Im 14 and i feel EXTREMELY fat and i HATE my body and looks !?
Yes I do agree you statement that you're at a healthy weight, and also I think you're kind of young to being worried about this, but i'm not going to lie that I felt the same way when I was your age, which isn't actually that long ago actually haha, anyway I think in your case you shouldn't really focus on weight loss and pounds, but to maybe achieve an overall better body tone, again you're still growing and stuff so i wouldn't be too worried about it, so if you do eat healthy, as in not so much processed food, adding more veggies, fruit, lean meats like chicken or fish, and mind you, healthy eating doesn't mean eating a scary low amount of calories, just try keep a balance of what you eat, don't try exclude a food group or anything, and as far exercise goes, what you're planning on doing would be on the right right track, I would suggest adding some light weight training, like 2x-3x a week, non-consecutively, either using your own body weight(squats, lunges, push ups, crunches etc) or light dumbbells like 2-5 pounds each can help tone your body and lower your body fat and increase muscle tone so you feel and look less "flabby" without worrying about losing so much weight. But you still have time so try to take it slow, adding changes here and there so you dont get burned out. And overall have fun, you're 14 for goodness sakes!! If I could go back in time I wouldn't have wasted so much time worrying about these things!! Good luck sweetie and hope this helps :D P.S I'm not a certified anything so I would also suggest going to a doctor or a nutritionist to get more information
I’m going anonymous for that question. At the age 16 I’ve been repeatedly told that I was going to stay at 5′8″ for the rest of my life, which was actually very frustrating because my dream was being a male fashion model, which requires at least 5′11″ or 6′0″ height according to the resources about modelling. Fortunately, I managed to add 3,5 inches in less than a year after making some major changes in my lifestyle.What I did actually was,Adopting a balanced dietExercising regularlyAnd sleeping for at least 10 hours a day.P.S: My parents are respectively 5′8″ and 5′1″. According to the mid-parental height calculator, my predicted adult height turns out to be 5′6–5′7″, yet I stand at 5′11 and a half at the age of 17.Here is the photos of my growth journey.December 2017, just before Christmas, standing at barely 5′8 tall. ( Take some footwear advantage into account. )Today, 20th of July 2018. ( We are both barefoot. ) 5′11.5I’d personally recommend you to ignore people who give negative answers to your question, and I personally believe that you can add at least 4 inches to your height at that age which will put you into 6′2, most desired height for fashion models. Best of luck. ❤
Omg, i'm not popular at school anymore?
I really wanna be more popular. basically, its summer and i'm gonna be in a new year, in year 8 and i want to be more popular, cos basically there was a 'incident' on facebook. and my besties totally ditched me and now boys arent interested in me anymore so, i want to do this, this is my new outfit on my uniform - a school blouse unbuttoned (first 3 buttons) - a push up bra or wonderbra, a really sexy one so boys can see it , like maybe lace - my skirt just over my butt, (not too sl*tty) - lace socks (those sexy ones you get in lingerie shops) - patent black brogues make up: - volumising mascara - black smoky eyeshadow - red lipstick (to look really sexy) - black glittery eyeshadow - black eyeliner/kohl also, stuff my bra a bit more, either with these jelly silicone things, tissues are too obvs. but, i wanna ask my daddy to get me them off the internet. then when i'm 15 i'll get a real boob job also, im thinking of wearing a thong, ive never worn one b4. i want a really sexy one that will show to the boys
I want to be a actress but im black and i dont want to star in black cinema. is that bad?
Well I think it's perfectly normal that you don't want to be put inside the boundaries of black cinema. Not that there's something wrong with it but as an actress/actor that doesn't offer you all the possibilities in roles you could experience as an actor. On the other side acting experience is always good. It'll make you grow in skill and professionally whether in black cinema or any other. And a very important thing, you don't jump from an aspirant to starring in super big movies just like that. You gotta start somewhere. As long as you don't get labeled and forced to repeat the same kind of characters for life.
Im 14 and i wanna loose weight!!!!.....help?!?
Listen: you can tell a person by the company he keeps. The trick to staying motivated and on track with your excellent wish to get in top shape and to the right weight - is to surround yourself with people you know who will support and encourage you 24/7. Fat doesn't take a vacation. It's like rust. It is always there. So you have to thinking what you're doing all the time. A candy bar? No way. Start watching what you are putting into your mouth. All that stuff has to be digested. Where do you suppose it's going to wind up? If I eat ice cream, for example, I wear it. I feel my waist and oops! There it is! Now I know where it went! Seriously, just the fact you want to get into top shape and are running is, like, 85% of the battle that you've won. Because you have a plan and you are sticking with it. Keep adding stuff to your battle plan so you're just getting more and more aware of what is going into your body. The result of paying all this attention to yourself will be to start losing weight, start getting a great outlook and attitude, start meeting people who are working just as hard on it as you are, and it just keeps going. One last thing I would advocate for you to do is to find a partner who will work out with you every day. You can help each other stay with it. When Mark wanted to build up to sprinting three miles a day like he did in high school, he asked me to do it with him and we both got back into shape. Find someone to workout with you. Also, the minute you start to see some progress, that will motivate you ten times stronger than my words here will. I am pulling for you here in South Portland, Maine, U.S.A., and by October of this year you're going to be a whole new person! Whatever happens, even if you "slip," just keep on doing the running. Never look back. Just keep at it. Finally: NOTHING CAN STAND UP TO PERSISTENCE! - G.
