My ex reads my texts on WhatsApp but doesn't reply. What does it mean?
Why are you sending texts? Did you both agree you would be friends after the break up? Or are you just bothering your ex?If your ex is a friend-- well they aren't a friend. Just not that interested in you. If you are sending unwanted texts and your ex is reading them-- who knows why? Curious? Keeping tabs on you? Not bored enough to block you?If you don't mind sending texts into oblivion, or if you are trying to win your ex back and honestly think this will work, then carry on. Otherwise, stop wasting your time.
What should I do when my boyfriend doesn't reply my texts for hours and his online reading my whatsapp texts but not replying me? Should I just let him go?
In many scenarios you might be dealing with am egocentric boyfriend and you wouldn't even know. Guys generally don't usually put efforts again ones they've gotten down with the lady in question. This is why they always wait for the lady to strike up the conversation first. At times, some might be ignored. It's just a nonsensical scenario which guys put themselves in and regret later on.The truth is this guy is probably teasing you making you feel jealous and messing up your mindset which is why you're here on Quora to seek answers. He might not be necessarily dating or flirting out with someone else. He might just be messing up with your sense thinking this will. Make you want him more or blah blah blah which I don't care about.When next he does that to you, tell him how much you hate it and what consequences it would bring into the relationship. I hope he change. Just handle things with maturity and let him feel your anger. Just make things clear and if he definitely wants things to work out he will work with you else, you guys can go your separate ways. The world is very big.# peace.
What was the last text message you sent to your ex?
It was a year old relationship. I was head on heals for him. We were both in school. We both were preparing for NEET.We took a break for preparing for exams. The distance made me anxious. But I couldnt text him,he would be disturbed.The exams were over.He had promised he would meet me(we never went out together) after NEET I reminded him of his promise he refused. He said he doesnt have time.I said ‘fine tell me when you are free’. After a few days he went out with his friends. I just casually said him ‘I thought you didnt have time. He replies ‘ I cannot lie to my parents to meet you’ .It hurt, it really did.After NEET, came more of his ignorance. He forgot our one year anniversay, didnot text me the entire day at night i texted him . Still no reply. I asked one of his friends to text him and remind him the date. After that he replied “sorry i forgot. Happy anniversary shona”, went offline. Did not even reply to my I love you.I became upset. The next day, out of anger I broke up. He did not even try to stop me. Next day I said him sorry for being angry and he forgave. He were back together.His ignorance increased. I confronted one day whats wrong, why is he ignoring me. He replied “I cannot provide you with the importance you are demanding” That broke my heart. I was still with him I loved him.I started doubting him. I did not trust him. One night.Me: Please I want you to keep distance from girls. Do it for me.He: That would be changing myself. I like talking to everyone. I won’t change myself for you.It ended.I thought it was my fault I did not trust him. He is not with anyone. Well that is what he said me. I wanted to get back with him. He refused. He said he hates me. Blocked me on every social media. My last text to him on his second account, which he doesn't use now. Still I texted him. I begged him to come back.He did not see my message. He did not come online. Somewhere deep within my heart I still feel he still loves me.I still love him. Hope he comes back.
If you keep texting someone does it count as harassment?
Depending on a few important variables, you could be arrested for harassment if you text that person repeatedly.The first variable is, "Where are you?" Laws differ between countries (and even between States in the US). Without knowing your location and the applicable laws, it's impossible to say for sure.Next, has the person you are texting told you to stop? If so, continuing to text is harassment. Whether or not you're arrested for it depends on variable #1.How many texts do you send? Sending a drunk text once or twice a year is less likely to be considered harassment than sending dozens of texts per day.What is the content of the text messages? "I miss you," is not as horrible as, "If I can't have you, NO ONE CAN!!!" The latter could constitute a threat (the receiver's perception of the message is more important than the sender's intent), but too many of the former is still bad.By the wording of your question, "If you keep texting someone..." I am assuming that the other person has told you to stop. Even if it's not illegal, just stop.
Should you send a goodnight text if she hasn't responded to an earlier text?
