How much personal space do you need in a relationship?
"Let there be space in your togetherness, And let the winds of the heavens dance between you. Love one another but make not a bond of love: Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls. Fill each other's cup but drink not from the same cup. Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf. Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each of you be alone, Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music. Give your hearts, but not into each other's keeping.... And stand together, yet not too near together: For the pillars of the temple stand apart, And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other's shadow."
A person I shared everything about my life with moved on. Now there's a big void and everything reminds me of them. How can I move on?
It's very tough, but you can do it!Having a a dream about spending life together is enough to create that space in our heart for that special person, and when that person leaves or that dream is crushed, a void is created which can't be filled. In your case, the same has happened, and I (anyone) would suggest you to just move on! She is married to someone else, and you have to accept this fact, that another man is now having all the rights on her, mentally, socially and physically. He is the one who is her husband now, and you are totally out of the picture here.I don't know about the behavior of the other guy, but if he is possessive or insecure for his wife, I don't think he will even allow her to have contacts with you, now that she is married. However, if you try to contact her and keep in touch, be her friend, problems might arise in her married life, which is NOT good. Married life once disrupted, can destroy the entire life of a person! And you don't want to do that to your friend, do you?She is married. She is gone. You have to accept it and move on. Distract yourself from her thoughts, her memories. If there are things that remind of her, lock them, or throw them if you can't make peace with them. Join a gym, hang out with your friends, make more friends, sing and dance, basically keep yourself so busy, that you don't even have time to think about her. Once you have your daily routine set-up, you will move on in no time. It's tough, but you can do it. If you are dedicated enough, you can do it. There's nothing impossible in the world!Good luck :)
In which way can shared knowledge shape personal knowledge?
All knowledge whether it pertains to material matters or spiritual matters can be shared; but theoretical knowledge will not help you in your personal improvement or personality development and for that you have to know the Vidyas (science is put into action through technology) : for example take Yoga you have to practice the steps mentioned therein (Yoga Shastra) in order to become a Yogi and achieve that status. Perseverance in that art is needed, say constant and intense practice; this applies in all walks of life and fields of life whether it s talking, leadership, sports, or spiritual aims or politics. How you do it depends on you and you alone; others can guide you like a Guru if they have accomplished real skill in that field. That is why we have coaches in all fields of human endeavour! All the fine arts like music, dance, painting, sculpture or modern life equipment like computers, mobiles, cameras etc. also need some sort of introduction from others in order to efficiently operate and achieve perfection. This is more so in case of meditation or contemplation, observing silence etc. It is all shared knowledge from KG to Doctorate and when you show excellence in a field of your liking and taste you start to think more about it, study, observe, experiment etc. to bring forth new knowledge in that field and discoveries are made for the benefit of entire humanity; though at first it is your personal knowledge by and by it becomes public knowledge by your sharing it with others concerned.I only mentioned the general aspects of sharing knowledge but as on date there are several ways in which knowledge is shared on a wider scale through seminars, discussions, research papers, books, journals and media plays a vital role in this regard. If I say I have learnt many things in life it only means I have read widely may be using the libraries, wrote my views on the themes liked by me, published them in the form of books and sharing them with others; learning is a life-long affair in the 21st century; we are neither perfect nor know all the things including our own self and we are bound by time and space and amenable to natural laws. Within these limitations only our life, education, learning, sharing knowledge etc happens. So make use of it diligently for success in life.
Why do many women assume that women in general are "better dancers" than men?
Are women actually "better" dancers than men? Or is it in fact societal expectations that label a man "gay" or "unmanly" for being a good dancers, causes men to generally not show as much enthusiasm when dancing? Women have more freedom to do such things. But if you see the men who are unafraid to show their dancing skills, you will see they're usually much better dancers than women. Name a woman that's a better dancer than Michael Jackson? Take breakdancing for example -- it's a male-dominated dance culture. The reason why is because women just aren't as good as it. Breakdancing requires a lot of physical strength. I've seen female breakdancers, and they exert a lot of the physical moves much slower than the males, like the spins and hand-stands, etc. Fact is, men are better dancers due to physical abilities. Men are just more modest in showing their ability to dance, due to societal restraints unfairly placed upon them.
What is the name of the song has the lyrics-Dance with me make me sweat?
Dance with me, make me SWAY Sway (Mucho Mambo) by Shaft Lyrics: http://www.lyrics4all.net/s/shaft/u/sway-mucho-mambo.php
Do you think being a stripper/exotic dancer is a respectable profession?
Frankly, answerers, I am not nor am I looking to be a stripper/exotic dancer. This question was inspired by a Michael Baisden syndicated radio segment, and a conversation I engaged in with a few colleagues. Incidently, from the segment, the responses were mostly from strippers/exotic dancers; male and female. I was curious as to what others thought. I received interesting responses from all of you. Honestly, I don't believe it is condsidered respectable, but I don't judge those who choose this as a career. In my personal oppinion, it takes great confidence and a true to self essence to pull it off. There were a few outstanding responses so I am still trying to decide the best answer. Thanks for all the comments shared.