It depends on the LARP you wish to join. I know in the UK there are several "family" LARPs, which take on a festival-like feeling, although you would need to go with your parents or other responsible adults, and there would be limits on what you could do until you are older (though are still great fun!). Otherwise there are local LARPs you might be able to find, but most of the ones I am aware of require you to be 18+ just so they don't get in trouble.If you want to get a new gaming kick, how about seeing if there are groups for different tabletop games (I have heard Pathfinder is very good, and if you like horror-y things, how about seeing if there's a local "World of Darkness" game running?). There are also board games and wargames you might find interesting and offer a new gaming style and something a little different to what you are used to.For me, I played D&D from the age of 13-16, joined a World of Darkness local "parlour LARP" (think political roleplaying in a room rather than your hack-and-slash LARPing people tend to think of) when I was 17/18 and played until I went to University when I was 19, and then became a festival LARPer when I was 19 and have continued to this day (I'm 22 now). There's nothing to say that finding a new system and waiting until you're older to LARP is a bad thing.If you want to have a go with weapons/fighting styles (should you want to do the big "battlefield" thing, how about seeing if there are local archery/fencing groups etc.? That might help you when you do eventually get to LARP? Just a thought!Hope this helps!A fellow (once) young roleplayer. :)
At 14, you are young and yet have enormous potential. Thank God you want to be successful meaning you want to famous, rich, or happy or whatever it is in particular you think success to be.Here are my list of things you could do and should doRead I would recommend you read stories about great men. The biographies of your models. Read as many as you can. I'll also recommend you read books like The Holy Bible, Think Big by Ben Carson, Gifted Hands by Ben Carson, Rich Dad Poor Dad by Robert kirosaki, etc.discover your talents and develop them simply try to try out as many skills and talents as you can. Whenever you discover you are good at something try to work on it. It could be painting, writing, dancing, singing or even coding. Try many things and don't disturb yourself if you appear awful doing some of them. Just keep trying out your hands on different stuff.Make Good Friends everyone needs friends and having good friends that empower you rather than talk down on you is a good thing to have. Evil communication corrupts good manners so avoid friends who are always saying and doing the wrong things. There is an African proverb which says show me your friend and I'll tell you who you are.Locate your area of interest Either in the sciences or arts, or whatever start locating your interest. anyway don't get stuck and if you don't like it you can always change.Morality Matters Yes have a good hold on morals and have the right attitude. Character does make a difference and you want to be someone that can respect yourself.for now, I think these should help.
Doesnt it seem that some people are just not meant to be popular i myself included?!?
I know that being popular in school seems like an important thing, but it really isn't. There are many cool, happy adults with lots of friends who had only a couple of close friends in middle/high school. If you focus on the friends that you don't have, you will miss the joy of the two friends that you do have. If you want to do something on the weekend, ask one or both of your friends. If they can't go, ask someone who seems to have similar interests to you. Many people are shy and are waiting for someone else to ask them to go do something. If you can't find anyone to go somewhere with, go alone. If you go places that you love to go and enjoy yourself, you will meet other people who like to do the same things that you do and they will see you being relaxed and having a good time. That can be a good way to make new friends. There are two things to remember. The first is to take good care of your relationships with the two friends that you have. The second is that you have to sow a lot of seeds to make new friends. That means that you have to say "Hi" and "Good Morning" and "Have a great weekend" to lots and lots of people. At some point, someone will say something back, and you can start a conversation and go from there. Good luck and don't worry about it. Focus on the good things that you have and more good things will come to you.
I'm 14, And I have very umm.... special opinions that I want heard... How do I voice them??
First of all, try to be personal. By that I mean, talking to the people directly and that would help a lot. Join rhetorical associations. When I was in High School, it helped me to bring my self-esteem up a notch and to put what I have to say in the right setting. Your linguistics or glee club are mere examples of these associations. Try to find some leadership training courses for you mind to be sharpened. If you're taught as a leader, it helps you to speak with conviction. As another option. Go ahead and write a blog. It's the best way nowadays to communicate in a humane way
I am 14 Year Old Girl And I Am Always Horny..Should I be Ashamed?
well don't worry i think everybody does that. Its probably because your hormones are changing it's nothing abnormal it's totally natural, actually some people have it worse. as you start going through puberty your hormones in your brain start to change and see life in a different way. More sexually, and mentally mature. Everybody gets horny, just that since your getting older its different than for somebody who is 12 or so. And plus your friends probably talk dirty too just don't let you know about. I know.. about almost all my friends talk dirty (not all but almost all of them). And masturbation is okay, its actually healthy because it teaches you abstinence of sex and ya I know it sounds weird but ya its totally normal and some people do that more than you. Your just growing up so don't worry about it. They also say a person who masturbates lives a happier care free life more than a person who doesn't