Leaving home at 18 in philippines? pls help!!!
In Filipino culture, a son or a daughter usually leaves home, aside from going to college and living in apartments or dorms, only if there is a job offering that requires him/her to be away or if he/she got married.. It is not necessary but you definitely can do it if you want to.. This practice was derived from western culture and proved to be a catalyst for teaching a person to be independent and responsible. The downside is that you cannot do all the things that you want as an adult because you have to conform with your parents at some decisions you make and it would also be harder financially..
Can I get sued for throwing away someone's belongings??????!!?
I could sit here and give you a multitude of legal arguments about this case, so much so that you would want to jump off the roof with worry. But, the long and the short of this case is, you do not have to worry about a thing.O.K so he is going to be P.Od at you for dumping his paperwork, but apart from giving you a good cussing, there is not a lot he can do. So just come clean and tell him that you did some house clearing, you could not locate him, so you dumped the box. Stand back while he is telling you your fortune and that is that.Do not give it one more minute of your time. All of the papers he can get replaced, will cost him a dollar or two but he can get them done. I have received a thumbs down!!!! Have you guys that are all so-called experts never heard of the rules of abandonment? This property was abandoned and as such this person has nothing to worry about. Try leaving your suit at the dry cleaners or your car in the workshop for a year and see if it is still there when you come back.
How is it to stay away from home?
The experience is bitter sweet . These are a few things to just give you a picture of how it is :1. There is nobody to wake you up in the morning. Chances are you will be late for lectures or work . 2. There is nobody to cook for you, you will starve and you will always be hungry for home made food .3. There is nobody to pay your bills , so chances are you will be often out of balance on your phone. 4.There is nobody to oil your hair , you will learn to shampoo without oiling (for girls*).5. There is nobody to take you to the doctor when you are sick , chances are you will wait to get well soon all by yourself.6.There is nobody to cover up your mistakes, Oh boy , you will miss your siblings then.7.There is nobody to do laundry ,you will do it only when you are out of clothes to wear.8. Festivals wont feel like festivals. You will miss the delicious food and family .9. You will make friends ,all kinds of them .10.When you go back home for holidays , you will have a list of items you want to eat before you leave and your mom will be surprised to see you folding your bed after waking up in the morning. To sum up , living away from home will teach you to be independent and to take care of yourself.You will learn to prioritize things and act accordingly always. You will learn to make choices.You will get the opportunity to do everything you had ever fantisized of , and you will learn to pick the right things eventually. In midst of all this , you will learn to remind yourself the sole purpose of you leaving home . That purpose will always keep you pushing and going . Every person who will hurt you , every moment that will make you feel as if you are good for nothing , will only make you stronger and kinder . At last, you will grow and will be grateful for everything that you went through , and will be proud of yourself.
Friend keeps leaving things at my house?
I need help, my friend comes over and spends the night occasionally, and she has the habit of bringing over alot of her stuff to my house (video games, dvds, pills, blankets...etc) and she just leaves them here (she only lives about five minutes away from me so its not like its inconvenient for her to take her things home so they aren't in my way when I clean). I've tried subtly telling her to take her things home, hinting at it, and when she comes to visit, I'll even put her things in bags and put them by the door in hopes she takes them home (sometimes she does, sometimes she doesn't). Aside from telling her straight out that she needs to take her things home (its cluttering up my room) what can I do to make sure she doesn't leave her things here again?
How can I leave my dog home alone without her behaving badly.?
I have several problems with my 1 year old boxer girl. I feel trapped inside my own house. I have to bring her everywhere I go or have someone watch her everytime I want to go somewhere. If she is left alone she goes to the bathroom in the house or destroys things. I have tested her several times and shes a devil everytime. I do not have a crate but one time I left and decided to keep her in my large master bathroom while I left for only twenty minutes (i figured it was kind of like being in a crate at the time) well when I got home I realized she freaked out. I tried opening the door and she locked herself inside. When I busted the door open there was poop everywhere (walls, towels, sink, shower, toilet and on her!) and she ripped whatever she could apart. I need to be able to leave my home without worrying about her. I NEED A LIFE, i cant even go out to get milk! Everyones saying get a crate, but shes been in a crate before and went to the bathroom in it.
