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Is Disappearing Typical Behavior Of A Scorpio Guy

Is it normal for Scorpios to just disappear from your life and then come back after some time?

Yes it's normal. I've personally done it once or twice, just to keep my emotions in check when I really care about someone. Sometimes I feel like I'm becoming too clingy or caring too much too fast, so I like to go to my own little corner and cool off, in a sense lol. I would fall off the face of the earth, just to resurface to have the person I loved upset with me or deeply hurt. It would feel good to have missed calls and voicemails though, then I would find the feelings were mutual all along. It bring us reassurance sometimes. As I've matured I've learn to TELL the other person what's going on with me ("I need sometime alone") instead totally disappearing.

I would say try not to judge but you can voice how much it bothers you because you care or just simply how you feel, asking us why we do it also shows that you care. Being straight forward is best but flat out judging just ruffles our feathers.

Scorpio's do you like to play disappearing acts?

One thing I have noticed about me is at first in a relationship I am very intense about it and I become obsessive over the new person in my life to the point of smothering then. However after so much time and I have time to learn everything about them I will play disappearing acts on the one I love. Leaving for long periods of solitude then coming back. It is like I have figured out my loved one and gotten all the love I need now I need time to myself so I disappear on them for long bouts of time. It drove my ex totally crazy. I was smothering her to death when we first started dating then after that I would just disappear for days or weeks at a time and she would worry sick about where I went or if I was leaving her.

I am trying to figure out why I do this behavior and if it is a Scorpio trait or just me. I have read online from girls who said their Scorpio guy likes to play disappearing acts so maybe it is a trait.

Would a typical Scorpio guy act like this if...?

This Scorpio guy is absolutely smitten by you! I hope you do as well? I am 38 years old who has been separated with my husband! I went through a similar experience with a Scorpio man who I met last year! I have experienced every bit of his emotional intensity, playful ways and his potential love for me. But with all this amazing love comes with a level of pain. It appears that Scorpio men love "playing mind games, toying with one's feeling, being aloof, playing the hot and cold game pulling and pushing buttons and playing the disappearing act" which can be pretty devastating and frustrating to one's emotional being! So please be mindful of that!

PS: My Scorpio man put me through such an emotional roller-coaster; I felt his behavior was becoming too toxic that I made the ultimate decision and left him.

Scorpio guy disappeared, no word for 2 weeks?

Apologies for the length. Just want to get all the details out.

I've known him for over 7 years. Always been best friends. He's gone MIA a few times, but always found his way back to me. A little over a year ago we admitted feelings to each other. He told me it's "always been me." That he's had feelings for all those years. Everything was perfect. He was such a gentleman, always wanted to talk and see me, spend time together. He's told me and shown me how much he loves me, and I believe it.

We slept together recently, after waiting almost a year. He never pressured me or forced anything. He always told me how the emotional was more important. Since that, he got distant. He said he wanted to tone it down. I got insecure and kept pestering him for reassurance that he cared. He always did, but I think I annoyed him. I regret that.

It's been two weeks of zero contact. His Facebook is gone, and my number is blocked. He's never completely shut me out like this. He does "stop caring" when he gets overwhelmed (his words) but I have no idea what to think. Last I heard, he said we were fine. He said he wasn't giving up. Last I saw him we were fine. Affectionate and close.

I can't believe he would just shut me out like this. I'm so afraid that he's fed up with me and this is his way of ending it, despite him saying he wasn't. He was feeling overwhelmed about the relationship. Should I assume he'll be back, or figure he's done? I can't reach him and even ask what's happened

Why is my Scorpio guy acting distant suddenly?

Sometimes Scorpio people of both sexes (I am a guilty Scorpio myself) get overwhelmed by the whole idea of relationships and we feel so much ourselves…we start to notice ourselves caring for someone, we spook. We feel our autonomy being threatened, we retract. We are in a position to be vulnerable? We close off. I have possibly broken one of the Scorpio omerta codes by telling you that. But we come around. It's not fair to the people who aren't the way some of the Scorpio people are, to be fair to the other portion of the Scorpio community who aren't ANYTHING like this, I have to apologize. But those who are- when we get a little bit more perspective , we come around and are going to be the most loyal and lifelong allies in your corner ever. As friends, mates, in any sense. Give him a reasonable amount of time. The only thing is reasonable- if he's still not giving any sense of response or interaction, the guy may be a bit of a tool whenever he was born and in that case, waste no more time.

What happens if a Scorpio woman disappears from a Leo man?

Chase her, from my experience... unless you are mean or rude to a Leo they will pursue you. But if you are vulgar in anyway or step on the Leos pride they will turn their nose up at you. Leos are not rude people and do not like rude people. In fact, they will not put up with it. And lets face it us Scorpios can be nasty and rude people. Leos don't do negativity. You are going to have to open up to the sunny Leo and be happy and positive if you want him to be encouraged to make the first move. Be cute (not seductive and dark), open, funny, flirtatious, care about your looks, be bubbly and smiley... they'll love it. Leos are an open, honest and warm sign. Do not be that dark deep Scorpio that thinks too much. He'll be turned off.

What does a Scorpio man mean by disappearing without telling you what's wrong?

It's selfishness and immaturity, which many Scorpios are full of. He should at least have the decency to tell you what his problem is briefly. They tend to view people as objects and not people who they are actually in a relationship with and need to communicate with.

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