What is the best punishment for a cheating boyfriend?
This term “cheat/cheating” comes up a lot on Quora. I’m guessing it may mean different things to different people. To me, as a “senior” citizen, cheating means to me that someone had sex with another person while they were in a mutually committed relationship with someone. There is no “sort of cheated” or “almost cheated” when this happens. That is a very personal and serious encounter. This isn’t holding hands or flirting with someone.Some people can be very possessive, even when not in an “exclusive” relationship. They see someone having a cup of coffee with a co-worker, perhaps danced a dance with someone at a school function or went jogging with a member of the opposite sex. and they are worried about “cheating.” To me that is not cheating. But each couple needs to discuss what they each think cheating consists of and agree on what is acceptable and what is not. If each of the couple can’t agree on it, then perhaps they shouldn’t be dating and referring to each other as boyfriend and girlfriend.The punishment? That probably should have been discussed when you became BF/GF. If you consider it serious ‘cheating,’ then promote him to “ex-boyfriend.”
What will be the best punishment for a cheating girlfriend?
I understand your hatred and pain, and the feeling of revenge towards her. But you don’t have to punish her.Just leave. Leave and don’t look back. Never give her any sort of attention, how small it may be. Be the bigger person. Let go. The grudge, hatred and feeling of punishment towards her will keep you mentally attached to her. If you mentally let go of her, you will move on with your life easier and the pain she caused will heal more drastically.Don’t get me wrong, you don’t need to forget what she did. You don’t need to say it’s ok. Because it is not. It is terrible. A very bad thing to do towards your partner. But if you want my personal advice, the best, most mature and healthiest thing to do, is to let go. Turn your back and move on.You see..My father tortured me for 7 years straight, a huge part of my childhood. You can imagine the hatred, pain and feeling of revenge I have towards that monster. But someone once told me: The longer I hold on to his thought, the longer I hate, the longer I stay furious about what he did, the longer I keep a line attached between him and I. But if I let go, forgive, but never forget, I can keep going in life and end up much further than the people who never forgive. And trust me, I still haven’t forgiven him, I find it incredibly difficult in fact. But I will get there, some day, I will be the bigger, better and stronger person. And so will you, man.Trust in yourself. Let the girl go, completely. Detach yourself. Physically, emotionally and mentally. You will get further in life.“The Root Of All Suffering Is Attachment.”
Too harsh a punishment for cheating gf?
So I am 17 and she is 15 and we have been together for almost 6 months. We will call her, stacy. anyways I am not goona say i love her because i think that is a cliche, but i am really fond of her. we met in begginners algebra(yeh i failed it 2 times) and shes been telling her parents that she goes out with "GFs" ever since. I don't know what i did wrong? we seemed to be going good and we had intament moments. i always treated her with respect! but i had to find out the hard way that stacy was going behind my back with my best friend since we were in gradeschool... He was going behind my back too, but he came forward and told me because he felt bad and didnt want to ruin our friendship by me finding out some other way i was pretty heated with him but, I was to hurt to even confront her =( Eventually pain turned to anger and i think i went over board. so i took the video that was made of her giving me head( she consinted) and burned it to a dvd and mailed it to her house... I still havnt even confronted her i dont think i will either. i am pretty sure the dvd hasnt made it there yet cuz she obviously hasnt said anything to me or her parents havnt confronted her yet..... was that to hateful? i mean she violated our trust???? i am not sure how i feel about it yet but i think she deserves it
How should I be punished for cheating on my gf?
You want to get back with her that much? She's never going to forget what you did and if she really loved you she would forgive you. you shouldnt have cheated in the first place and if you really love her you should let her go and see if she wants you back and if she can forgive you.
What is the best way to get revenge on my boyfriend?
My boyfriend has been smacking my butt lately. I didn't mind it so much at first. But now, it stings and leaves red marks when he does it. I just want to get back at him. I thought about giving him a smack or two on his butt, however, I want it to hurt. Should I use a paddle?
Should I forgive my boyfriend for cheating on me while high? Is "once a cheater" REALLY "always a cheater?"?
This is an extremely similar situation that one of my friends was in. Im the end they got back together because he was sincerely sorry and made it up to her. Even know I was totally against them getting back together (I believe in one a cheater, always a cheater), it seems to have worked out for the best, they are happy again and everything is back to normal. I think that you just have to go with your instincts, take risks. And if he does it again I'm sure that you will come up with an appropriate punishment ;)
Would you stay with your boyfriend after he cheated on you?
No way, if they do it once, chances are they will do it again. Once your trust has been violated you will never be able to fully regain it.
My girlfriend turned out to be a cheater. How can I punish her?
When you feel someone is cheating you or taking unfair advantage of you, whether its a girl friend or your close buddy. I suggest you to do following things.Don't try to punish them or look for ways to make them realize there mistake.Stop taking any decision for next 24 hours.In those 24 hours ask your self, do you really want to get out of this relation? Do you really fed-up of this thing ? Do you really feel this should be the end?After the conscious retrospection, whatever decision you take, follow that till your last breath.If you feel to end this relationship with them. Simply turn your face off and delete them from your memory. Convince your mind that such person is dead to you. It takes some time but finally it works.Never ever respond to them on Phone, Whatsaap, Facebook etc. But don't block them, because let them see you are matured enough and not childish.If you pick there phone accidentally, don't hangup immediately. Remember, now that person is dead to you. Behave normal, be formal. Don't revolt. Remember no flashbacks. He/she is dead along with there memories. Time starts healing the pain of being cheated. So visit new places, eat your favorite food but don't get into another relation immediately. You will fall sick badly this time. Don't discuss this thing with anyone.Never take any decision in hurry, Never get into another relation just to piss them off. You probably hurt yourself badly. Give yourself time to heal. Explore life.10. Finally, Life is to love people and use things but nowadays people are using humans beings and loving material things. Remember everybody is going to hurt you one or other way, Its just you to decide who is worthy of being with.Note: Please don't ever think of revenge, it won't work. When you consider them as dead they are actually dead to you. Coming back to there side of story: People starts realizing there mistakes late, sometime too late. But they when they do, they never forgive themselves. PS:I have asked you to take conscious decision, reason being is, life is short, you don't know when you going to die. I don't want you to carry regret to your deathbed. Your last breath should be with peace. The Show Goes ON !