I am a 21 year-old male but too short (5' 4"). I am constantly referred to as the kid and I feel that I am never really taken seriously. Girls don't like me. Can I do anything to improve my height?
There was a short guy who merely conquered the whole europe, his name is Napolen. Have you seen the HBO product "the game of throne". There is a role named Tyrion. In real world, people aren't judge you by your common characters. People judge you by your special characters.
I get nervous everyday before school ):?
I'm super shy/rarely talk. I always get nervous because people ALWAYS stare. I'm always nervous for p.e cuz I don't know anyone. My pe teacher is really strict so he makes us get in groups & I'm afraid nobody wants me in there group so I get scared he might yell at me but eventually I just sit down in a random group. Yesterday I was trying to stop being nervous by talking more & it kinda worked. Today I tried it but it went horrible! I accidentally got hit by a ball, everyone was staring & saying 'are you ok' then my face got red & I felt like throwing up. I suck at throwing the ball, a girl said 'what was that?" Then everyone stared at me :( Every time I try to stop being shy something goes wrong why can't I just be normal? Everytime I talk I look scared/sound shy. Why can't I speak normal!?
I'm afraid to leave my house?
It sounds like you've developed a social anxiety disorder. Something may have triggered it, or not, it could just be a chemical imbalance. Either way I'd talk to a doctor and maybe get a referral to a therapist or a psychiatrist that can help you out. What you're feeling is normal, it can happen to anyone at any time. But don't worry, no one's making fun of you when you walk by. :) Definitely get this looked into though, before it gets so bad that you literally can't bring yourself to leave the house. Take care.
French kissing nervousness, can someone help!?
A tongue kiss, French kiss, or deep kiss is a romantic or sexual kiss in which one participant's tongue touches the other's tongue (or lips), and usually enters their mouth. Although family members may sometimes kiss on the lips, a kiss using the tongue almost always indicates a romantic or sexual relationship. French kissing stimulates the lips, tongue and mouth, which are all areas very sensitive to touch. It is considered by many to be both very pleasurable and highly intimate. Unlike other forms of "casual" kissing (such as brief kisses of greeting or friendship), episodes of French kissing will often be prolonged, intense, and passionate. It may signal the beginning of a period of "making out" or sex. Because of the intimacy associated with it, in many regions of the world tongue kissing in public is not acceptable to most, particularly for an extended time.[citation needed] In a tongue kiss participants may exchange saliva, which would often be considered disgusting in other contexts, but which may add to the passion and excitement of the sexual kiss. Although most sexually-transmitted diseases are not transmitted by kissing, the exchange of saliva in a French kiss may increase the chances of catching an orally transmitted disease.[citation needed] Infectious Mononucleosis (American: Mononucleosis or, colloquially, "mono"; European: Glandular Fever), a disease spread through saliva, is often colloquially referred to as "the kissing disease." French kissing is commonly used in movies to show willing sex between lovers.[citation needed] It is often used by lovers to express their intimate feeling toward each other and more often precedes sex (and frequently continues during sex).[citation needed] French kissing has been traditionally associated with Western societies, but is now becoming quite popular around the world.
High school student needs inf for college,Im really worried?? Help Please!!?
Ok I just turned 16 and im a sophmore my current GPA is 1.810 and i think thats pretty low, ive been fooling around in my freshman years and sophmore and didnt get very good grades, but now im really startating to worry if i ruined my opportunity to go to a good college or get a schorship. now im starting to get good grades and do everything to go to college. Im also half mexican and i just moved here to Nevada a couple of years ago from mexico. I just tought of mentioning this because i heard theres some programs that help latinos. And i dont want my parents to pay for my college because there alredy doing that with my brothers, so my parents can't help with money. So what can i start doing right now to help so i can go to college? Anyways What do you think?
I'm afraid that anxiety may suddenly ruin my emotions during some personally important moments, such as love. How can I deal with it?
I have crushing anxiety. What helps me the most is mindfulness. When your thoughts get out of control, and you feel yourself becoming tense, breathe. Focus on your breath. Not loudly or noticeably, but just feel your breath coming in and out.Once you're there, listening to your breath, repeat a calming mantra. I have a few: “I'm healthy, I'm happy, I'm human”, “I am beautiful, I am bountiful, I am blissful”Recognize each emotion, but try to separate from them. When I get pissed or afraid, it's easier to calm down once I admit to myself that I feel that way. So, for example, when I'm mad at my kids for not cleaning up their toys, I just say “it really makes me mad that you didn't clean this. I would be much happier if this mess was gone.”The anger loses its power over me after I admit to it. Anxiety is the same way. Just notice that you are anxious, and then try to let it go. Don't force it out, but acknowledge it, then relax.
Can't sleeepp.. and school starts tomorrow? D:?
Ahhh I've have problems with falling asleep. I really had to fall asleep one time, because I had a party the next day. I took away all sorts of entertainment, like the computer:P Except keep your ipod if you really really need it and your phone-only if you use it for an alarm. And eat breakfast! Even if it's just a bite of cereal! Don't be nervous!! You'll be fine! Just be friendly and be yourself! That's always the way to go!:) And even if you're nervous, act like your not.
I'm quite nervous about my first eating disorder clinic appointment.. ?
I have had anorexia for 2 years and have been going to an out patient clinic for one year. I actually like going! The first time you go is different from your regular check ins (which can be once every one week, or once every two weeks... or two every one week). Let me see if I remember what it was like. I went with my mom and I already knew I had an eating disorder. It was in a regular hospital for adolescence/kids/adults but the unit was only for adolescence. When you say anorexic, the first thing that pops into your mind are stick figures walking with a limp. I was nervous because I hated being around thin people. But when I got there everybody was only slightly underweight, overweight or even regular sized. The waiting was not long. Soon I got called into an office with one chair, one bed and a few counters (like in a paediatrics office). The nurse told me to change (take off my clothes and put on a hospital gown) after I gave a urine sample. They weighed me and I remember they made me bend down, as if they were taking a scoliosis test, but they didn't touch me. Then I got dressed and the doctor came in (and I have had the same one since) and she talked to me a little bit about my eating disorder habits and the program and what was to expect in the future. My mom was there with me half of the time and she had been mean to me ever since she discovered my eating disorder. I remember her giving me a dirty face and I started to cry. A counceler came in and talked to me. I explained why I was upset and that I would be afraid that my mom would be "on top of me" about my eating. The counceler then talked to my mom. After that a nutricianist came in and gave me a meal plan to follow after we discused my eating and why it was unhealthy. After that the head doctor and the doctor I had seen earlier came in and talked with me about my lifestyle trying to find out why it my eating disorder developed. After that I was free to leave. The whole thing took about an hour to two hours. However, when you are going on a regular basis, it takes thirty minutes (at the MOST). You give a sample of urine. The nurce takes you blood pressure and weights you. The nutricianist comes in and checks your meal plan and if you improved or not. Then the two doctors come in and check on how your feeling and you and you are free to go. Don't be afraid, it is the least scariest thing that is going on in my life right now!