Is being antisocial a bad thing?
Not necessarily. It really depends to what extreme you take it. There is nothing wrong with being an introvert and preferring your own company. However, you do need some social connections, as people are social beings and survive only because we group up. Your antisocial tendencies, if extreme, can stem from a real psychological issue. There is a disorder called "Antisocial Personality Disorder," look it up and see if it applies to you. You can simply have no motivation to socialize as you may have been burnt in the past. Therapy might help uncover any such hidden reasons. It might be worth your while to look into it. Good luck!
Why Is Being Anti Social Such A Bad Thing?
Your not necessarily a bad person for being anti social. As one wise man once said "That man is either too good or too bad for the rest of us", and that is probably one of the most true things ever spoken. I'm with you on this one. Most of the kids in my school aren't nice to me either, so I make no effort what so ever to be nice to them. Of course no one in my school bullies me or anything, but thats because I seem to scare most people, even though I don't really try to. The way I see it you are not inclined to be nice to anyone who isn't nice to you, even though your /supposed/ to be nice to everyone regardless. I used to have to go through the exact same thing with my Aunt, she always told me that "You can't live on your own without other people in your life." and I would always reply with "Maybe /You/ can't but /I/ can". Know that your father is only looking out for you, seeing as to most people it is unhealthy to be alone all the time, but you and me aren't most people. We are different in the sense we don't need or really want to be surrounded by others 24/7. Just explain to your dad what you explained to us, how you don't like anyone in that school and would rather be alone than to have to hang out with them. I'm sure he will understand and leave you alone in time.
Is being antisocial a bad thing?
Yes. Being antisocial;Parasitic lifestylePoor behavioural controlsPromiscuous sexual behaviourEarly behaviour problemsLack of realistic long-term goalsImpulsivityIrresponsibilityFailure to accept responsibility for own actionsMany short term marital relationshipsJuvenile delinquencyRevocation of conditional releaseCriminal versatilityis bad. If you mean “a”social;nonsocial, unsocial, and social uninterestthen no. That is not bad. It might be a limiter to your life, but it isn’t a wholly negative thing.Hare Psychopathy ChecklistAsociality
Do you consider being anti-social a bad thing?
I would say that being "anti"-social is reactive and therefore "bad", but that being unsocial might indicate intelligence. Most people are either a waste of time or trouble. Only a few people are worth cultivating a realtionship with. One must be discerning.
Is it bad to be anti-social in high school?
I'm half-way through high school & I really just have no desire to hang out. During freshman & the first third of sophomore year, I really liked hanging out. Mostly because I had a big group of friends & we would all hang out with each other, but most of them decided to turn their backs on me for no reason. On top of that, I was diagnosed with depression a couple of months ago & I've gotten a bit better, but seeing pictures of everyone hanging out together on Facebook kind of reminded me how much I hate going out now. Of course it feels weird & a bit hurtful not even being invited or acknowledged, but I'm worried because I'm a teenager, but I'd rather sit in my room & read or listen to music rather than go out with the few people I'm close enough with to hang out with. I've never really talked in class & I hate most of the kids I go to school with anyways. I'm not super studious either. Is this a bad thing?
Is being Anti-Social bad?
Im like this because I have a dislike for People not all people but the ones that are messy, rude, have attitudes, people who bully, and people who let down others and etc.... when im at school I never talk to the other students unless they say something to me but usally I hang around in the teachers room I see how people act the way they treat other people the way they trash other people and how they choose which friends side they will be on if two or more of their friends decide to argue abd tbh I used to get bullied and been laughed at talked about but its ok with me and I have now became what I am today anti social... is this a bad thing? and btw I only talk to those who I feel understand me or those who dont. Have the traits I listed above but like I said before is that a bad thing?
What's so Bad about being Anti-Social.?
Actually, you aren't anti-social. You are just not social. Anti-social means to go against societal norms or not caring about rules that society has. So killing someone for funsies is something society is against, so doing it would make you anti-social. Not wanting to be around people because you are not a good enough judge of character to only open yourself up to those that can be trusted just makes you non-social. (Also, if you never open yourself up, you will never know the joy of true intimacy.) So relax, you aren't anti-social. I hope.
What do people think when they hear "antisocial personality disorder"?
Thanks for the A2A Holly!Unwise to generalise overall what ‘people’ might think regarding this, however I could give suggestions as to the impression I get from others:Those with ASPD dislike mixing with others - they mistake it for being asocial.Having ASPD makes you an abuser - it doesn’t & it doesn’t matter what evidence you give that anyone can be abusive some people don’t take any notice.Being diagnosed ASPD means a person is evil - no one is all good or all bad, actions may be perceived by some as evil but I don’t believe calling people evil is acceptable.ASPD = Criminal which is not necessarily the case for all. Some criminals wouldn’t qualify for ASPD, just as some diagnosed ASPD don’t commit crimes. It’s more complex than many people can understand.When people hear Antisocial Personality Disorder it’s going to depend on their experiences & their understanding or knowledge what they think of it. Even some of the most educated & knowledgable have set ideas on this & other disorders, no matter what evidence you provide contrary to their views they won’t accept it’s necessary to change their preconceived ideas.(Image courtesy of google).
How do I overcome being antisocial?
1, Go get a part time job in retail, where the employees are required to be talkative and nice.2, Take a class in sales, where you are trained to communicate.3, Go to a church, where the people are very friendly, and force yourself to interact.4, Join a networking group or group on meetup or similar. Force yourself to go, and don’t leave until you talk with every person in the room if possible.5, Join a speech or lecture club.6, Get in an acting class or sign up for a play.7, Memorize a great speech by a great person you admire, and become a master at it. Then be ready to quote it to people and impress them. Or do the same with some lines from your favorite movie.8, Volunteer for a fundraising cause important to you, where you have to go door to door, and talk with people.9, Find a game or sport you like, that requires two or more players, where you have to communicate with the other person.10, Work on raising your self esteem. Generally, when one is antisocial, they don’t like people or are afraid of people, because there is something about themselves they do not like or are not confronting. Examine yourself, and increase your self worth.11, Another reason one is anti-social is that someone in their environment did or is putting them down. Realize that you can communicate. You can be an effect on another person, and be willing to be affected by other people when you want to. Realize it is OK to like and love yourself, and others.12, Listen to positive self help coaching seminars and lectures free on You Tube, by greats such as Zig Zigler, Anthony Robbins, Brian Tracy, Jim Rohn, and many more. Follow their advice, and feed your mind with great coaching and self esteem and success training daily.Go for it! Wising you the best on your journey.Best wishes,(c) 2018, the Official Bruce Edwin Website