What's something your gender does that the opposite gender never even thinks about?
This question demands a lot of generalizing, but I’ll answer it anyway. Here are some things women do that I don’t think men understand or experience the same way.We can talk for hours about our (and each other’s) emotions, relationships, and experiences—and enjoy it thoroughly. My husband will talk about his deep feelings with me, but it wears him out, and though it might satisfy a need for intimacy, I don’t think I could say he really enjoys it in the strict sense of the word. I also don’t think he’s alone in that. When he’s been hanging out with guy friends and I ask him how it went, he always tells me what they did, not what they talked about.We will spend half the day anticipating the glorious moment when we will be able to shed our bra for the rest of the night. One of the purest pleasures known to mankind.Speaking of breasts, having large ones is just one hassle after another: pain, sweat, sagging, stretch marks, containing them during exercise, finding clothes that fit over them, constantly exposed cleavage, and dropping things into your cleavage, just to name a few. I wish mine were small—B cup, tops. Many men don’t get that.Being able to enjoy sex at multiple levels of engagement. We have to gauge our level of sexual excitement pretty close to the beginning of the sexual experience and decide whether we can (or want to) “go all in” or not. For women, sex is usually as much mental as physical, and we have to fully commit our concentration and enthusiasm for the most satisfying experience. Sometimes we know up front we don’t have it in us. However, we can enjoy the closeness, the skin-to-skin contact, our partner’s pleasure, and the emotional connection even on those rare occasions when orgasm isn’t part of the picture. (Although, of course, we reserve the right to call an audible at any point!) I don’t think men think of it the same way.We have trouble turning off our inner voice so we can go to sleep. Maybe this isn’t just a woman thing. My sample size is pretty small. But most of my friends say that their husbands, like mine, fall asleep within seconds of head hitting pillow, while we all lie there ruminating on the day just past and making mental lists of things for the next day. I’m madly jealous, frankly. Please give me your ability to compartmentalize.
If you could change one thing about the opposite sex, what would it be?
My previous answer was stupid, so I deleted it and here’s my new answer:Well, I might get hated on for my answer, so I will answer both genders to give people a more fair idea instead of provoking their judgmental aggressive-defensive emotional reply trigger.If I were to change something about a gender, my goal is to make them more distinctive. The tricky thing is humans are so malleable. So, one characteristic I could add is one characteristic they could already have. Hmm… Got it!First of all, get rid of male nipples. In fact, males have mammary organs, get rid of all that. I want to get rid of man b00bs. No man should have man b00bs. And talking about b00bs, women would have… an adult woman 5′7′’ tall would have at least b-cup. Women of different sizes would have the equivalent scale. Maybe a woman 5 ft tall would have an a-cup. I don’t know if that scales up right. I want women to have noticeable the main attribute. Remember, I said at least. Meaning could have bigger size cups.Second, all women would have curves, and all men would not have curves.Third, men hair could only grow 2 inches long at most. And it would grow away from the face. To be more specific, I mean the hair that grows on the head except for the hair that grows on the face.Fourth, all men would be able to grow thick nice beards, with no odd patterns or bald spots. I, for example, all my beard grows in direction from left to right. And I have bald spots. It limits the beard styles I could have. But I can still pull it off pretty good. I know there’s others who have it much worse than me.And speaking of beards, women would not grow any mustache or beard. I’m pretty sure women are annoyed by those ‘’girl stashes’’ and two or three hairs coming out of the chin. I have an aunt that actually shaves. Because at first she had two or three hairs, but unlike her mother and sisters, instead of getting laser surgery, she shaved them. And scientists say its not true because they don’t understand it, but its true. Shaving makes hair grow. More, and thicker.So, I guess that’s it.
Is it okay to say 'I love you' to your best friend of the opposite gender?
Asking questions like this always brings us back to the religious community. Of course it's odd!! You shouldn't be too close with the opposite gender, about best friend! Your boyfriend is suppose to be your bestfriend...isn't he your best friend?? Lets examine the titles that you described both of them. BEST(Out of all the friends you have, this one is the ONE) friend Boy ( A male, the opposite gender of a female) friend Best friend ; That guy you always talk to, the guy you say you love, keep teasing eachother(flirting), spending time with eachother. Boyfriend : The guy who you always talk to, the guy you say you love, keep teasing eachother(flirting), texting, spending time with eachother. Now you probably give more attention to your boyfriend but do you not think he deserve that title "BEST FRIEND"? And you could argue that well best friend can be girls too so are girls saying they are lesbians if they have a boyfriend a bestfriend(female)?? Well you are still wrong because when it applies to the opposite gender, the situation gets even titer and suspicious and heres why. Because if you were to give a girl that title "best friend" you would be saying out of all the female friends you have she is your best female friend. That girl you can share your girly thoughts with and share girly suggestions, advice etc but as I said when it comes to guys, you are like what can you share with a guy!? Except that attention, love and companionship? Wake up! You are building a relationship with your bestfriend who is a guy and he probably likes you because he thinks you love him now and he probably loves you too. He KNOWS he has the best title. He KNOWS that he is in a better position, and has a better status than your boy friend basically male friend. Your soulmate is suppose to be your bestfriend and your bestfriend knows HE IS PLAYING THE BEST PART!!!! Nooo wonder you call him the best! Wake up!
If you were to swap genders for a day, what are the things you would like to do?
Okay, I would like to :1) Roam around at night with friends, without caring about transport, train timings or if it's safe. Experience nightlife. 2) Try to ask a girl out, as it takes courage and see if I can manage to do it smoothly or if I come off as creepy. Take her out on a date (if she agrees!). 3) Have a nice swim in any water body (pool, sea, river) without a shirt on and not look around and be extremely conscious of who is watching me.4) Shave my beard. Would be a nice experience. 5) Buy a suit. Wear a well cut suit. Try to look awesome in a suit. Suit up.6) Talk to guys about women's rights. Less likely to be labeled a feminazi that way. Maybe get some other insults though. (Apparently 'mangina' is one) I guess I'll test this theory. :P7) Be part of a group where there are no girls and hear guys talk about girls and what they say. Use obtained information. :D
What would you do if you were the opposite sex for one month?
I think I personally would try to understand the opposite sex as much as possible. There is much difference in our thinking around romantic interests and personal issues which I would wish to explore. For example, how would I feel when I am in the company of other male friends? How would I feel if they act in a certain way? What would I feel towards my female friends? Which issues in life will be more important to me than others? How does my body respond to various environmental stimuli?It would be a learning experience and hopefully will help understand us how it is actually to be on the other side.
IF YOU COULD BE THE OPPOSITE SEX for one day...?
would you??? girls, wouldnt you wanna know how it feels to have intercourse as a guy?? and guys, dont you wonder how it feels to get harrassed DAILY?? if you do, tell me one of the first things you would do as the other gender
If you could change gender for one week, what three things would you like to experience as a member of the?
I don't care about tinkling or what an orgasm feels like for a man. I think the three things I would like to experience are: Why power tools are so alluring. Why it's so important that they never ask directions. What's the big deal about pick-up trucks?