How do I deal with someone close to me blocking me on WhatsApp and Facebook?
Blocking people on social media is a very rude treatment which can not be tolerated. It is VERY HOSTILE. Without internet and social media, this could be referred to as the boycott or total rejection. I feel very sorry for you and your friend is definitely very rude. It's like showing a middle finger to the person offline and rejecting him further. Also, blocking people can be a big emotional abuse, therefore it can lead the one being blocked to depression or other mental diseases.But what I can tell you is: NEVER listen to people who tell you to "move on with your life" etc, if you are trying to reconcile. IGNORE all the people who think that you deserved to be blocked. Block him (and them?) as well, and try to defend yourself as much as you can. Talk to other people (including friends) about what happened, but never discuss it right after you met, since they might be perceiving you as like you're complaining. If he will suddenly unblock you, write to him about what happened, and explain him how you feeled, and block again. Once he will complain to others about being blocked, unblock him. Moving on with your life, if it comes to relationship solving, is impractical and can only divert than relieve you. And people don't have any justifications for their reasons, since they came up with them themselves.Next time, let the people be nice to each another, and not block anyone!!!
Is it okay for parents to look through their child's phone to read their text messages and internet history? My parents do this and I’m 13. It makes me uncomfortable.
No. Parents should not go through private settings in a child's phone. Here is the kicker. Most parents think it is their right to surf their child's phone because they pay the bill and it is their home. Have I gone through any of my 4 children's phones? Yes. I'm not happy about this although I think what I found might defuse this argument in some families tonight. I have never read or discovered anything in any of their phones that I didn't already know or that surprised me. My shameless behavior was unnecessary and I knew this each time I did it. What I did was violate my kids privacy and worse breaking the trust we had built in each other. I was never caught but I knew what I had done.If you are a parent thinking of doing what I did, hear me first. Be prepared to find nothing. Unless you are going through the heartbreak of teenage drug use, bullying, pregnancy, drinking etc., you are not going to find anything in that phone that is worth the guilt you will feel. If your child was in trouble you would be doing more than reading text messages, tweets and Facebook posts. Their phone would be the last thing on your mind. Leave the phone alone and sit your child down and start talking! They will let you know just enough to ease your worried mind and your silly curiosity. Let your great kid have the earned privilege of privacy.
What Is The Real Reason A Person Gets Defensive?
I have been in a relationship for almost 10 years. We live where I was raised but are planning a move to his home state in a few months. His family is there and he is reconnecting with old high school friends on facebook. He has told me that he has lots of female friends from that area that he would always be there for when they need him. Recently we went for a mini vacation back to his home state. In the town we live in he never lets us go out. We have kids and it's always his reason why not to. I dont even ask any more. In his home state on vacation he was really looking forward to going out to a bar. There was a girl who kept im'ing him on facebook who was hinting that she cant wait to spend time with him. She is married. I was suspicious but went with him because he wanted me to go. I got there after he did, he came to meet me at the car. I asked him if he had seen any of them or her specifically yet. He flat out said NO she is not there. I walk in and in fact she WAS there. Someone told me that they were talking before I got there and they were hugging. I walked in with him. Behind him. He got pulled away from me by her in another hug...Until she saw me then she got her friend and left. I am very suspicious. Why am I told she is not there and he has not seen her to finding out the EXACT opposite? I am trying to find my own friends and career by applying for school in his state so that I will have my own thing while he does his. Plus being in school when the kids are in school will be healthy. Tonight he was im'ing on FB with another female from high school. He is always asking her daughter about this chick. I asked him who is he im'ing..He got really defensive. Told me I was the one with the problem. I am really not happy with the way he acted like a kid throwing a fit. If it was "a friend" then he really should not act out like that. Well I got sick of it all and deleted my facebook account. I don't have time to guess his intentions. What would you do? Would you get upset if you were hiding something? I don't hide things because it makes me irritated that I even tried to not tell the truth so I stick to the truth. Oh and I don't give him reason to think I will stray. This is all on him. I am confused on what I should do.
I found a female's number in my husband's wallet.....?
OK, I was looking in my husband's wallet last night to make sure he put the money in there that I gave him for dinner tonight. I was making sure that he didn't leave it in his work pants which went into the hamper. He tends to be forgetful at times. Anyway, I found this girl's number, April, which he used to work with at his former job. He had her # in his cell at one time and said that she asked him to text a joke to her and that he didn't send her anything after that (then why store her number?). When I found out about this I wrote the number down a while back in case it came up again. He did delete her out of his cell ( I don't know if he stored it under another name or not). When I confronted him on it today he got really angry at me and became defensive about it, which made me a little more suspicious. Not quite convinced that he is cheating, but still makes me wonder why he had it. I was cheated on by my first husband and I know I probably am overly cautious as I do not want to get hurt again and I know that he is not my ex. He claims he didn't know it was in there. Should I be suspicious or worried about this? We're about to celebrate our 2nd anniversary next week and have an 17 month old, so I really don't want to jump to conclusions and put stress on the marriage and family. Just wanting to know what others may think. Thank You!!!
The disk you were saving to or the disk used for temporary files is full.?
Thanks Mark K, it says: Used 25.3 GB Free 30.4 GB So that much should be fine... I'm saving to My Documents. I can open the dang file in my browser using acrobat reader, but it just won't let me save... I've tried saving other pdf documents from that same page, won't let me do that either *sigh* It let me save a psd file though.... arg. Maybe when I get home tonight it will all have worked itself out on it's own. (If it does I'll be freaked out though, after watching Terminator: Sarah Conner Chronicles last night, lol :p ) Thanks Pochu for your advice too. I've already done that though.
Im confused , is my crush playing with my feelings?
So we text everyday. And usually he starts the convo. he always uses quite a lot of emoticons.. he forces me to tell him who i like.. and he's really kind to me. Everynight he would say "Goodnight and bye :-)" . when im feeling sad , he would always help me out and comfort me. He always gives me advice. And there was a time he was sleeping and i texted him "Hi" and he actually woke up and continued the convo with me.. and then i REALLY thought he liked me..for every single mistake he made , he would immediately apologised to me but in class he doesnt look at me.. and because i thought he liked me , i told my bestfriend. And guess what? my bestfriend told him that i liked him! Then i felt so awkward.. and then my bestfriend asked if he likes me more or another girl(my other bestfriend) . then he said "I dont know.." when my friends ask him who does he like , he always says "no one" and i felt like he rejected me.. He really treated me kindly and i really thought he liked me but he never did!!! He had no crush from the start! How stupid was i?? then i wanted to forget him and move on .. i deleted his contact number and also deleted the whole chat with him. and i also unfriend him on facebook. But then after a few hours , i regretted deleting the text :/ i just simply couldnt forget him!! I keep thinking of him .. Everynight he would text me.. and today he didnt text me at all because i yelled at him , i said im changing my phone number so dont text me anymore!!! tonight he didnt text me .. i feel like i missed something. i feel so empty without him. everyday i smile and im happy because i thought he liked me ..... but he never did.. but he really treated me as if he liked me! i can feel it.. but why? im so confused now!! Does he like me or is he trying to play with my feelings??? i feel so hurt and sad now :( some one please help me?