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Is My Uncle A Creep Or What

My uncle creeps me out?

He does stuff like touches my hair and says "you're such a beautiful young lady" and once he said he had some clothes that I might like in his car it was dark but I still went out there he opened the door and then my mom came up behindbus then he madr a face and took out a jacket and said " you know what I think this is too big for you " then he put it back in the car and closed the door..... "Mabe next time ill have some"..... Hes pretty big and has fake legs and we oly see him about twice a year.. hes 33 and im 15 should I be afraid or am I just over reacting like I usally do

Would you consider my uncle creepy?

This is a pretty long question, so thanks to anybody who responds. Alright, so my uncle hasn't seen me nor my sister since we were about 3 and 5. I am now 17 and I don't know if I'm being paranoid or if this dude is being a creep. So once we were talking alone in our kitchen and we had a convo about anxiety medication because we both suffer from anxiety. He told me he stopped taking his because he couldn't get an erection and he couldn't have fun during sex or satisfy the female he was sleeping with. Now, I thought that was strange and inappropriate to tell your 17 year old niece. Another weird moment for me was when we were talking about music, and he forced the ear plug in my ear and kissed my hand. He's always asking me if he looks old (he's in his late 40s,) and when I tell him he does, he gets angry. He constantly asks me if he should dye his hair because he is graying, or lose weight or whatever. I'm really creeped out and I don't know if I'm being paranoid or if he actually does have some bad intentions. Do you think this is weird behavior? If so, should I tell my mom? I feel really uncomfortable around him.

My uncle is starting to creep me out. What can I do?

Me and my uncle used to be quite close when I was a child, but obviously now I'm grown up (26) we don't have that same closeness, and I'm starting to find some of his behaviour a little inappropriate.

He very regularly asks for a hug and says 'I don't get to cuddle many beautiful blondes'. Fairly recently I was in my grandparent's room watching my mum play on the keyboard, and my uncle came to sit behind me on the bed. He put his arm round me and kissed the back of my shoulder, which I really didn't like but I didn't say anything, especially in front of my mum.

And just the other week, again at my grandparent's house, I'd just finished making everyone a brew and he said 'Aww, that was nice. I should have married you, shouldn't I? Except that you would have been about ten.' To which I replied as curtly but politely as I could 'That, and I'm also your niece' hoping that would give a hint that I didn't appreciate the comment.

I have considered talking to my mum about it, but I know she wouldn't see it how I see it, and would think I was just overreacting and that he was just showing that he cared about me. I have spoken with my sister and she agrees it's creepy. We tend to think he just misses the days when we were kids, but surely there's a limit to how much I should tolerate?

What should I do?

My uncle likes me and it's creeping me out?

At the last few family gatherings whenever he sees me he wraps his arms around me and rubs my back and kisses my head (which he doesn't do to my other cousins), then he kept staring at me overtly, randomly sneaking up on me and rubbing my back, telling me "you're doing great!" (in school) and saying "you look great!" "you're so pretty!" "you're gorgeous!" and always trying to hug me and stand near me and stare at me. I know it could be worse but it's creeping me out, when I last left my cousins' house I hugged my aunt and my cousin and not him and he yelled "Bye!" in an angry way because I didn't hug him, because I felt really uncomfortable. Is this normal? What should I do?

My uncle creeps me out. Please help?

So, my uncle (who is in his late 50's), kinda scares me. Im a teenager, and he has always 'picked on me' as long as I can remember. Flirtatiously, like tugging on my ponytail, tickling me, etc. I've loved animals since I was a baby, and he has all sorts of animals, like deer, chickens, geese. I feel like he's always used that to draw me in. He always asked me when I'm gonna come spend the night, but I find that weird considering my age. Everytime we have a family event, he is always staring at me. I'll look over and see him staring and he doesn't even look away. I was in my cousins wedding a few months ago and had to wear a rather tight, short, revealing dress (it wasn't by choice!), and at the reception he would stare at me from across the room and he would come up from behind me and rub my shoulders and put his arm around me. Idk it was just weird. So am I overreacting or is he a creep? What should I do about it? Thanks!

My uncle is weird?

He keeps on telling me to punch his hand to see if I can fight for my safety, he keeps saying he'll break any boys legs if they try to date me, and he tells me turn around and comments on my body, plus he plucks my phone from my back pocket and he asks me to wipe down his sweaty back, when I was around 9 he'd watch sex scenes when I'm around and he'd never tell me to leave. He's been like this since I was little. Plus he keeps bragging to me about all his girlfriends and how he sometimes has more than one in secret.
My mother doesn't like him very much but I'm begginig to think most men are like him.

I am 16, and my uncle is a pervert?

When I was 16 I had an uncle that was normal and not scary at all and he turned out to be a total creep and pervert too. He didn't wait to get alone with me before he violated me. Do not let him get near you alone or with other people. If he makes you uncomfortable, trust your instincts and stay away. Even if you are all together, like watching a movie, and it seems like a place where nothing could happen, you could be wrong. Just go to your mom and dad and tell them the things he says to you. Its easier to avoid something from happening than trying to fix something when something bad happens. I would tell him too that you aren't comfortable being around him, that you aren't comfortable with the way he talks to you and your not comfortable with him hugging you. Don't Be Alone with him, though. Call him out in front of your parents, someone might think you are being rude, but in this case, it could save you from something horrible.

What is the most appropriate thing to do when a creep uncle stares at you continuously in the train?

Hey…..First of all try not to give him any importance. …and by this I don't mean that you tolerate anything that he does wrong .I mean don't let him affect your in any means.Ok…so coming to your question.I think you should just walk up to him in full confidence and say something smart like….. “ Can I help you sir???” or  “Is there a problem sir ?” or anything that you can make up.That much would be enough to tell him that you are a very strong independent person and you know what he is doing wrong. That should be enough to stop him repeat such an act.Hope this is helpful. Thanks for the question : )All the best handling this creep.

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