Why is my Best friend trying to make me Jealous?
i dont understand, we use to do EVERYTHING together(primary school, nursery, meet up befor and after school, hang out in high school, sleepovers,hanging out, tell secrets) then all of a sudden she met an other friend, her friend started to hang out with all of us, but my bestfriend started to change (in a bad way) they started to talk to do all that with her and talk to eachother about sleepovers, movies and memorys they have had together(ALL THE TIME), and they laugh alll the time in front of me like...a over reactive laugh in a way it looks like there trying to make me hurt.....she must know im there, and im feeling left out, she puts pictures on the cover her phone of each other and shows it of in my face, and if she takes a pic of all ov use (which she never really does much) she comes up with stuff like "its nice, we just need to crop someone out" stuff like that, and i feel really sad all the time.....iv lost a good friend that now is trying to make me jealous, why? and how do i get her back to being more nicer to me?, havent done anythin to upset her, just all of asudden happened, i dont know what to do its making me feel so strest, and if she is trying to make me jealous its really working....help, any comments to help would be nice, thank you x
Friends using me for rides, what to do?
Please realize that you do allow this behavior and everyone that you are now giving a free ride to knows it. It's not that they aren't thankful at all but they are not respecting you or the favors you are doing for them. The only way to get respect is to demand it in this situation. You either have to learn to say no or tell each one of them just how much it will cost for a ride depending on how far and how often. They are walking all over you and when you realize that trying to be nice in itself can turn into people taking advantage of that, the better off you will be. I'm not saying to never be kind again but be very careful about whom you are kind to. I used to be the girl walked all over and somehow managed to stay a nice person but I do not allow anyone to use me for any reason and I know when someone is trying to use me or walk on me. The person who told you that you allow it cares about your best interest and is probably the best friend you have right now. Whatever you do, don't lie and say it is for some other reason other than the truth so that maybe these people learn a valuable lesson in life also. The ones who are willing to pay for your kindness are the ones worth keeping in your life. At some point you may have to tell them all; "Do not mistake my kindness for weakness". Don't ever forget those words because you will need them throughout your life.
Should I just give up on having friends?
Whenever I make friends, they always backstab me, use me for something, lie to me, ignore me, etc. And they all end up abandoning me. Friends aren't a necessity anyway, and I hardly trust people anymore.
My 'boyfriend' used me to get to my best friend!!!?
He'd always talk about my best friend, asking questions about her and everything. at first i just thought he was trying to make convosation, but most times i'd just try to forget because i think I was falling in love with him and I didn't want to think he could possibly like her! And then yesterday, he just came out with it and said 'I don't know how to say this, and i know your going to hate me... but i really like ******! i know i should've told you sooner rather than lead you on, but i have liked her for some time now; and i'm really sorry i had to use you!' how could he do this to me?!! why does this always happen to me! why do guys always use me to get to my best friend?!!... i really dont know how to deal with this, and i dont know why im on yahoo! answers asking for help but i don't know what else to do. i'm so hurt right now, i really thought he liked me, he said he really liked me... he made me feel so special. and now i really dont know what to do!! please help me!
How can I deal with friends that use me?
This may not be entirely relevant to your situation but I wanted to mention a quote from John Green’s novel The faults in our stars which is “The truth is everyone in this world is going to hurt you. You just need to find the ones worth suffering for.”Now coming back to your question it really depends on, in what way are your friends using you. What I mean is if a friend of yours is say not financially accomplished and he uses you to get him food, drives etc but is a loyal friend and has genuine feelings towards you and you dont have an issue spending a bit extra of ur time or resources on him, then I guess its fine to just avoid the using thing.But if you do have a problem with him and you think he really is a good friend then talk to him about it or just stop being used by him.
My best friend says she wants to use a strap-on with me, what should I do?
My best friend is 22 and we are the coolest friends anyone could hope to have, and we've never done anything sexual... she's also cute and I like her but I'm also cool just being a good friend to her regardless of any funny business. But the other day we ended up drinking a couple of bottles of wine, and out of nowhere she blurts out she wants to f*ck me in the *ss with a strap-on! I didn't know what to say at first except WTF!? REALLY!? How am I supposed to react? I like being kinky as much as the next person, but it seems like such a GIGANTIC leap from being her best friend to being f*cked in the *ss. What do you think I should do!?