anyone your precious time!Best,JD
4 months pregnant and don't feel my baby moving?
Well, from what I hear, if you stay active the baby is more likely not to move, because essentially you're rocking him/her to sleep. All babies are different though so I would suggest talking to your doctor.
How you felt when you came back to your home first time after living in a Hostel or PG ? What difference you felt after meeting your parents and relatives?
Recently during diwali vacations me and my friends i.e my hostelite buddies went home particularly after a period of 4 months…One of them put this quote which defines the question properly, the quote goes likeFor your parents it is like you have come after winning a war, they sing the homecoming of the warrior.They are like “ kitna uccha hogaya hai tu, aur ye baalo kay haal kar diya hai “Your height has increased significantly and look at ur hairs, what u made of them:)After eating the mess food you believe, taste and flavour such thing never exists, having the home made food you can't stop licking your fingers.To conclude following things you learn going home after staying at hostel-You understand the value of home cooked food, and consider it as best.You cherish the feeling of home and family.It is quite a experience to meet old friends and visiting the city you stayed in.Some places seem alien to you.Vaction being over you don't feel like going back to hostel.I am pretty sure all those who stay away from their hometown does feel the same.:)
Someone PLEASE help -- I regret having sex with my boyfriend?
My boyfriend has recently been telling me that he "doesn't feel anything" when we have sex (we use comdoms, and he blames the condoms) and that it "doesn't feel good". I lost my virginity to him around 4 months ago and having sex for the first time was a huge deal for me (I waited until I was 20 years old/after we dated quite some time). I know him and his ex girlfriend had unprotected sex and he liked it a lot; however, I'm not his stupid ex-girlfriend and have NO intention of having a baby at this point in my life, so I'm not going to risk having unprotected sex. I feel like he doesn't enjoy having sex with me, because after a while, he'll just stop and say "I want to stop" or "I don't feel anything anymore", and blames it on the fact that we're using a condom. It makes me feel like complete and utter **** to know that I will NEVER be able to give him everything he wants and to completely satisfy him in the way he wants me to, and it absolutely kills me to know that I'll never make him feel the way his ex girlfriend did. I can't get over this. I feel like no matter how good our sex life is, it will never compare to how he felt when he was with her. What do I do? I suggested that we just stop having sex because it is definitely not on the top of my list of priorities right now and he's against it -- he only claims that people "enjoy sex" when they aren't using condoms, so why would he even want to continue to have sex with me if it feels terrible? Someone please help me figure out what the hell I should do. Thanks.
Did your ex ever contact you after breaking up? What did you do in that breakup phase?
My ex works with me. And dumped me after getting physical with me with the excuse that we are incompatible. For me, getting intimate with a guy means he’s committed to me for the long term. The fact he lost the guts to stand up to his orthodox Malayalee family and only made an empty promise to me at the beginning was something I realized the day after he left me crying on the roadside at 9 in the night on a lonely road. And when you do that in India, it means you could not care less.Anyway, fast forward to three months later. I’m not over him. He, having moved on a long ago has acquired a new girlfriend in the office . She is the typical Malayalee girl looks-wise and wouldn’t even try to contradict you. I’m a part Bengali and don’t suffer fools lightly. Basically, he got the kind of girl sanskar loves.So now I have to watch them both flirt and canoodle. In public. Worse, they sit in direct view of my cubicle and he never misses an opportunity to chat her up in front of me. And very carefully never so much as glances my way. Though he knows I can see.The only thing i can do is hunch down and keep working. When their laughter becomes too much to handle, I get the heck out of there. Breakdown in a secluded place. Dry my tears and thank God for waterproof make-up. Return to work.
I don't think I ever loved my boyfriend, what should I do?
We've been together almost a year, and we moved in together 2 months ago. I don't think I ever felt strong feelings for him. In the beginning, I would get all those giddy crush feelings, but after about 4 months, I became comfortable around him & the crush feeling went away & no love feeling came. I'm very attached to him, and he makes me feel safe & happy, but I don't gush or get flustered around him. I realized something was wrong whenever he would do nice things for me... like buy me flowers, gifts, etc. I never fell head over heels when he did those things. He still does them. When he says he loves me, wants to marry me, etc.. I don't get grossed out, but I don't feel anything. I'm really confused, because this is my first.. everything! (First boyfriend, relationship, living together, etc.) I've never been with a guy where I felt completely comfortable with, so maybe I just need to give it time? Or maybe I am in love & just am used to the whole "Disney love story" idea? Haha..