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Is It Wrong To Record Conversations I Have With The Girl I Like On My Phone Would You Care If

20 year old boy dating a 17 year old girl?

I am looking into (probably) dating this girl but she is only 17 and I am 20. Her mom doesn't care as long as she doesn't get pregnant and I am in agreement with that rule and will take all precautions to follow it. She is pretty mature for her age and I know the age of consent in Jersey is 16 so it's not really that big a deal. She is also super cute and looks like she could pass as 19 easy. She is a good girl and I am a boyscout type of guy with no bad habits. I am just curious what everyone's take on this situation would be. We are almost exactly 3 years apart and I have nothing but the utmost respect for the female population.

Should my girlfriend be allowed to look through my phone?

Yeah why not?I don’t understand why people call this matter of privacy. She’s no stranger, you want to spend your life with unless you’re in open relationship where one can be in relationship with you and can hookup with someone else too then Don’t check her phone or don’t allow her to check your phone.If I were you then I would’ve no problem if my girlfriend checking because I don’t send random friend request to any hot girl (I don’t use facebook) or follow any random girl on insta unless she is an actor or a model. If I have someone to love me or take care of me why would I need any other girl to flirt or to sext and cheat upon my girlfriend. I’m sure she would be that sensible that she will not look into my family group or my male friends chat (too much abusive language sometimes). One should not ask the password cos that’s an unnecessary thing to ask but If you are really true to your partner you can allow her to check your phone. Let her do it 3–4 times and the very next day she will stop checking your phone cos there you build up a trust element between both of you and assured her that’s nothing is wrong with you; you ain’t cheating her.Things to avoid in a relationshipIf your boyfriend/girlfriend smell something strange or ask you about a guy/girl they hadn’t heard of then don’t replay like that - “Think whatever you want, yeah we’re hooking up what will you do?” This will only worse your situation or even breaks your relationship even if you’re not doing this and that guy/girl is just your friend too. This is the worst reply you can give to your partner. Always comfort her and tell her that you love her only and that girl was just a friend or a colleague from office; Nobody can take your place silly. She just you to tell her that her place was not changed in your heart that’s it, She is not being CBI or something.If you want to cheat anyone, no one can stop you from doing that. Nowadays even the smartphones comes with dual password- one for guest and one for administrator. Also apps like parallel space are also there. Cheat if you want but it will ain’t make you a man cos Real man don’t cheat. Also if you’re a girl don’t come with excuse like- “Oh you don’t trust me”; Are you cheating him, what are you afraid of then? Give him your phone, let him clarify his doubt if he has because avoiding this will only worse your relationship in future. Don’t ever cheat your partner.Peace!

I caught my girlfriend secretly recording me, audio and video. She said it was to play back for me to show me how I act at times. We do fight sometimes, but to record me and save them seems suspicious. What do you think?

I dunno.  I think she is on to something.  Seriously.Here's the thing.  It's hard to argue with video.  You can argue with a person... they might forget things, or mistake things... or take things out of context when they reply.  But you can't argue with direct recorded evidence.If you have a discussion with your girlfriend, and you keep on contradicting yourself but you won't admit to contradicting yourself... one of her only recourses is to record the conversation and show you directly where you contradicted yourself.  I'm all for that.It isn't like she is recording you while you are alone in a room... to try to catch you doing things you don't want her to know about.  She's recording you during a time when you and she are RIGHT THERE.  If you are being honest with her when you talk with her, and you are not contradicting yourself... if you are doing nothing wrong, you have nothing to worry about.What is she going to do... show the recordings to other people?  What's the worse that can happen, right?  People will see and hear you say all the things you would have said to them... right?  It isn't like she is really capturing you being two faced, or contradictory, or being manipulative, or lying or anything like that... is she?This isn't a cop thing.  This is between you and her.  If you are doing nothing wrong, then there's nothing the video can be used for against you.I think you are worried, because you CAN'T argue with video... and her recording discussions the two of you have is actually doing what she intended it to do.  It is proving she's right.  About whatever.  You can't stand that, so you need a reasonable argument for why she shouldn't be recording you.  There isn't one.  Oh sure, she shouldn't record you if she trusts you... but for whatever reason, trust is gone.  At this point, she's looking for concrete evidence of you doing something you say you don't do.  If she's resorting to video, that means she believes she is in the right... and she knows you can't argue with video either.I'm leaning towards her having valid reasons to record you.  Try straightening yourself out.  Maybe she'll stop all on her own.

What are the funniest customer care conversations you've ever heard or came across?

