Can I live on campus with my boyfriend?
Why is everyone being CRAZY about this...I didn't ask advice about my personal life.. I've always been very serious about my education...high school has been A's in AP classes... and having this boyfriend. I don't own him. We have a very healthy relationship. I don't plan on going to school to define myself. I plan on going to get an education. I already know who I am and I already know that I want him to be a part of my life. Please accept this and adress the question I asked.
(Air Force) Can my boyfriend live with me on base?
I m enlisting in the Air Force at the end of this summer. After my BMT and Technical School I m going to be stationed somewhere. At that point will my boyfriend be able to move in with me and live with me on base? Or for that to be allowed do we have to be married for it to be okay? And what determines whether or not I will be allowed to live off base, and to qualify for BAH must he be married to me? TIA
Can I live off base with my boyfriend while I am in the Navy?
Navy requires single personnel to be E5 or higher to qualify for BAH w/o dependents. You will be living in barracks or on board the ship. If you are living in barracks they may authorize it when you are E4 but the command has to approve it. You can chose to live off base if you wish but you will have to maintain your barracks room and pay out of your own pocket. You can use on base anything that is allowed, he cannot as he is not a dependent or AD. He might be able to go to a movie with you, go bowling. But he can't purchase anything at the commissary or exchange, he cannot use the gym, etc... There is also a chance you can get stationed overseas including areas like Spain, Japan, Guam.
Can I live with my boyfriend in India?
Yes, you can live with your boyfriend in India. Make sure of the following points before taking the final decision :-Don't do anything that you doubt/ question yourself .There are chances that if you are doubting yourself , it's not the right thing to do.Don't lose your parent's trust. You're only 18. Doing anything regretful can affect your relationship with them for the rest of your life. Remember. Your parents will always be with you.Don't forget the fact that your priority is your education. Don't sacrifice your career because of your boyfriend. Don't deviate from your studies.Since you're 18 and taking such a tough call, I'm pretty sure you must have considered all factors:)Considering all the above factors, you can live with your boyfriend without any issues :)
Can I live on Navy base with boyfriend if we have a child together?
No you would not be able to live in military housing just because you have a child together. In order for him to qualify for it w/o you being married, he would have to have custody of the child 50% or more of the year. Living with you wouldn't qualify for that if he is even allowed to do that. When they are single, unless they are E5 or above, or an E4 with more than 4 years in, they are required to live on the ship or in barracks. The only way around it is if they can't stay on the ship & no barracks are available. He would not qualify for BAH (Housing Allowance) either. Your child would need to get an ID, you would need a letter from teh command allowing you to take the child to places on base to get things to support that child. You can shop at the commissary or exchange but only if it is for things for the child. If it isn't then you can't purchase them. You would not be able to the base for delivery of the child. The child isn't covered by Tricare until it is born and registered with DEERS. So you will have to pay for all of that yourself. If it is born out of wedlock, the military may require a paternity test to make sure it is his child. You would also be limited in what information you can get from teh command about the deployments. Some will allow it while others will not. It ranges from command to command. Now if you do get married first you celebrate whatever anniversary you want to. You can even have 2 if you want to, it is your choice. Quite a few couples do have 2 anniversaries and some celebrate 1 and others celebrate both. You would qualify for military housing or BAH for renting out in town. The wait time for housing can range from place to place. There is some places in which it can be 1 year or longer, but other places it won't be. The only time you will be allowed to get base housing is when you are there on his orders. Meaning he is assigned to a command at the base for 6 months or longer. You can then apply, wait and when it is open move in. You can also use all the base amenities. Including medical, child care, exchange, commissary, theater, bowling, gym, etc...
What ways can my boyfriend from the US move to Canada to be with me?
Canada has a great immigration website that should have all your answers. They even include a test your BF can take to see if he might have enough points to qualify to immigrate to Canada. Are you both over 21? Educated? Skilled and experienced in a profession/career/trade? Do you earn enough to support him until immigration formalities are completed and he gets authorization to work? These are some critical issues -- your ability to sponsor him depends primarily on these issues. And if he tries to bring you to the US, these same issues predominate.
Would my boyfriend care that I live in a bad neighborhood?
If he does care, then what? Are you going to do everything in your power so he never sees where you live and never meet your parents? Does omitting a huge part of your life really a good thing to do?Here’s the thing, NO ONE here or anywhere knows what your boyfriend thinks. We can guess a zillion things and by the flip of a zillion-sided die, some of our guesses might be what he might think about it. The reality is that only he knows and the only way you can know is by asking and/or observing him directly.Ultimately, you cannot control what other people think about without lying to yourself, twisting the truth, omitting what’s important to other people who wants to be a part of your life. If my girlfriend lived in a dirt poor slum area of the city, the only thing I would care about is firstly, is it safe for us and for her family and secondly, if I am serious about my relationship with her, if I can eventually take her entire family out of there. However, that’s me. I don’t know anything about your boyfriend.
I want to break up with my boyfriend (who I live with) but don't have enough money for a new apartment. What do I do?
Find a friend you can share the rent withgo online and look for a possible roommatefind accommodation that you can pay for (fits within your budget) it could mean going down a notch or soMove to a cheaper neighborhoodIf not, you are stuck with him for as long as you focus on maintaining a status quo residence. Think in terms of solutions and not your limitations.Talking to him may not work and blow-back on you instead. He could use it to leverage your staying with him.
Can I live on base with my marine boyfriend even if were not married?
You will benefit from the military in NO way what-so-ever if you are not married to a military member. Your boyfriend will NOT receive housing or a housing allowance straight out of boot camp either unless he is married. He will live in the barracks. If you get married, the military will fly you and your belongings to his location and will either give you housing on post with him, or give you a housing allowance to live off base in a home that you choose. Don't get married just for the housing. As a military wife, I've seen it happen. It never lasts. Marry him when you're ready and understand what being a military wife entails. I love my husband and support him 100%, but it takes a special and very strong kind of woman to be a military wife. Good luck! =)
What is the simplest way my boyfriend and I can be together as soon as possible?
Thank you for asking me to answer. You cannot live in the USA as a spouse of a green card holder unless the two methods I mentioned below. You can live as a spouse of H1 visa holder on H4 or on green card as spouse of a USA citizen which has a lot of process. Here is what you can do to come and live in the USA:1. Get a job here on a H1 B visa or some work visa. Then when your husband gets his citizenship he can apply a green card for you.2. If you have over $500000 you can invest and create your business here and get a green card to stay here.3. You can come in illegally but you will not be able to hold a proper Job and if discovered you can be deported. I would not go that route it's stupid.Update ;4. There is a fourth way using form I- 130 but that will take you minimum 4 to 5 years and you cannot be in USA during that period. It's better instead he applies for you after getting his citizenship which will take the process after citizenship only 4 to 8 months.5. Also if he is close to getting USA citizenship and he wants to be a USA citizen. Assuming he is 3 years away from USA citizenship then you can come here to Study on F1 to do some courses or masters till that time and after 3 years he can apply for your green card which you will get within 8 months of the time he applied for it. And you lose nothing other than cost of education which you can recover when you work. :)These are the fastest ways you can come here :). Best of luck.