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What does it mean when a guy sends a girl a song?

Well, from my point of view, it gets pretty ugly sometimes and this is coming from a lot of experience. That’s a very interesting topic, however. For almost five years, I had a crush on not that good of a person who would never respond to my texts unless I’ve sent them songs specifically for their music taste. They would just ignore me altogether and not communicate what they think or feel even if I asked for some opinion that I used to value a lot, time and time again. I used to assume that this is just the “shy” personality they had but that couldn’t be further from the truth. In hindsight, this is a risky situation that may lead to you being confused and unsure of what you mean to them. Or the other way around which happened to me. I recall that the last conversation we ever had before cutting them off completely ended with them sending me questionable songs with titles like “Are You Ready For Me”, “All By Myself” and some anger after I didn’t reciprocate what they felt. It was pretty creepy when I started analyzing our whole history; once they had sent me a song that was literally titled “Leave Me Alone”. And keep in mind, I thought that I was overthinking the simple things or overreacting. But alas, sometimes it is also really cool to find out that a new person you just met has the exact same taste in music as you! As they say, “One Playlist, One Soul”.In conclusion, it can not always be a totally good thing. Watch out for someone who would just try to fill the holes of broken communication with rhythm&blues. Good luck to you.

What does soppy mean?

If something is soppy, it means it is too sentimental. Over-sentimental and over-emotional.

The best way to send origami in the mail.?

a box would probably be the best option, but if the paper is real origami paper i wouldn't use packing peanuts because they can bend the paper too easily.

try just putting it into a small enough box so that it wont bounce around or anything.

My boyfriend is far too soppy?

Alright look most people see this in one way but i see it in another some of the people have answered infatuation well guess what im sorry but there is no such thing... what he is saying is that even though you have been together for only a month he is strong in your relation ship this is the best thing he has ever had yes i agree that he has done to much to show it but saying " I love you" is never to early if im right you've known each other before hand, but im sorry everyone not to offend but seriously there is no right or wrong when it comes to expressing love, its not possible because not any people this but guess what NO ONE IS THE SAME this is why you fall in love "truly" only once, if you can find that true love is up to you but he is hoping you are that person because he feels something he hasn't before
look i know im carrying on but the idea is he is trying to shower you with love but f you are uncomfortable with the online posts talk to him about it he should understand just tell him that your not comfortable with the online posts but honestly you should consider the personal talk a compliment and just say thanks and compliment him when he says that your beautiful or if he says "i love you" you should say im not ready to say that but if you are than its OK and say i hope you understand, and that should fis that if you really don't like it but you have to understand that love is never to early... only to late, because like i have posted on my own face book and msn

"somethings you cant wait for you just have to take the chance before it disappears"

... i understand that its to fast for you just sit him down and talk to him calmly and try to find level ground like him not to expect you saying i love you until your ready but you'll say something like " I like you too" to level it out when he says it, it just means he is trying to move forward and your asking if hell slow down just a little to where it doesn't hurt you to


but what ever you do if you do end the relation ship do not use any kind of messaging it may be easy for you but he will be crushed and it might put him in a never ending spiral of depression, just tell him face to face so you can both share the same pain equally and split equally

Birthday present for new boyfriend?

you should see what he likes or interests him. try to figure out for yourself what 'the' best present would be. you will be asking him a lot of questions. you can also take a walk at the mall and see what catches his eyes.
may be he doesnt like material things like my boyfriend.
when my boyfriend and i started to go out, for his first birthday i baked him a birthday cake which he loved. he asks for one every now and then .

good luck

Should i send this letter to my ex-boyfriend?

I know you are hurt (and I've been in your shoes recently, too) -- but this letter sounds VERY sappy, desperate, and clingy. None of it is going to make him feel sorry for you or change his mind about you, it's only gonna make you seem pathetic in his mind. DON'T SEND IT. Just my humble opinion.

I wrote a draft of a letter to a girlfriend that cheated on me and it came across the same way. When I had my best buddy read it, he said the same things about it that I'm saying about your letter. So I didn't send it. Then I read my letter a month later and was like "WOW, I can't believe I wrote that and was considering sending it -- it sounds pathetic!"

You're too close to the situation emotionally right now, you need to separate yourself from your emotions with time so that you can think more rationally about it.

In short, maybe write something short and quick with much less emotion simply stating your disappointment, or better yet....just move on.

Nothing you write, though, will likely lure him back. Writing letters of desperation are always a losing proposition.

Chins up, hon. You'll find someone better than this guy anyway.

Sending him a random "thinking of you" text?

i got off the phone with this guy i'm dating about an hour ago and he was going to sleep. would it be cute or creepy if i sent him a text saying something like "i miss you babe. i'm thinking about you and can't wait to see you!"???..i love when a guy sends me a random text telling me he's thinkin about me..but do guys think it's weird?

Should I send a song (Spotify link) to the guy I like describing my current feelings for him?

Please don't do that. Why do ya'll do that?You think you're being sweet. You think you're being provocative and fun and quirky. You're not. You're forcing him to stop whatever the hell he's doing at the time and listen to some random damn song while trying to decipher exactly what you're hoping he'll get out of it.Chances are, he won't even listen to it. I wouldn't.To quote the words of the great Sheldon Cooper:"You haven't given me a gift; you've given me an obligation."Tell him in plain ol' fashion words. Don't play musical charades.

I sent emotional texts too soon and that turned him off. He said he would have loved to continue what we started, but the messages were 'a bit too much' to say the least. I acknowledged what I did and I'm now leaving him alone. Is there any chance he will come back?

First of all.... calm down. You obviously really like this guy and can't seem to stop thinking about him 24/7. Because of this, you sent him very emotional messages that you knew turned him off. He might really like you, but if you smother someone that much, he will get scared and feel like he's being pushed into something way too soon. He has his own pace, you have yours. Now is a good time to examine why you're moving in so fast. Are you afraid you're going to loose this great man you've met? Do you feel like if you don't move fast, he'll go away? If that's the case, you definitely need to be more confident about yourself. Trust yourself. Since he already stated he wants to continue what you guys have started, it's already a great sign he's very much into you! Let that make you happy. Smile about it and be happy that he's liked you for you. Live your life, the one that your independent self has lived before him and take little steps... letting him slowly experience what makes you happy, vice versa. You don't have to worry about loosing him. If it's meant to be, it'll be. Just don't try to smother him with yourself, let him have his space. Believe it or not, you do too! Enjoy the loving sensations and let life be.

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