Are women capable of falling in love with a man?
This is a serious question, in no way am I trying to be sarcastic or bitter. Let me explain why I ask this: It seems more and more that women are only interested in a man for status, image...etc and they will say they "love" him but its really only because he posses those traits that she likes, its not that she truly loves the person he is. And if he ever lost those traits, suddenly she wouldn't be in love with him anymore. And if its not something depressingly shallow like that, its even more selfish and sad. She "loves him" so long as he continues to play her hot and cold, you know, as long as he has some kind of game to keep her excited she will "love" him, but its only because she likes the way he makes her feel, once again it is NOT because she loves him for who he is. If he ever lost his game or became depressed...etc basically not able to keep her entertained and excited, suddenly she no longer loves him. Basically as a man, you can't be a normal human being with feelings around women because they'll "lose interest" you have to have some kind of shallow facade to gain their attention. I see this trend everywhere I go, and i'm starting to conclude that women are not capable of truly falling in love and that the female gender is a shallow, dumb and selfish one. - If you're a woman and that pisses you off, instead of insulting me, how about you explain to me with reason and intelligence as to why you believe i'm wrong. Because believe me, I WANT to be wrong. Do you think I want this to be true? hell no!
Are women capable of love?
I've been dating quite a lot of women some time, however there are quite a few things Ive noticed. Once you start to become nice to them, and provide things for them, you would be classified as "too nice". Yet sometimes they want me to be dominant, and extremely rude for example, when having sex.
I don't think I'm capable of falling in love?
The statement of you only had 1 relationship your whole life takes on different meanings depending on what age you are now. I'd suggest a teen at some point? I was sad to see that you have been molested and I'd assume sexually although you say you are still a virgin and that gives me hope that it wasn't a rape, or as bad as it might have been. I hope for your sake I'm right. The thing is that as you mature and get more involved with the opposite sex you will fall in love naturally and when you do so then you will experience a desire for natural closeness and then sexual contact. Don't force anything and tell the boyfriend to slow it right down to what you want, you make the moves not him so you don't feel threatened. You will fall in love I'm sure and you will think they are perfect even though they won't be because that's what being in love is like. Counselling will help and maybe sooner rather than later. If you wait till you fall in love it may damage the relationship if you haven't dealt with this baggage from before. Most guys will be accepting and loving if they know a little about what the issue is for you. Put it this way if he's not accepting and loving, or he pressures you for sex he's not Mr Right for sure. Sex in the right time and place with the right person is the most beautiful and wonderful natural experience anyone can have. Your early experience has put you off the joys of an intimate close relationship but it can be changed. Hang in there till it all comes right. I don't know where you are but there may be a long wait for counselling so add your name to the list asap.
Women are not capable of love?
First off, by "love" I refer only to romantic love. I contend that a woman is not capable of romantic love, because nature doesn't require it of her. She is, however, fully capable of other kinds of love, such as maternal love (and she loves her children a lot more than the father does), friendship, etc. Also, this isn't intended to be misogynistic in any way - I'm just trying to be objective. I've thought about this from an evolutionary perspective, and reached the conclusion that isn't necessary for women to love. (I'm no evolutionary biologist, so I could be profoundly wrong.) Here is why. (Also, this may be simplistic, for the sake of clarity.) Love only has biological significance to men, for the same reason that men are sexually dominant. The purpose of romantic (which is reducible to sexual) attraction in men is to bring them closer to women. Any love a woman might feel for a man would only be in the context of her children's well-being. (As in, she would look for: 1. Good genes; 2. Someone to protect her children and her.) When it becomes apparent to the woman that the man isn't doing a good job of providing for her and her children, love dies. In modern society, where women no longer need men to provide for them, love dies even earlier - after the birth of the children. The best and happiest marriages are those in which the wife and the husband are best friends. That's because there is full reciprocity in friendship, unlike in romantic love. Only men are capable of experiencing romantic love, and an anodyne though it may seem, nothing good can come of it. Your thoughts?
I don't think I'm capable of falling in love with anyone?
I'm just not attracted to people. It sounds melodramatic, but I can honestly say, I've never 'liked' anyone for lack of a better term. I've had several relationships, and found myself unable to have those supposed 'warm fuzzy feelings' for the other person, and I didn't even care when the relationship ended. The truth is I don't want to be this way, I just don't understand why I can't be like everyone else. And my lack of ability to just be normal in a relationship scares me, I don't understand why I can't get attached, be attracted to, and care for another person. Is this normal ? Is anyone else like this? What do I even DO ?
Why older women don't fall in love?
I'm in my mid twenty and there's this older woman in her 40s I know this sounds weird but im weirdly in love with her but don't think she feels the same or even realise I'm in love with her...everytime I hear her voice I just wanna hold her and sometimes have dirty thought about her...we talk a lot and hug her a lot... I know most people may think I'm weird but I can't control it..I'm emotionally & sexually attracted to her don't know why..she does have amazing body I find really unusual for a 40+ year old woman..does she secretly love me too & hiding it or have soooo many on her mind to even notice??...she's a single mom BTW,not hoping to marry her obviously .