After reincarnation, will it still be you but just as a different person?
It will be your Spirit with all the memories of all the past lives it lived, including this one, but it will not be “you”, as your current personality, body and mind. The values and perspective and appearance of a Spirit are very different than ones of your human personalities (unless you are enlightened and in full integration with your spiritual self, but you would still lose the body and human image) . You as a human personality only live once (YOLO!), ego and body die after each life, but the experience and wisdom gained stay with the Spirit. Spirit can also take any shape it wants, so it can pretend to be “you” - for example, to meet your children/grandchildren or anybody else you loved - after they die and go into Spirit World, that’s why everybody sees their friends and relatives just like they looked in life - when they cross over or in dreams or out of body experiences - because their Spirits present themselves the way you remembered them, same image and personality and mannerisms, but this is just an image, like a hologram. In reality, they all are giant balls of light…but you will not see them as such till you become a ball of light yourself after going through several transitions in the Hereafter…There is an exception to this rule - if a person dies unexpectedly and in a traumatic way (murder, combat, sudden illness or accident) - they might not cross over into Afterlife - but get reincarnated right away, in this case, they keep all the past life memories and personality. These are cases described in books and shows about children who vividly remember their past lives. Another exception is - Tibetan Buddhist lamas, who give the vow to reincarnate till all beings are relieved from suffering, and reincarnate after achieving enlightenment, they remember all their past lives and are recognized in childhood as a reincarnation of a lama and return to their positions in a monastery.
Can true love happen twice?
After my breakup, many people have asked me, “Why I never went for a second relationship despite credibility and the availability?’’My reply has always seemed flawed to them. Not because I am hard-wired and can’t love any other woman now but an emotional connection which lasted for six long years didn’t compel myself to see another woman like the way, I used to see her.After my breakup, I dated many, I guess, to be honest, the number crossed 10. I slept with all of them, some from Tinder, some from Quora, Some from random parties, thinking everything will work and I shall do fine.No, it’s been more than 10 months now, and I still stand there, thinking about her every second like she is irreplaceable.During the late hours of studying, I hold the cup of coffee in my hand and look through the mirror, just to realize, she is still fresh in my mind.When the rain falls, it makes me remember of her like anything because we have spent some moments in heavy rain which I won’t be able to forget.She is tiny, cute, who wears sneakers for going to the bathroom in the morning and makes awful faces which looked even cuter.She was the one, who was responsible for producing oxytocin in my body as no one did and that’s the only reason, I couldn’t love anyone so far, like not even close.Some people don’t leave you emotionally, despite leaving you physically. Her cheeks, her eyes, her lips, and her tiny hands remind me of everything which I don’t have now.You know, in the crowd, I feel isolated from this world. People look at me, I look at them, they smile, I smile but in a matter of seconds, I just become normal because mentally, I am not here.For me, love was something which needed investment. From 16 to 22, I did best of what I could do. I retained every information deep in my heart and will cherish until I die.I am not very sure if I can get a woman for myself, for loving me the way she did because I am very emotional and sensitive and she was the only person, in front of her, this man cried like a baby, screaming to the low of his voice filled with emotions and insecurity.Question: Can love happen twice?Answer: Sure, it will. Everyone is not like me. Try to move on in life, like she did, like she is, and like she would be because she is strong and the most beautiful person, I have ever come across.Thanks for reading.
Why life is so painful,depressing and meaningless?
I saw a very painful scene yesterday. There was a couple in my neighbour, they were very devoted to each other but suddenly the husband died (heart attack). Seeing the dead body of her husband, wife lost her mind and grabbed her husband's dead body,she was begging god to take her away,crying like mad ,her children were crying as well. It happend in front of my eyes, very depressing. People were comforting her but its unimaginable to think what that lady was going through. Two things came to my mind that time,one was ,why life is so painful and other was, what is the meaning of life,actually. Her husband whom that lady loved deeply was gone, his memories,precious time with his family and everything ,just VANISHED forever. Poof ,and gone. That lady will not be the same ,she lost the most important part of her life forever. But sometimes i feel like , why cry if we all gonna die one day.Why cry ,if life has no meaning ? That scene really depressed me ,i am still having nightmares. Seeing a dead person give us an impression of ultimate reality known as "DEATH" . The ultimate truth.
Why do elderly people often experience hearing loss?
It's called presbycusis or age related hearing loss. This is due to the changes that occurs within the ear whether it's in the inner ear (nerve damage from noise or trauma) or the middle or outer ear. However,the hearing loss is most often due to changes in the inner ear and is called a sensorineural hearing loss. Due to their exposure to noise throughout their lifetime the hair cells in the inner ear die off. Once these hair cells die, there is no going back. Typically with the elderly population they lose the higher frequencies first. Because of this they often have difficulty with more higher pitched consonant sounds like s, th, f, etc. Also, they have difficulty with higher pitched voices. Females have higher pitched voices so they will have more difficulty with females than males. Children also have higher pitched voices so the elderly often have complaints of not being able to understand their grandchildren. With the elderly population it is also important to know that it isn't so much talking louder to them (which you may need to do if they are not wearing hearing aids) but you also have to slow down when you speak to them. Because of their aging they also can have problems processing sounds/speech. So talking, clearly, concisely, and perhaps louder will help them. Make sure to also face them when you talk to them so they can get visuals when you speak like lip reading. If you know of someone with a hearing loss, tell them to consult an audiologist and discuss hearing aid options. They do help most people! Hope this helps!