Is it ok for me to date someone that I met online but haven't met in real life?
I met a girl many years ago through IRC (Internet Relay Chat, it was like…Yahoo Chat before yahoo chat existed. it’s still around!). She was in Colorado Springs, CO, I lived in Toronto at the time. We chatted for hours on end, we seemed to be into the same stuff (sci fi, reading, video games, etc). We eventually took our relationship to ICQ when that launched, and eventually to voice chatting and video chatting, including cybering (chat sex), phone sex and video call sex. It was all good. We fell in (what we thought was) love. She had some sort of government job, and couldn’t relocate, so I managed to land a 6month contract with a tech company in Colorado Springs to be with her. She was everything I expected and desired. We matched up in pretty much every way, physically, sexually, humour, intellect, etc. The sex was INCREDIBLE. When you are so in tune with someone that they anticipate your movements and the sex becomes a symbiotic intertwining of two people rather than just an awkward, clumsy mechanical exercise, that’s the good sex. Then the crazy started. She’d phone me to make sure i got to work ok. Fine, new city, easy to get lost. Then she’d phone at lunch to see what i was eating. Then she’d phone before i left work. If i took too long to get home, she’d phone to see where I was. I took a day off work one week, and followed her to her office. The “government job” I thought she had? Cashier at a government building cafeteria. The sweet loft she “owned”? long term house-sitting gig. Basically all the elements of her life except me were lies. And she was rapidly becoming crazier by the day. Eventually, the crazy outweighed the awesome sex, and I bailed and went back to canada.So, pro-tip: Find out the crazy, if at all possible, BEFORE you do something huge like move to another country to be with them.ps: Never stick your dick in crazy. Or let crazy stick its dick in you.
Can I trust this guy who I met online?
Have you ever seen that show Catfish? I am worried about this one. He has had so many chances to talk on the phone or do skype...it just doesn't make sense! You should be straight up and tell him how you are feeling. Tell him you trust him but you want more out of the friendship/relationship then a "virtual" one. If he doesn't make a move soon, I would stop talking to him. You can trust people online, but you should always be very very careful. I met a guy online and it turned out great, he was who he said he was and we have gone on a few dates, things are going well. I was super concerned but he did talk to me on the phone and would text me real time pictures. Just be careful! Good luck.
Why would a guy I met online ask what I’m wearing to bed?
I believe he’s trying to feel you out - and to see how sexy your mind works. He wants to know that you’re open to being intimate with him — at least in theory.He wants to know if sexy banter is part of your vocabulary.He wants to see how willing you are to get personal - even before you two meet.He wants to know if you’re open to being seduced by his not-to-subtle questions.And he’s probably as horny as a German Shepherd.Here’s the thing that many women don’t quite understand fully. Women typically have FAR more options for having sex than do men - all things being equal.On a typical week online, a woman can receive hundreds of emails from guys - many of them good-looking and tall. And that — in and of itself — gives women a huge advantage in the online dating world. Whereas men, on the other hand, are lucky if one or two women a MONTH initiate contact with them online - unless they’re tall, dark and handsome. And “tall, dark and handsome” guys don’t need to look online for women to date — I’ve seen single women literally throw themselves at a tall guy in public - so much so that I felt sorry for the poor guy. Three women were salivating over him just because he was tall.The result of this? Single men of almost any age who aren’t tall are so sexually frustrated they can’t help themselves when talking to a single woman. Their burning need for intimacy after months - if not years of frustration - easily bubbles up to the surface — just like you’ve experienced with the guy who’s asked you what you’re wearing to bed.Once you understand the huge disparity between a woman’s options online and a typical man’s, then his question will make far more sense to you.Let me decode this for you:Online male asks: “What are you wearing to bed?”Translation: “I haven’t had sex in a while and I’m so sexually frustrated that I need to know if it’s a worthwhile investment of my time to flirt with you, meet you, and then invest the effort in courting you.”
Please HELP! THE GUY I MET online asked me out?
Ok, I met this guy on online dating website, on zoosk. We friended on facebook, and talked to each other for like 2~3 days and he asked me out, said he wants to get to know me better. He seems nice and his facebook seems legit, bc his family members are facebook friends with him. I checked all of their walls but it seemed ok. We texted each other and I still haven't talk to him on the phone yet, but he asked me out to meet me on this sat for a coffee and a movie. I said ok, but I'm kind of scared to go meet someone that I don't know well. He is 9 months younger than me[I'm 21] and he has tattoos of his favorite japanese rock band and stuff...also he likes manga and stuff so I assume he is kind of a geek [although he looks emo and dresses like one] I don't know. Should I meet him?? I mean it's only a coffee and a movie....but I'm taking a risk...I'm not sure what to do. What do u guys and girls think?? He seemed pretty nice when I had a chat with him...but who knows. He looks kind of cute, but I don't know.....:(
How can you tell if a guy you met online is not just in it for sexual fun?
ll clue you in: All men, no matter where you meet them, are in it to extract some sexual fun.What your real question is: “Are any men online looking for a long term relationship?”The answer is yes. However, there are also men looking for a good time only…the same men you might meet at a bar or restaurant.The thing about online men is you need to believe but verify.1. Actively check out men you meet online. Verify what they tell you— about where they live, where they work, legal background check.-etc.Liars lie.Aside from that, never depend on what a guy tells you…Always depend on what a guy shows you. Is he on time? Is he a gentlemen? How soon after meeting does he go-for-the-gusto? Does he want to go out on a nice date and look in your eyes or does he want to come over and hang out which is a euphemism for sex?I will give you a piece of advice about picking your men: Don’t shop at a Ferrari dealership and then complain that everything you test drive doesn’t act like a Volvo!I would tell you that I met my current wife off a dating website. I dated about 15 girls over a couple of years before finding her.Submit
Is it okay to date someone you met online? I trust and like him alot.?
I'd say no because you never know who it could be. I mean, those might not even be his pictures. Chances are, he's telling the truth, but you never know. So many other girls that got abducted or hurt or killed thought they were in love with someone online and it turned out to be some creepy guy. I can understand how you really have feelings for him, but I think for your own safety, you should stay away. As far as the age difference, it's kind of big now, but it would not as noticeable when you get older. Sorry, I don't have much experience dating (okay, none), but I think you should just play it safe and just talk to him online and not ever meet him in person. Sorry, but that's the best I can do.
How can u tell if the person you met online is sincere?
i met a guy online and he says i'm attractive and he likes me. But i dont know he really means it. Do all men feel obliged to say something nice to every woman they meet online? I want to know, because i really like him.
Should I visit a guy in another country I met online?
No.What is wrong with you?What is wrong with all the guys who live in your country?After you have considered the questions, focus on guys closer to home.If you want to visit his country, bring a friend from home and take a trip to a real tourist destination and have fun. You know you will have a good experience.Others have warned you already.My good friend in Ontario, Canada, struck up a relationship with a guy in California. She went to visit him.He was 15 years older than he said and sick. He only wanted to marry her so he could go to Canada for free healthcare and to leave his debts in USA behind.So much for months of emails and the occasional Skype-chat. A total waste of time and human relations.After that, she married a guy in the same town, Waterloo, ON.… and she lived happily forever afterwards…