Does he trying to make me jealous or it his way in being a friend ?
Some people just love to play games. You seem interested in him, and maybe he really is trying to lure you in some way. Lots of guys know that a great way to get attention from a girl is to ignore her. Like if we see a girl we like, we might go talk to her friend instead to make her jealous. I've never actually done that specifically, but it's a common technique from the "players." Just be careful, and try not to read into it to much, or at least don't let it get to you. Or do something similar and gauge his response. Don't give him the upper hand if you actually like him, or at least don't let him know he has it. Play it cool as you can. Ignore his facebook comment next time. And keep that kind of mentality. And you could even straight out ask, "are you trying to make me jealous?" That may shock him but I assure you such boldness is usually attractive to guys, and if he answers that question with another question, (or even in general,) he is probably playing an attraction game. Maybe he does like both you and your friend. Depending on the guy, he will usually choose based on: 1. physical attractiveness 2. your response to his games/flirting ie: fun chemistry 3. your personality Good luck!
How do I work with a colleague who is jealous and frequently wants attention?
This may seem simple but it works. Do not feed the monster comes to mind. If your acknowledging their behavior it will continue. Its just like children on a playground. If it's ignored and it's shown that it doesn't bother you they get nothing from it. The jealousy will soon die off. But if it keeps you in a open display of frustration or sadness they are getting satisfaction from it. Their are some situations that require a little more guts. Standing up and making it known that this is your job and your not going anywhere shows strength. Be nice but don't let them bother you either. Jealousy shows the person to be insecure in their own life. Let them be and show them kindness eventually kindness can be infectious. But always stand your ground choosing only to be firm as needed.
How can I tell if someone is jealous of me?
I had a colleague who was very jealous of me, at least that is what people told me when I complained of her behavior. Here is what I experienced:She would copy me. If I got a new piece of jewelry then she would get something very similar shortly afterward. If I traveled somewhere, she would go on a trip also to some place similar.She would be very nice to me to my face but them put me down behind my back. People would tell me about some of the things she said I was doing. Not of it was true.She was constantly complaining about others. No one was very competent in her opinion. I was one of them when my back was turned.We were friends outside the work place. But she would like to purposefully exclude me and tell me about where she went and what she did.She would never compliment me or ask about a trip.I always had the feeling that she was trying to “ put me in my place”.These things went on for quite a few years. I tolerated it because I worked with her and wanted to keep my work environment as peaceful as possible. She must have taken this as permission to keep doing it. Finally, the last straw came. I had golfed with her and a couple other ladies for about 8 years on Wednesday afternoons in the summer. She had recently been particularly difficult to work with and had alienated several other people with her negativity and complaining. She was going to schedule a tee time for the following week. I asked her to just let me know. She never told me and I found out that our group had gone without me. I finally confronted her about it and told the entire group that I would never do anything with them again. They were not “friends” if they were going to treat me like that. At work I had asked to be reassigned to a different area so I wouldn’t have to work with her again.After breaking it off with her I realized a few things… Her negativity had unconsciously rubbed off on me. I had to work on not criticizing and complaining about others. She really had been toxic. I developed better friendships with other, more positive people. I was so much happier!
How do I deal with jealous coworkers?
One of the bosses just loves me. And a few people hate me because of this. They also hate the fact that I make more credit then they do? I have confronted the two people. The one girl said she likes me but she was lying but I don't care. The other one wanted to me stay an hour after I got off. So that we could talk so she could tell me why she doesn't like me. Should I transfer jobs? I'm sure another Kohls would take me. I'm top in credit. What do I do?
Why does my colleague with a long-term girlfriend shows interest in me and gets jealous of other male colleagues?
I think that it's just something that guys do to assert dominance. Clearly you're attractive and so even if he isn't looking for anything serious with you, he still wants to win the affections and acceptance of a pretty woman.I've known guys who have been like this, and it was clear that they were just having fun because they had someone at home waiting for them. Sometimes it seems natural to joke around with and flirt with our co-workers. It's pretty innocent.I have also known some guys who were already attached to someone and were trying to get some other someone's on the side.Also, for some reason there are guys who have someone already, but they try to control what happens with another woman, which is weird. It's almost like a guy is grooming a woman to be his next girl in case he breaks up with the person he's currently with. And that isn't fair to you.I would talk to him and bring up his girlfriend so he knows that you know that he has one, and so he can maybe back up a little bit.
How do you deal with a jealous niece?
she's been through some rough times. she's 16, emotional & hypersenstive. i have really tried putting myself in her shoes. i just learned she's jealous of my baby! jealous that she's close to her grandma and grandpa and everyone else. she has nothing nice to say about anyone. i am trying to be there for her but she has so many stipulations. she stresses & wears me out. i prefer to be positive. do you u think this is a phase? has anyone been through anything similar? thanks in advance.
How do I deal with a jealous co-worker, team leader & manager when they are trying to pull me down?
Firstly you don't need to worry if you indeed are the best performer in the team as you say. Today is the performance driven world and not just people driven. Your performance , your capability and your work ethic if is in the right place nothing can happen to you.And about the people who are trying to pull you down , I would say just ignoring them is not the solution , so try to in a polite and a very diplomatic way try to resolve it with them directly. And even after this of the whole issue still persists , then maybe you can take this whole scene to your CEO or whoever is in charge. Also make sure you have enough proof along to prove it that actually something is happening and this isn't just a mind story or anything.