As with every social interaction, it depends on a thousand factors, including many which you are not privy to, so you’ll have to make your best judgement.Whenever I’m reaching out to someone, I try to make an educated guess about how they will respond to my communication. Do they want to talk to me right now? Will they feel obligated to respond, even if they don’t want to? Will my message make them feel loved and appreciated?And I try to be honest with myself about what I am hoping to get out of the interaction. Am I interested in starting a conversation right now? Do I want them to answer a question? Am I trying to make myself feel loved and appreciated?Somewhere in all that introspection, you should find an answer to your question.
What does it mean if someone reads and doesn't respond to a text? The girl I like read the text, but didn’t respond.
By opening and not responding, she's openly dissing you. She's sending a clear message she doesn't want to talk to you.You say she's sending signals, you may want to take a step back and evaluate them from a third person view. Certain things that you take as hints are probably nothing. Or I may be wrong, she just may not be into texting.Here's some advice.. Easy to give but hard to carry out. Stop just texting her, and ask her out. Ask her to go somewhere, as friends, and if you two have fun ask her on a date. Or just blatantly ask her out if you're getting a good vibe.Good luck.
Nanny in need of advice, parents in a custody battle, what should I do?
I work for a single father, he hired me to be his kids' nanny. Recently his ex wanted to meet me so we got together. For two hours she pretty much talked trashed about him and told of lies, affairs, and lots of drama. She tried to portray him as a horrible father and tried to convince me that she should have full custody of their child. I tried to be really nice to her and understanding but would insert comments such as well he seems like a great father who loves his children and takes great care of him, etc throughout the conversation. She asked me if I would secretly text her whenever I'm there and let her know what time he left, what time he got back and who he was out with. I said no. I wouldn't do that to my employer. It was a awkward. I tried to be really nice though and we ended fine. To be honest, I don't need this job, other families have offered me employment and I'd rather get out of the drama but don't want to quit because it's not good for the kids either to go through nannies. My question is I have so much I didn't say to the mom when she was talking for two hours. She did most of the talking I did minimal. I did tell her I thought her ex was a good father though. I was thinking about writing her an email today and expressing all of my thoughts to her..... how kids do better when they have a dad in their life, how a custody battle can be hurtful for kids, how I've seen in the 15 years I've been a nanny (I'm 30, I've done this forever now) how it affects children. Letting her know how lucky her son is to have a dad who loves him and wants to be in his life when so many fathers walk out on their kids, how safe and cared for he is in his dad's care. There's so much I want to say. They are going to court next month. Should I send her an email like that or do you think it's a bad idea? I don't need this job I'm truly just wondering if I should do it for the sake of the child..in support of him having a dad in his life. I didn't want to get involved at all, but she dragged me into it. Now I feel unsettled about everything.
My ex responds to my text messages with one worded answers. Does he not want to talk to me?
I do agree that you should try to move on however, I do not agree with how these people are saying it. Yes… you should move on but when people say “Have enough pride in yourself” really… come on! Good thinking guys say the most generic and common thing people say after a breakup.I would assume he didn’t always find you boring, if you guys had a meaningful connection and a good relationship I imagine you still really want him back. I think you should work on yourself for the time being, try to stay positive! You have done a month of NCR so I applaud you for getting through it, did he contact you during NC?If yes that’s good, I would recomend backing off a little, try to start slow and gradually try to build up an attraction. Maybe after a while you can move into phone calls then meeting in person. If you meet in person try to be interesting and confident, again dont feel the need to change for him. If you want to change for yourself I totally support you, with that being said good luck!Ps. When people say “move on” and “have some self worth” I always get angry… you cannot help what you feel, they make it sound so easy to move on. Relationships are about compromises and making certain sacrifices for the other person (to an extent) unconditional love is not real. If people want to be in the “honeymoon” phase for their entire relationship then they aren’t really ready for a serious relationship. Work at it, dont give up yet, don’t make him your primary train of thought but keep him in your radar.Thanks for the interesting post and good luck!
How many times can you text someone before it is harrassment?
One time can be harassment . . . depending on all of the facts and circumstances. Yes, if someone texts you too much it can constitute harassment. But it is necessary for the victim to tell the texter that the texts are harassing and need to stop or the matter will be reported to the police. You have to put the other person on notice that the behavior is unacceptable and needs to stop. Then, if that person continues to send texts - the behavior can be considered harassment.