Im 16 Year Old Girl But I Have A Body Of A 12 Year Old

I am an 18-year-old girl, and my body looks like a 12-year-old. I’m very short and not curvy, and my period stays for maximum of 3 days. Will puberty ever hit me or I’ll stay like this forever?

It’s a good news-bad news situation. The bad news is that if you were expecting puberty to be a magical time in your life, that is not going to happen: if you are menstruating you have hit puberty. That might also be bad news if you have an ideal body in your mind that doesn’t match your current appearance. Perhaps you feel that your breasts are too small or your hips are too narrow. Maybe you are Dutch and everyone else around you is 17 meters tall so you feel short.The good news is that there is no one perfect body type, all of them have their drawbacks. Whatever ideas you have been fed about what you should look like by now, I urge you to disregard it. You are fine just the way you are. If a particular person doesn’t find you interesting based on that, they are not worth your time. Having the cup size of your dreams does not make you an interesting person. Being tall enough to reach the top shelves means nothing, you are not a librarian. I know it’s not the easiest thing to hear but in this superficial world of ours women are conditioned to care more about cup size than the simple fact that you have a body that is healthy and works just fine (which is why we inject and implant all kinds of poisons for no health benefit whatsoever). Give yourself some time to adjust. Maybe things will change and maybe they won’t. But there is nothing wrong with you simply because you don’t look a certain way, just as there is nothing wrong with people who are born with brown eyes in places where blue is more popular.Final piece of good news: 3 day periods are a gift. Take it from someone who has had to scream and cry into a pillow from pain on the 4th (and nowhere near last) day of a particularly nasty period.Good luck with everything in life :)