Why do I keep making the wrong decisions in life?
My young friend , we don't take wrong decisions.When you take it , you take it with a certain. Level of information based on certain situations and circumstances .Now lets come to why we term it as “ wrong decisions”. We do this in the consequence of the decision phase where we realise that we should have taken a different decision or we missed out on some aspect which results din the decision failing us or as you say it wrong .Its easy for us or anyone to tell us this decision was a failure .Remember failure is an event .its not you.Wrong decisions are opportunities to take more intelligent decisions .Question is has these wrong decisions led you to do more meticulous planning orhas it made you Impatient, quick tempered ? Do you doubt yourself where your outlook is that your decision will backfire ?at the first sign of decisions showing a sign of things going bad , you decide its backfired and give up ?Bottom line ; life philosophy ;Have you tried to learn from these decisions ?Do you refer when you think or talk about it as “ failures “ or “ learning”“ mistakes “ or experience ?Use every setback or wrong decision to sharpen your axe .What you have to do is take pride is that in your 20′s you are taking wrong decisions that's because you are taking decisions..We cannot achieve anything in life if everything we do succeeds .Its said surefire way to succeed is to accelerate your failure by doubling it but they shouldn't be mistakes that you repeat .Maintain a decision notebook .Track each decision .do both pre mortems and post mortemsBefore you take it , write down your plan .Write down what could go wrong and what can you do to prevent it .Post the decision , implement what you would do to make the decision work - it could be something you do or don't do .Maybe its to be more Patient ( you can't prepare a 2 minute Maggi Noodle in 30 secondsLearn from both pre planning the decision and post decisions analysis to decide on a plan and also how to or what to do when stuff backfires.Wherever possible , take the help of someone's time , ability , skill , knowledge or support .It could be single or multiple people.Remember even the KFC Fast food chain which is globally present was started by a guy at 65 after taking what a lot of people would say are wrong decisions
Please help with life changing decision.?
I am a 15 year old male and live in Canada. For all of my life, my friends have made fun of me for being uncircumcised. They made fun of me because they said it looked nasty and nobody will ever love me because of it. I attempted to ignore these insults, and as a response, they nick-named me "sausage"....(because the tied end if you understand). Everybody in my school calls me it. And all the girls ask me why they call me it and I am so embarrassed and try to change the subject. Finally, I have been mentally disturbed and am so embarrassed. I have researched lots of facts about circumcision and I know lots of people say that they have lost lost of sensitivity in their penis and their sex life has been ruined. Yet still I overruled these cons with the benefits from STI's and infections and mostly health and cosmetic reasons. I finally had the courage to ask my mom and she said no. I started to get upset and told her my life from people making fun of me, even in health class the girls said uncircumcised looked nasty. My mom finally agreed. And she said we should go see a doctor and talk to them for more information and opinions. Now, please tell me if I am doing the right thing or making the biggest mistake of my life.
Circumcision...Opinions?
I don't think boys should be circumcised because it's unnecessary and causes them pain. There's no medical reason for foreskin removal when they are so young and before anything has gone wrong. It's not cleaner...in fact it's dirtier to have an exposed wound in a diaper compared to a normal intact penis (the foreskin is actually there to protect the glans and the urethra). Where I live in Australia fewer than 10% of boys are circumcised and that's the case in Europe too, most places around the world, it's just the USA where it's still done but even then only 50% of boys are circumcised nowadays. My boyfriend is uncircumcised and has never had a problem, the foreskin gives him pleasure and is fun to play with. It doesn't smell and he's never considered having it removed. A guy should be able to make his own choice, and circumcising a baby takes that choice away (as well as some sexual sensation!) Harriet
Do you think the incidence of men wanting to "veto" their girlfriend's abortion ...?
is even a fraction as high as the incidence of men *encouraging* and attempting to influence their girlfriend to HAVE an abortion that she doesn't necessarily want? I have never, in my own experience, known a man who desperately wanted his partner to have the baby she was determined to abort. I have never known a man to want to "veto" his girlfriend's abortion. I HAVE known cases in which boyfriends attempted to persuade their partner to have an abortion when she didn't want one. Do you think men desperately wanting their baby are even half as common as men trying to influence their partner to have an abortion against her will? From the looks on this forum of the mass male indignation over not being able to control those murderous irresponsible women's bodies, you'd think men were so angelic that they would never ask a woman to abort their baby. In fact, I'm almost certain that they do so MORE often than they request to keep their babies.
Are all men like this...or is my husband just hard headed?
he is immature and doesn't want to work, why do you think he keeps quiting jobs? a real man will do what he has to to support his wife and kid, when my girl was pregnant i worked at a crappy factory and had a part time job at papa johns i know sounds bad but i was only 22 then now we are more stable,