I like girls who don't like me and don't like girls who like me. What should I do?
Don’t listen to any of these people telling you to acknowledge reality and lower your standards, they don’t know they’re talking about. Dating a girl you don’t like will just hurt your self esteem and leave you in a worse position than you’re currently in. The reality is women are picky and you will probably not be most women’s type, but you should definitely not let this fact have any bearing on your ability to get an attractive girl in general.Have you ever read the book The Fountainhead by Ayn Rand? It’s about an architect who refuses to do building projects unless he can do them in his own way, and after a period of hardship eventually becomes a successful architect on his own terms. Though it’s about architecture, the book has important lessons to teach about maintaining your standards and not giving into the evils of mediocrity that can be parlayed to almost anything, including dating. I would urge you to read it.Ultimately, you just need to learn to be self reliant. Start developing yourself as an attractive guy by getting into great shape, reading voraciously, and figuring out a way to make money. Don’t pity date a girl you’re not attracted to, it’s not your problem and they owe it to themselves to make themselves more attractive if they want a high quality guy. I remember when I was younger getting rejected and having friends suggest girls who I knew I could do better than, so I kept my faith in the process, and eventually I got girls who measured up to my standards. When things get tough, just remember that the pride of achieving your standards will be so much better than any momentary compromise ever could be.
Why do I want to be a girl? Is there something wrong with me?
I posted this one other time and someone suggested that maybe I should post it again cause it didn't show up. Please don't be mean to me about this. I'm 14 and I dress up like a girl when no one else is around. Part of me is really really embarrassed about it and part of me likes it. I guess that when I'm alone as Taylor I just feel so much better. When I think about what I'm doing after, I don't really feel together; I feel really bad. My mom has a couple of boxes in the attic of hand me downs for my sister from our cousin. These are a couple of the clothes that my sister either hasn't grown into yet or doesn't like. And this is really bad I know, but I use my sister's clothes in her dresser and make sure I put them back exactly like I found them. I'm not too tall or too big so I don't stretch anything out. She'd probably kick my butt and call me a creep if she knew and I wouldn't blame her. I'm just too embarrassed to take the money I have and buy my own stuff. And even if I did buy it somewhere, I'm not sure how I'd hide it or what I'd get. I get left alone in the house for a few hours on weekends completely alone. I dress up then and I do the dishes and stuff like I'm supposed to and all the other chores I can do inside. I'm really scared that my mom might come home early one day so I watch out for her car. Even though I'm scared someone will find out I'm still happier dressed up like a girl than I am any other time. I've thought about this a lot and I don't know what to do. What's wrong with me? You're not supposed to put on your sister's clothes when she's not there; even I think that's kinda creepy. But I get picked on enough in school for being small already without going to a store to buy girl's clothes. I can't buy stuff online either cause you need a credit card for that and I don't want to ask my parents for theirs. I know it's wrong and it would probably make my sister really really mad at me, but I don't know what else I'm supposed to do or why I feel better as a girl. What am I supposed to do to make this better?
Why are only the wrong girls chasing me?
I'm a really young-looking 34-yr-old guy really hanging for a nice compatible gf? But why, why, why, are only the wrong girls chasing me. A customer, an ugly mom with four hyperactive disfunctional kids, has been sending me flowers and calling. A foxy but immature 19yr girl at work is really comming onto me. It never ends, why? Why aren't compatible girls chasing me?
Why do i attract the wrong girls?
For some reason I seem to always attract the wrong girls. the girls I start to like never seem to be interested in me, but the girls that I am not interested in always seem to like me. This is really annoying. Whenever I like a girl I always have 3 or 4 girls that I don’t really like that like me. And the girl I like doesn’t usually like me. why do I always attract the wrong girls, they arnt ugly, but they just don’t have the personality im looking for. does any1 elts have this problem?
I don’t know what’s wrong with me?
I’m a 19 year old girl I’ve only had sex once in my life but I didn’t enjoy it at all I’ve never felt the urge to have sex I’ve never wanted to do anything sexual but all my friends get horny and always want to have sex I feel like something is wrong with me because when they talk about sex and stuff I feel extremely uncomfortable
I don't want to be so superficial, but I only want to date pretty girls. What should I do?
I don't know if a Quora answer can actually help you start getting attracted to girls you don't feel attracted to naturally as of now. From my understanding of people and their psyche, you will only really truly realize things when you experience them on your own.I'd suggest you to not pay heed to the "Real men don't love physically beautiful women...." kind of suggestions. I don't think things work like that. You already do understand that there is possibly a flaw in your superficial choices but they're still your choices for a reason. How would saying the same thing in poetry or prose help you further is beyond me.I would suggest you to go ahead with your superficial choices, go ahead and only date pretty girls. That's what you're into, and there's no reason to not like what you like. If you force yourself to believe that you should date a girl you find 'ugly/not pretty enough', it's not going to last anyway.Hopefully, sooner than later, you will have dated enough pretty girls to have it out of your system. If not, good enough, you've landed with the kind of person you wanted- pretty. But if and when you do, it will be because you have understood things by experience and have naturally started finding other things attractive- intellect, kindness, humor, confidence, common interests.. whatever floats your boat. This is the only way I see it working our for you. The ability to see beauty in a person doesn't come naturally to everyone. Some are born with it, some never develop it, and for some it's acquired over time and experiences.
Is it wrong to kiss a girl without warning who is not your GF (I don't have one) Girls Only Please.?
You don't always have to express you interest by kissing her. The worst kiss I ever had was an unexpected kiss. It was from someone I didn't know so that added to how gross it was, but you should probably start out with something more mild like holding hands or snuggling. (A pretty good indicator that you like her) Even more subtle and more endearing is showing her that you care about her. Asking more in depth the way she feels about things, defending her, helping her on projects. I know it isn't as exciting, but it shows her how much you care first. Otherwise she may think you are using her for physical satisfaction. You don't want that if you want to keep a good relationship.