My twin sister and I have drifted apart because I don't like her boyfriend. I wanna fix it, but idk how. Help?
Me and my twin sister have always been really close but we don't hang out anymore and hardly talk because I don't like her boyfriend, and I've tried, I just don't like him. It's really effecting our relationship and I don't know how to fix it. Any advice??
Are me and my sister drifting apart?! :'(?
I'm sorry you're going through this... I am going through the EXACT same thing with my younger brother. Anyways, It sounds like she's just going through an "I'm too cool" phase & I TRULY believe she will grow out of it. Eventually you will be close again...it will never be exactly the same & that's really hard to accept, I know. The truth is, you will always go through phases but you will always love eachother...even if she wants to be a bratt about it! One day she will realize that family comes first, & family are the people who will ALWAYS have your back, ALWAYS embarrass you, & ALWAYS love you..no matter who you are. Just keep being a great sis, girl! She will see. :)
Why is my twin sister drifting away from me?
I know what you mean. I have a brother who is only a year older than me and we are really very close which upsets some people. (like our public displays of affection). And we have always kissed on the lips (not french kiss of course) and I didn't see anything abnormal with that until people started making comments.. My brother wasn't bothered much, but I was. I don't want people to think I have a thing going on with my brother. I started avoiding him in public and in private as much as I could because I also started believing (after I had a conversation with one of my cousins) that my brother actually wants to have sex with me!!! She convinced me that his behavior points to that (he is more touchy-feely than I am and always has been) Our relationship got totally ruined for a few months and it was a really difficult time for me, because my brother is my best friend too, he is everything to me. Then my brother finally decided that we needed to talk and although it was really uncomfortable and awkward - we managed to talk through everything that bothered us. We are back to being like we were. What I mean is, try talking to your sister, openly and in private. Good luck.
My cousin and i are drifting apart...its all over a boy too. WHAT DO I DO? please answer!?
my and my cousin are closer then sisters. its GREAT! but ever since she met this boy its like i never see her. i dont ever talk to her anymore and the situation is starting to get really sour. I hate the guy and she knows that so we never really talk about it. i want to just tell her how much i miss her and i want to not have to hear about this guy. I HATE IT! its super hard to explain and if this isnt making sense please tell me. I just dont know what to do without her, but it seems like she wants our relationship to end. HELP!
I'm worried about my best friend. Will we drift apart?
Hi, I think that me and my BFF might be drifting apart. We are both 14 and we went to the same primary school but we are at different secondary schools. We still meet up, but there are lots of awkward silences where neither one of us knows what to talk about. I also think she likes my 13 year old sister more than me as my friend is always laughing when she's with us and I feel like the third wheel :( if we all three hang out together I feel invisible and ignored. I don't want us to stop being friends because we have been friends since we were babies and I don't have many other friends. She wants me to come to see her when she's with her grandparents in the half term but she will probably want my sister to come too but I want it to be just us. I'm worried that she will start inviting my sister along to anything we do. I'm quite a boring person and I don't know what fun things to say sometimes and I get really tired and run down. I'm scared she thinks I'm boring. What am I going to do? Xx
Why do brothers and sisters drift apart after getting married?
We get wrapped up in our little world of taking care of our family's.. Maybe since you notice this you can talk to your brothers and sisters before you drift to far apart.
Me and my girlfriend have been drifting apart since I left for college, and I feel like it might be time to pull the plug. But I am very good friends with her sister (non-romantic) and I don't want to lose that friendship. What should I do?
Don’t worry, your girlfriend who is drifting away is also wondering how to tell you that it is time to pull the plug. Ask your sister - she probably knows the new potential boyfriends that your girlfriend is eyeing.
Why did you grow apart from your siblings?
I grew up with an older sister and brother.Until we became adults, we had no choice about where we lived or what we wore. My mom stayed home with us which meant I had hand-me-downs and clothes from good will. At the start of every school year we got one new outfit, one no one else had ever worn.We spent a lot of time in the car, running errands with mom, or traveling the 8 hours to visit grandma. Being cooped up in a station wagon for hours at a time was like torture.It was mandatory to attend church three times each week, twice on Sunday and then again on Wednesday evening. We were all expected to dress in our best clothes.Growing up along with our siblings, one would think that with what we experience it would create a bond that would withstand the test of time.This is definitely not the case with my family. Although we were in close physical proximity to each other, we kept an emotional distance from one another. We never shared our innermost dreams, fears, desires, or feelings of any kind.As adults we all went our separate ways. We are all in our fifties at this point. We are so different. My sister is gun-toting middle-class conservative, with two kids who I am very close to. My brother, b. 1965 – d. 2016, was a conservative with a mental illness, who lived just above the poverty line. I turned out to be upper middle-class open-minded liberal universal healthcare advocate with one child and a husband who was financially responsible, providing us with a comfortable retirement.I am still in contact with my niece and nephew, but my sister and mother disowned me. We have little in common and without their dedication to “family”, I don’t find much use for them in my life.I have instilled a STRONG sense of family into my son. He has proven to make good life choices that support our family. If he had a sibling, I know they would have developed a bond that would withstand the test of time and distance.Just because you grew up in the same family/household doesn’t mean you will have much in common as adults. It is up to each individual if they choose to keep that bond going in spite of the differences. I would have gladly made that choice, but my mom and sister did not.This disconnect may also be due to being raised by a narcissistic mother who never created an emotional bond with any of her children.