Is it okay to want to be someone's slave?
Definitely need to separate issues of consensual kinky sex from social oppression. When Kanye West says blacks need to get off the Democrat Party plantation, he’s telling people not to be slaves to an ideology. Democrats aren’t too concerned about Sudan’s Muslims enslaving Sudan’s Christians. You can be enslaved by politics, ideologies, religions, or by employers, or more personally by people, spouses, relatives, “friends.” You may consent to suck up to your employer, be their flunky, gopher, servant, slave, but it has some ultimate rewards. Students are slaves in school, obeying, like servile subhumans or dogs. Soldiers obey at the risk of death. Life is a tradeoff, but the trade has to be somewhat fair. In ancient Rome, some free people sold themselves into slavery to free a fellow christian slave. A major atheist of the era, who clung to Aristotle’s theory of physics said if you want a “servant,” get a catholic boy, because otherwise, the “servant” may slit your throat in your sleep. Point is endless factors weigh into how much you defer to or obey others. Psychologists have never really figured this out. Virtuous martyrs consented to be tortured to death. It’s a noble concept, for a good cause. It’s good to be capable of some suffering, pain, for a greater good. Far, far better than killing others for that religious or greater secular cause. But if you want to be enslaved by some individual in particular, think a little about what kind of person they are, and why they would want to enslave you. We’re all slaves to circumstances, fate, governments, life’s destinies, but be careful when you submit or seek out enslavement to any particular person. Know who they are, much better, and put your emotions on hold until you figure out what they’re about better. You want to please someone you like, but be very careful. Charles Manson’s family should have tried harder to figure out why they wanted to obey Charlie. Same with Jim Jones before they drank his Kool-aide. Some very real sadists are out there looking for personal slaves. And their sadism’s limits can be very unlimited, deranged or insane. Monica Lewinsky got down on her knees for Bill Clinton, believing his promise to divorce Hillary and marry Monica, but it wasn’t true. An unpaid intern kneeled before President Bill, and where did it get her?
My dad treats me like a slave help?
He's like, super mean to me! >_<. Whenever He wants me to do something and I'm talking, he's like "yeah, yeah just shut up and do it.". He constantly complains that I'm spoiled, but how are you spoiled if the person that raises you treats you like dirt and curses like a sailor? He thinks sucks Is a bad word and all he cares about is "the family reputation.". He always calls me names, and last night he wanted me to grab something, while i was making a tv dinner, right? I was like " one minute, please.". Then he grabbed my dinner, smashed the bowl, and noodles literally splattered everywhere in the kitchen. Then he's like "that'll teach you to do what I say. Clean it up.". Seriously, what the hell? He always yells at me, when I was 7 he strangled me over a video game, he threatned to punch me in the chest into the garage(I even have breathing problems too(asthma)!). When he's mad and yelling at me sometimes he pushes his index finger into my chest really hard, when I ask him "why can't you just talk normal to me for once?!". He says "because you're not normal. You have to be yelled at.". One time I told the counselor on him, she talked to him and it only lasted for 2 - 5 weeks till h. Was a jerk again.
I want a slave, can I have one?
It says this in the bible "However, you may purchase male or female slaves from among the foreigners who live among you. You may also purchase the children of such resident foreigners, including those who have been born in your land. You may treat them as your property, passing them on to your children as a permanent inheritance. You may treat your slaves like this, but the people of Israel, your relatives, must never be treated this way. (Leviticus 25:44-46 NLT) I want a slave, God says its all good so where can I buy one?
My husband wants to be my slave. ?
We are a married couple and recently he has lost his job and he tried a lot for last few days but did not get any job. I am a working Woman and I told him not to worry so much as whatever I earn we can live well without having problems but he is now having some inferiority complex. So he is doing all household works like cleaning, cooking , laundry etc. Yesterday he told me that he is just good for nothing for outside work and requested me not to divorce him and keep him as my slave. I tried to convince him in many ways that I love him and do not want to divorce for such a small reason. But he is saying that he wants at least to do some work and working as my slave is no problem for him. Yesterday morning I found him polishing my boots and as I tried to stop him from doing it he became sentimental and told that I am thinking that he is so useless that he do not have capability to be my slave even. So I did not intervene him in any ways. Our married life is ok but all the time he behaves as if I am his Mistress and he is my slave. I saw him today scrubbing floors while I woke up and as I woke up he came rushing with morning bed tea. He kissed me but while I was having my breakfast he sat on floor and was massaging my feet. I am being treated as a queen which I was not used to. I told once to him to go to a psyacrist but he became furious hearing it. He is saying that he will feel better if I give more work to do for the day and inspect after coming back in evening. So ladies please suggest me what you think regarding this and what should I do?
Would you say no to someone that wants to be your house slave?
Depends on who it is.I have a “boi” with a couple of master’s degrees and a high-level job who is my house slave. When he retires that’s what he wants to do full-time.It’s his fetish.I am perfectly okay with it.It was difficult to understand at first that this is what he wants; that it pleases him to serve his “Goddess.”Once I got it, it is no different than accommodating someone who expresses a desire for something else in the relationship, whether its a specific technique they like you to do in the bedroom or the kind of pizza you order on Friday night.It’s a fetish. Sort of a BSDM/FemDom subset except I’m not a sadist and he’s not a masochist. We’re well matched.I had another man who wanted to serve but he would misbehave on purpose because he liked punishment. Since I don’t like punishing we weren’t a good fit.If my “boi” misbehaves, the punishment might be to hold a button against the wall with his nose.He gives me power over him because he wants to be submissive. It allows him to not think and just do as he is told. It’ the least stressful part of his life.If he were not intelligent and educated I would say no because it would feel as if I was taking advantage. I’ve offered to send him to counseling repeatedly but he does not want to change. The moment he does, if that time ever comes, he’s free to do so.
I have a new contact who wants to be my slave - assuming my husband is ok?
It depends on the kind of slave he wants to be. Curiously, this arouses me ! Anyway, if your husband is okay with this, why not. Make him cook chorizo, for a start, and see how it goes.
Slave fetish, why me?!?!?
No, it's not bad, it is quite normal. It is a common fantasy of a lot of people to be sexual submissive to their partner. Google for keywords like BDSM, femdom.