Actual dialogue of a former WordPerfect Customer Support employee with a caller:Reference Link: Page on PwrCustomer Support: "Ridge Hall computer assistant; may I help you?"Caller: "Yes, well, I'm having trouble with WordPerfect."CS: "What sort of trouble?"C: "Well, I was just typing along, and all of a sudden the words went away."CS: "Went away?"C: "They disappeared."CS: "Hmm. So what does your screen look like now?"C: "Nothing."CS: "Nothing?"C: "It's blank; it won't accept anything when I type."CS: "Are you still in WordPerfect, or did you get out?"C: "How do I tell?"CS: "Can you see the C: prompt on the screen?"C: "What's a sea-prompt?"CS: "Never mind. Can you move the cursor around on the screen?"C: "There isn't any cursor, I told you, it won't accept anything I type."CS: "Does your monitor have a power indicator?"C: "What's a monitor?"CS: "It's the thing with the screen on it that looks like a TV. Does it have a little light that tells you when it's on?"C: "I don't know."CS: "Well, then look on the back of the monitor and find where the power cord goes into it. Can you see that?"C: "Yes, I think so."CS: "Great. Follow the cord to the plug, and tell me if it's plugged into the wall."C: ".......Yes, it is."CS: "When you were behind the monitor, did you notice that there were two cables plugged into the back of it, not just one?"C: "No."CS: "Well, there are. I need you to look back there again and find the other cable."C: ".......Okay, here it is."CS: "Follow it for me, and tell me if it's plugged securely into the back of your computer."C:"I can't reach."CS: "Uh huh. Well, can you see if it is?"C: "No."CS: "Even if you maybe put your knee on something and lean way over?"C: "Oh, it's not because I don't have the right angle - it's because it's dark."CS: "Dark?"C: "Yes - the office light is off, and the only light I have is coming in from the window."CS: "Well, turn on the office light then."C: "I can't."CS: "No? Why not?"C: "Because there's a power outage."CS: "A power... A power outage? Ah, Okay, we've got it licked now. Do you still have the boxes and manuals and packing stuff your computer came in?"C: "Well, yes, I keep them in the closet."CS: "Good. Go get them, and unplug your system and pack it up just like it was when you got it. Then take it back to the store you bought it from."C: "Really? Is it that bad?"CS: "Yes, I'm afraid it is."C: "Well, all right then, I suppose. What do I tell them?"CS: "Tell them you're too stupid to own a computer."

Is there a way to recover deleted text messages without subpoenaing?

Lately I have been having "questionable" conversations with a girl I know over text messaging. We both know our parents would not be amused if they read the text messages that were going back and forth. We both delete the conversations from our phones after we finish texting, but my dad has told me that there are ways to find out what has been going back and forth even after I delete texts and I'm a little bit anxious whether or not he is actually correct. I think he would have said something to me by now if he had seen these text messages because a.) I'm pretty sure my phone doesn't save messages to my SIM card, so I can eliminate the SIM card reader and b.) my phone is on me at all times and I have it password locked. I also know that you can have your wireless provider subpoenaed by the court so they are forced to give up your text messages but that's only in dire situations. I can't see the actual content of the text messages on my account page but I can see who I have been texting (no name, just the number.) So, even if the texts are deleted on both phones, is there a way to see them without taking "drastic measures?"
Any input would be greatly appreciated
Thanks

How long before this sociopath shows his true colours?

Holy sh*t!! This guy sounds like the ultimate psycho! Yes I think it's a control issue for sure, it's not about the child at all I don't think..he's doing this to hurt you (and destroy you) The most valuable information that can help resolve this is the "why"...if he is motivated enough to spend his life stalking, and plotting against you-there must be a motivation for it, and as a former control freak I can tell you my motivation was always revenge-usually for rejection. I hate to tell you this, but if he was on here, and read this question..he would get off reading it!..by putting this on here you are giving him what he wants (proof that his efforts are succeeding). There is an alternative possibility here..that you are either exaggerating these events, or you are saying/doing things to provoke his undivided attention.

Is this considered rape?

we are both 16. he forced me to perform oral sex on him, he put fingers inside of me. I said no and stop multiple times. would this be considered rape because we were both 16 and there was no penis in vagina sex? thank you

What does it mean if I constantly check someone's last seen online status on WhatsApp?

It means you are following this person, because you want to be a part of their life, same time you are not sure, how they feel about you, and neither are you sure, how to make things happen. Lack of confidence is what it is called. If you don't mind doing it, and have ample of time, please continue todo so, else find a day to strike a conversation, and help yourself to know, how you feel about them in reality, and what you really want of this so called crush affair.

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