I'm 18 and I've never had a boyfriend?
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. Guys will approach just about any girl, mainly because they want to get below their underwear. If I was you, I would take my time and find the right guy, not just any guy. If you try to go for any guy, he will end up hurting you and you will no longer be a virgin and it is exactly what he would have wanted. You will know when the right guy comes along. He will treat you with respect and he will never put you into a compromising position. Here are some things to be careful of since you are in college. First, you should know that there are more rapes at colleges then any where else in the US. If the guy wants to be alone with you in a private place be weary. He just wants to get between your legs. If you go to a party, don't drink anything that any one gives you. Get your drinks yourself and don't drink anything that you have set down somewhere. Also, don't drink to much or you might end up waking up next to a guy that you don't know. Now, your friends get guys with out approaching them because they are when the guys approach them, they are more willing to spread their legs. I am not calling your friends sluts or whores, but they are more willing to put out then a virgin. Don't be pressured to put out just to get a guy. You will end up regretting it. Good Luck.
If my boyfriend says he loves someone else, then what should I do?
Firstly here is a virtual hug from me. I am sure you need it. Why else would you ask us this?I am sure you are a smart and a charming woman . you don't need to waste your time over someone who walks over to you and tells you he loves someone else. Actually I am not sure how it is that this particular "love for someone " was revealed. He could be a nice guy who could not live with the fact that he was living a lie and finally told you the truth or he could be a douche for having hidden it ultimately ending in a situation where you found it which made him confess. Whatever maybe the situation trust me when I say this . This is a boon that you found out. Imagine few month's or years for now it would be harder to live with the pain of being cheated on. Life is short . You need to fill it with people who are worthwhile and love you for what you are . Move on . Take time to heal . When it is time you will find the right man. There are plenty of good men out there.respect my dear is key for any relationship to sustain. If he has cheated on you that there is a proof of having no respect for you. You don't need to think twice . One suggestion would be be to take time before you move onto another relationship.Break up's are never easy and makes a person vulnerable. Take it easy .Spend some time with your family and friend's. You will be just fine.
Can I be in love with my boyfriend after 2 months?
So hard to answer this quickly BUT... I think its wonderful u feel this way but its way too early. The first few months are mostly always like that. Give it a year or so and see how it goes before u make any major decisions. But its nothing wrong with telling him u love him now.
I’m 18-years-old and I’ve never had a boyfriend. No boy has “hit on me” or asked me out for a date. I’m not fat or chubby. Does that mean I’m ugly and why I don't have a boyfriend?
No, you’re probably not ugly. I can’t tell you you’re not because 1. Everyone has their own idea of what is attractive and 2. Idk what you look like. However, even ugly people get boyfriends so don’t worry.I’m going to be blunt with my reasons though:You don’t meet boys. If you don’t come into contact with boys then you won’t get a boyfriend. They’re not fairy godmothers.Your personality. Maybe you’re not appealing because of your personality. A lot of guys will be put off by certain personality types. That’s not saying your personality is bad, but that you haven’t come into contact with someone it gels with.People know you’re just looking for a boyfriend. If you’re just out there looking for any old guy to fill the boyfriend slot in your life, they’ll know. No one wants to be picked because they’re just there or show interest.You don’t have any interests in common with them. People like to have things they both like and to be able to communicate with one another.You’re intimidating. Maybe you’re very pretty or too loud. Or always with a group of friends? People can find that intimidating and won’t approach.I would suggest jusy not worrying. My first serious relationship wasn’t until I was 20. my first boyfriend was at 16 because he was one of my close friends and the only boy I knew well. My second boyfriend at 17–18 was a friend of another male friend.Even my first serious relationship at 20 was a guy who was housemates and friends with my friend from work : it was just coincidence of meeting someone I gelled with.You may not meet anyone like that for a long time, or you might end up having a guy show up who fucked up five years ago only to sweep you off your feet and fall in love with him (my boyfriend). You never know. Don’t worry so much.Work on enjoying your hobbies, doing fun stuff, going on adventures and so on….you’ll be attractive to people who see you have your own interests and personality, and likely meet someone who also shares those passions.Also just don’t worry if you’re ugly. Everyone is kind of ugly when you think about it.
I have fallen in love with a girl, but she has a boyfriend. What do I do?
Why did you fall in love with someone who already has a boyfriend? Okay! I understand. It happens. So, start thinking about “What ifs” first.Assume you have proposed her. She has rejected you coz she already has a boyfriend. Nice girl she is! What got wasted now? Your feelings got wasted. Time wasted. Most important thing is you are heart broken.Assume that she accepted your proposal. Congratulations man!! Finally you got a girlfriend. But she ditched her boyfriend for you. Someday she will ditch you for someone else too. What's the guarantee?Assume she loves you back and she has a boyfriend too. What is she doing? She is cheating on her boyfriend. Someday she will feel guilty for her act and might leave both the guys.Let's say her boyfriend is an idiot but still she loves him. Then you have taken a step and proposed her. One fine day she has realized and accepted your proposal. Then Your love story has just begun.Assume you have proposed her. She told her boyfriend about this. He got pissed off with this. Now you know what to do! Run for your life.What if she politely rejects your proposal and says she doesn't want to lose you as friend? Will you be able to take it? If so, be a good friend of her.Assume that you love her truly even after she rejected your proposal. Will you start crying for her daily and ruin your career? Nah, you shouldn't. Life is much more than that girl who rejected you.Conclusion: If not Anushka Sharma, you might end up with Deepika Padukone tomorrow :DNever lose hope.Mi Amor!