When i went on date and we didn't talk much?
I have been seeing this guy for about 3 weeks. we have been out with friends, double date, and now a official date. When we were on our date we didn't talk much. I was so nervous, i was shaking. i tried asking questions but didn't get more than a few replies back and forth between us until ether i or him couldn't think of anything else to say. like its not like we didn't talk at all but there was a lot of sitting there awkwardly. we talk all the time through messages. so i know we could have things to talk about especially when we are so much alike. (both like physical activity) i don't know if i should try to keep things going between us or if i should let it go. I really like him and it is obvious he likes me too, but are we not compatible? if it was easier to talk to him i would have no problems but it is so difficult to keep a conversation going face to face. p.s. i am 17 and this would be the second guy i have had a "almost relationship" with. any advice?
So went on a movie date with this guy, but why didn't he make a move?
I went on a movie date with this guy that I like and I think he likes me too. We've been flirting back and forth and he finally asked to go to the movies with him. Although he didn't make a single move throughout the whole night. He paid for everything but not even a kiss or an arm around my shoulder. Why didn't he make a move?
Guy didn't kiss me on second date?
The other night I went out with this guy to the movies. It's the second time we've gone out and I'm not even sure if we are 'dating' yet. I'm not sure what our relationship is yet. Anyway, we had a nice time, and I felt pretty nervous throughout most of the night because I'm kind of insecure about whether or not he likes me. I often feel like I'm not pretty or funny enough for guys... that kind of thing. We had some great conversations and talked for hours though, and I thought it went well. However, he didn't really make any moves to indicate he was more interested. Nothing in the movies and nothing at the end. When he walked me to my car, we both kind of stood around awkwardly talking. I thought he may have leaned in for a kiss, but he didn't. I said, "I should probably get going" and he said "oh ok, yeah me too" and then we said goodbye. I felt so worried and kind of rejected afterwards. I'm also a terrible flirt. f a guy doesn't kiss you on the second date, is he interested?
If your date didn't pay for your coffee on a first date, would you go on a second date?
Being male, I think this question probably isn’t aimed at me, but I’d like to add my two cents anyway.My first thought on this is that it’s the 21st century, and the old societal norms are breaking down. “The man always pays” really shouldn’t be thought of as a universal rule anymore.So, your date didn’t pay for your coffee. The “why�� is really key. If they begrudged the money, that’s bad. If they thought you looked rich, so you should pay, that’s bad. But if your date has already let you know that they don’t have a lot of spending cash right now so they’d like to establish a pattern of each person paying for their own, that’s fine. This might be a deal-breaker for someone who desires a partner who has lots of money, but for most people it shouldn’t be cause for too much alarm. It especially shouldn’t be too much of an issue when your date is a student or at some other phase of life when money is tight.I just can’t imagine someone having a great time on the date, having a great connection, and then throwing it all away because he didn’t pay for their coffee. This seems really silly to me. Also, it’s not like you can’t ask about it. A simple “hey, I’m all right picking up my own check but I wanted to ask you: what’s your policy on who pays for a date?” can dispense with the mystery right then and there.I’m recently married, but I did my fair share of dating in the past, including dozens of coffee dates with folks I’d met online. I always came prepared to pay for the date, but I’d say I didn’t end up paying for them for well over half of these. Some of the women were insistent that they could pay for themselves, which was nice. More commonly though was that we’d arrive at different times and ordered drinks separately, simple as that.Lastly, I would say that this is part of a bad pattern to judge a person too closely based on one encounter. One date, particularly a coffee date, is not necessarily a good basis for judging another person. Paying for coffee is one of a thousand transactions that person makes in a year…it’s not a great way to judge their character, or even their level of generosity. If you liked them as a person, go on a second date and use that to make a more informed opinion.
Should I let the guy pay on the first date?
Absolutely! I have done the same thing when I was in the dating world. Guys are not made of money, well not ALL guys at the age when I began dating. So what you have done is very nice. Now you let him have his turn at treating you for dinner. Do not offer anything. I'm sure he appreciates your gesture, now it's time for you to appreciate his gesture. Enjoy!
I went to the movies with a guy but he didn't try anything..bad date or?
What were you expecting a make out session or a night of steamy hot sex after your first date? Lol give him a break, he was probably nervous or didn't want to make you feel uncomfortable.
First date: guy didn't ask me any questions about myself-why?
I don't think you can judge a guy on one date. I've been out with guys who never asked questions, it wasn't that they weren't interested, they just didn't know how to ask. If you enjoyed the date, and you like him - go for it! Have another date and see what happens. Did you ask him questions?