If you had to leave your home forever, what 10 items would you bring?
For this answer, I'm going to assume that I bring all this in a standard backpack, so I won't add it into the list. So, here it goes!My phone. With service. With the apps that I have still available. Among the most important of them would be the Qur'an app in there. (You might be wondering, “why not take a physical copy?” I would, but I worry it might get jumbled up and get scuffed with the other items. So, for ease, I'll just take my phone with the Qur'an app.)A journal with a pen. This I don't worry about too much. It's not a holy book to me, and although I do care for it, I wouldn't be distraught if it suffered in some way.A credit card. This way, if I'm not in the best financial state, I'll still be able to feed myself (temporarily).Honey Bunches of Oats with 25% More Almonds. Yes, cereal. I've grown addicted to this! It's too bad I can't eat it whenever though, but it's definitely going in the bag.A water bottle. An empty one. Not for drinking though! If I go to a public restroom, I'll use it for cleansing myself afterwards. For people who don't get what I mean, google istinja.A toothbrush. I mean, I need one. Most of us do.A pocket blanket. Because I crave warmth when I doze off and this will fit in my bag when I'm awake.A multitool. Because no matter what you say, I might need one of those thingabobs on the streets. (Yeah, don't ask.)Sunscreen. I thought I tanned quite nicely this summer, but I don't want cancer.Last but not least…my husband. Actually, I can't fit him in a backpack, but I would if I could. So instead, I'll bring something smaller.10. (For real this time) an extra set of clothes. I might not have a shower for a while, but I'm not interested in wearing sweaty clothes.
I need to leave my home. Where can I go?
Your inability to decide where you really want to go leaving your parents, must be enough to explain you how immature you are. Chill boy, I felt the same until I was 18 and I was fighting with my mother when one of the nerves in my brain ruptured to provide me with a brain hemorrhage. No one except my parents paid the hospital bill amounting to lakhs and they were the ones crying even after 1 year whenever they recalled their fear of losing me. They were there helping me in learning how to brush teeth at the age of 18.Hypothetical Solution : Talk to them. Tell them they're irritating you in whatever they're doing. Ask them whether they're comfortable with you living apart?Oh yes, you might be one of those who feel you're made for some particular area of study or another country or whatever. If you really have the zest, parents are the least you'd face as a problem in pursuing it.I don't really want to lecture you, you might not even read it up, but you know? Parents love you. They'll love you forever. And even if you don't love them, never tell them that. They get hurt.
I'm leaving home for good tomorrow. Have you any advice or tips to help me survive on my own?
I am completely fed up with my dysfunctional family and their childish behaviour. They have been holding me back for so long. And my Dad is a ******* prick **** idiot! So I am leaving home tomorrow, the decision has been made. I have £950 in my bank account, a full tank of fuel in my car, a line drawn out on a road map to my destination (London) and an excited feeling in my gut! Can anyone who has already left home give me any advice, tips or wisdom they have learnt to help me survive on my own? Whether its advice on specific things I must remember to help me, tips on how to look after myself or ways to pick myself up if I am feeling down. Anything at all that you have learnt that you think will help me. Thankyou very much for your time!
How did you know it was time to leave home?
I feel that whatever and whenever you feel comfortable to move out of your comfort zone, is exactly when you are ready.Communication with your parents, and or others you confide in, may help you to come to a decision, and or "path" that you could take to ensure success in your endeavors.Do not feel that there is a "right" or "wrong" time, and don't allow any social stigmas to push you into a situation that you aren't comfortable with. moving out is huge life changing event. Make sure you ready, emotionally, spiritually, physically, and economically before you take the plunge.Paying off a student can be A LOT easier with the economical freedoms of living under your parents roof. Keep in mind, when you are out on your own, so many unexpected expenses can pop up suddenly. Budgeting is an essential life-skill at this point as well.there is no harm in asking friends and or other family members; how they felt when they moved out for the first time, what did they find out/learn, ask them about any tips or suggestions they may have, etc. thinking back to when i moved out for the first time, i was NOT mentally prepared, nor was i mature enough, and i ended up "falling on my face", and right back to my parents with my proverbial tail between my legs....preparedness is the key, and "social timelines" mean nothinghope this helps